Innehållsförteckning för May 2023 från BONA Magazine

BEAUTY In recent years, we have seen trends such as the ‘clean girl’ aesthetic and ‘your skin but better’ looks dominate our social media timelines. But in actual fact, these trends are cyclical, resurfacing every few years with reimagined twists in an effort to make them appear new and different to the undiscerning eye. However, there is one thing they have in common: purveyors of these trends always tend to look effortlessly luxe and chic. So without breaking the bank, we've put together just what you'll need to look, well, put together. A BLANK CANVAS Every great look begins with a great blank canvas. What makes the canvas great? Glowing skin. Choosing a good moisturiser is key to getting started with creating the luxe look as well as selecting the…

With autumn coming to an end and winter welcoming itself, there are fashion staples we need in our wardrobes for those cosy days. Layering will be your day-today look, so investing in the basics are essential. More importantly, spending some money on trends that are transitional, functional and look good is the best thing to do. The neutrals trend is a great one that allows you to pair neutral garments with any other colour. Whether you opt for the tailored details of the garment, clean lines, or if you are more adventurous and want something with a fun print or texture, neutrals are here to stay. FASHION EDITOR'S PICKS THE TAILORED FIT ALL ABOUT PRINTS AND TEXTURES…

COVER STORY Love take on many shaps and forms, and the countless expressions of love change from childhood to adulthood. When you're younger it's almost easier to play games with love and with the people who love and support you, but as you mature you realise that love must never be taken for granted becaude with it comes a flood of support, understanding and unconditional joy. Zola Nene has a support system behind her that is rooted in love. At the heart of it is her mother (Bongekile Nene) and her sister (Zamokuhle van der Westhuizen). 'What makes my family special is how open we are with each other. We discuss and talk about pretty much anything and everything. We openly joke with each other and also call each other…

WHAT’S HOT The much anticipated local movie The Honeymoon dropped a month ago and social media has been abuzz about its release. This South African chick flick is a comedy adventure that brings together a stellar cast that includes Kajal Bagwandeen, Tumi Morake and Minnie Dlamini. Directed by award-winning Bianca Issac, the story takes you through the chaotic ups and downs of Noks, Kat and Lu - a trio who are friendship goals. The three find themselves in a predicament where Kat gets dumped ahead of her wedding day. Instead of being miserable and devastated by this tragedy, they decide to turn things around and put her honeymoon in Zanzibar to good use. From having a challenging time filming through the COVID-19 pandemic to adjusting to motherhood and returning to…

ASK A DOCTOR Whether they are newborn or middleaged, gender fluid or heterosexual, biological or adopted, born out of wedlock or in a marriage, children are a gift that transforms their mothers’ lives, forever. A lifetime bond between a mother and her child or children is one that comes with tremendous responsibility, tireless nurturing and unrelenting pressure for mothers to be the primary caregivers and custodians. How does any mother learn to juggle multiple roles while taking care of her own health? MOTHERHOOD AND WELLNESS Studies show that the most challenging years for any mother starts from the newborn phase right up to peak adolescence. This means you’re at your busiest as a mom in raising your child for a minimum period of 18 years. It brings us to the…

When adults demand to know the identities of their fathers, it’s no laughing matter. No one is exempt from the pain of longing for their biological fathers. Not even celebrity musician Kelly Khumalo. She has won many awards, sold millions of albums and appears to be at the pinnacle of her career. On Instagram alone she has 2.6 million followers and continues to intrigue us. But on the reality show Life With Kelly Khumalo, the star poured her heart out to a friend about the pain of not knowing her biological father. Tve always wanted a fatherly love and searched in the wrong places. There’s a missing part of who you are. It hurts so hard,’ she said. Romantic relationships are supposed to end up in marriage, right? Or at…

As naturalistas take up space in the world of haircare, so does the rise of differing opinions, methods and techniques on how to care for it. The list of dos and don'ts seem endless, making the thought of embarking on a natural haricare journey seem daunting. Well, fret not. We are here to debunk some of the most common myths concocted by the worldwide web so that caring for your hair at home doesn't have to feel so overwhelming. First things first, let's get familiar with texture. Kinky, coily and curly describe the kind of hair that exists in type 4 category. Beautiful and bouncy with tight ringlets brimming with vitality, this hair texture can feel soft and fine, or rough and coarse. With this hair type, shrinkage is a…

The saying 'live every day as if it were your last' unfortunately can't be applied to many people's financial situations. If your're not planning ahead financially, there is a chance you could be overlooking some financial areas that could become a thorn in your side in the future. We all recognise that saving for home ownership and retirement is a social norm, but there are some expenses that can be planned for now to avoid headaches and, possibly, a debt snowball later on. Generally, most people admit that they do not budget and worrry about money at least once a day. But interestingly, they only keep tabs on their accounts and debt once a month. It seems time is spent worrying instead of focusing on money management so finances suffer…

Winter is almost here and you don’t want your family feeling sick this season, so it’s advisable to prepare for these few months of cold weather. It is always best to have a well-stocked fridge, freezer and pantry anytime of the year. However, having vitamins and medication on hand is vital and the same applies to having the right food in your kitchen! To explain the best options for stocking up on foods and supplements for your family we spoke with dietitians. TYPES OF FOODS TO AVOID IF YOU WANT TO START BEING MORE NUTRIENT WISE FOR YOUR FAMILY Magdelie Theron is a registered dietitian from Paardevlei Dietitians and says that you should acknowledge that each member of the family has unique nutritional needs as their requirements change and develop…

Growing up, *Zaza Bashe and her sister Bongi Bashe were inseparable. Their close bond also gave them strength during their parents' divorce and the subsequent remarriage of both. Zara shares her experience: 'But soon thereafter, Bongi changed a lot. She started speaking to me in a rude way and spoke ill of my mom. Although this shocked me at first, I paid no attention to it.' In the blog Therapy For Black Girls, Jasmine Belvin, a licensed mental health counsellor, explains that 'as life continues to change and progress, so do our relationships.' Family is regarded as sacred. People will often tell you, it's better to just get on with it: 'You're only got one family, even if they're not prefect.' But what happens if the family relations are toxic?…

Decorating your home can become pricey very quickly, especially if you have your heart set on purchasing good artwork. This is why it’s great when you can take that aspect of decorating your home into your own hands. This has very little to do with perfection or true artistry but more to do with letting your creativity and imagination run wild. With some crafting supplies and a little imagination, you can create your own expensive-looking D1Y wall art in no time. This is also a fun activity where you can include your family as well and who knows, you might even have a Picasso living right under your nose. Remember, art is what you make of it and perfection doesn’t exist. Digital creator and seasoned DIYer Lisa Madibe Missouri and…

Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No, it’s Supermom! Flying high wearing her apron cape, swooping in to save the day! I mean, the power of moms doesn’t need to be romanticised. It is palpable and visible every day. You meet an incredible man with manners and lightness of touch, and he tells you what an amazing mother he had. And all tlie success stories that acknowledge the single mom who sacrificed it all for her child's dream to come true. Batswana say ‘Mme tshwara thipa ka fa bogaleng’ - A mother holds the sharp end of the knife’. Of course yes! We get cut. For the love of our children - the ones we birthed, the ones we adopt, the ones we are married to. And nothing…

Suit Up! The iconic matching co-ord suit. Nothing screams nostalgia like this plaid fabrication, which also pays homage to the '90s fashion trend. DRESS UP Name a colour more powerful than red… Opt for a more modest approach like this dress with high neck detailing and long sleeves. NOSTALGIA Everybody say 'gloves'. These rich purple tones give you more of an autumn/winter feel and although it's sleevelss, the gloves are there to accessorise the arms. BLAZER Oversized shoulder pads are defiitely something our mothers rocked in their day and it gets a modern twist with the sheer corset detailing in the midsection. COLOUR Off-the-shoulder garments always create an element of sexy. The lime green colour definetly gives this look a modern edge. PLAYFUL Nostalgic fashion definitely screams more is more…

CAREERS MEET THE EXPERTS BONGIWE BEJA-NTSIKO Bongiwe is a Chartered Development Finance Analyst (CDFA) by profession. She is the founding director of Transire Consulting, a social impact organisation that focuses on youth development, SMME development and education. She holds an MCom Development Finance degree (cum laude) from the UCT Graduate School of Business. SISONKE POTA-NKONKI Sisonke Pota-Nkonki is a qualified Life Coach based in the Eastern Cape. She has a human resources qualification and extensive work experience in recruitment and selection. Sisonke is the founder and CEO of an empowerment organisation called SiiSonke Women Round Tables (SWRT). She is an advisory committee member of the Maude Foundation and serves as a corportate social responsibility task team member for the Businesswomen's Association of South Africa: Gqeberha branch. There are many reasons…

When I asked my daughter what she thought of the latest car in the garage, her answer proved to be such a succinct responce that encapssulated what the general theme of this review will be: 'Porbably the most reasonable car to come into the garage recently, Paps'. I laughed and thought, 'Ja, I suppose so', but as the week went on her comment proved to be spot on. Bear in mind that the last couple of weeks have seen Mercedes' V300d, C220d and most imposingly, the GLE 400d Coupe all come into the care of the Keohane household. Add to the mix the rarity that I drove over December - Alfa Romeo's Giulia - and the enormous Isuzu D-Max that Oliver tested not too long ago. In the context of…

HOME HELP You’re in the middle of cooking supper, catching up on work or hitting the couch to binge your favourite series after a long day when suddenly - it’s lights out. With load-shedding schedules and stages constantly changing, it is oftentimes hard to keep up. Load shedding can disrupt our daily lives and leave us feeling helpless and frustrated if we are not adequately prepared. But fear not, there are ways to prepare and minimise the impact of power cuts on our daily lives. During these times, having the right tools at your disposal can make ail the difference. We share some of the essential items that you should consider adding to your load-shedding survival kit. By investing in some of these items, you can minimise the disruptive effect…

Top Tip Harissa is a fiery North African spiced chilli paste. Adjust the amount of harissa according to the product you use and the heat level you prefer. As winter sets in and the chill in the air becomes more biting, there's nothing quite like a warm and hearty meal to llift your spirits and nourish your soul. We've curated our favourite winter recipes, each designed to evoke feelings of comfort, cosiness and joy. These meals are guarantee to bring a smile to your face and warmth to your belly. From a comforting, spicy and fragant pumpkin harissa soup to a decadent dar chocolate cake, these recipes are the perfect antidote to the winter blues. So why not grab your apron and get cooking? Your taste buds will than you…