Innehållsförteckning för August 2015 från Fairlady

When I first started working in magazines, the prevailing wisdom was that if you put the following words on the cover (not necessarily in one sentence) – Sex, Chocolate, Hair, Shoes – then women would buy the magazine. It struck me as patronising even then, and to be honest I never really noticed that they made much difference when we did put them on the cover. But I am pretty sure they’d have even less impact now. Because what I think women really fantasise about these days is running our own business. It’s not that corporate life is so terrible, or that we hate our colleagues, or even that we necessarily have a brilliant idea we want to act on: we just want to be in charge of how we…

MY NAME IS SUPPOSED TO BE… Orpah. It’s from the Bible; the first chapter of the book of Ruth. It’s misspelled. The p got put before the r on my birth certificate. MY SINGLE GREATEST CHARACTER FLAW…  is the importance I put on wanting to be liked. That comes from having been abused as a child – being beaten and not even being able to be angry or to have any emotions about it. I was trained to believe that other people’s feelings were more important than my own, and that only through pleasing somebody could I be loved. MY SOLACE GROWING UP WAS…  education. It was my bright and shining moment, my saviour. I wanted to do for the girls in South Africa what my teachers had done for…

After interviewing minimalist Angela Horn, I sit for a while shoving my various possessions back into my bag. She stands next to me, ready to leave but waiting to say goodbye. She’s light as air, wearing a simple gunmetal grey sweater and a practical backpack. I’m fumbling with my heavy coat and messenger bag, bits and pieces threatening to spill from my pockets. At the back of my mind I’m wondering, where’s my parking ticket, do I have cash, do I need petrol, where’s my phone? The contrast between us couldn’t be more clear: less stuff, less stress. Meeting Angela makes me think that (counterintuitive as it may sound) minimal possessions make for maximum freedom. Finding more in less Angela’s journey with minimalism began in 2008, when she faced the…

Last year, Nomakhakhayi Mandiphiwe (not pictured) earned five distinctions. In 2013, Sinombongo Macekiswayo got six distinctions, four of them above 90%. She’s currently studying Medicine at UCT. ‘Sinenjongo has become a beacon of hope and a source of pride for this community,’ says Rabie Property Group communications manager Maggie Rowley. ‘The difference it has made in the lives of the learners and their families is incredible. The valedictory service each year is testament to this. The parents and families come in droves to celebrate the success of the learners and the school. There is not a dry eye among those of us privileged enough to be invited to attend.’ In 2012, Simbarashe Fadzi got five As. In 2011, Lukhanyo Velelo also got five. He was awarded a full scholarship from…

Petal Power A soft floral print can look old-fashioned if you’re not careful. Add a little edge by pairing it with something sheer, like this knit, and a trendy pair of ankle boots. A pocketful of posies Break up a solid allover print to give your body some shape – a darker scarf, roughly belted in your waist, does the trick! Pretty as a picture Foliage fashion goes preppy for this look! Slip on a soft jumper over a cotton shirt and leave the top buttons undone to keep it a little more laidback. Garden state Bring blooms to life with foliage-inspired 3D details – think fabric appliqués or a statement accessory, like this bold necklace. Still a bit chilly out for that little babydoll dress? Warm up a summery…

You could win a shopping spree worth R20 000 in vouchers from Woolworths, Edgars, Exact and Fashion Express! And of course, you can’t show off your fab new wardrobe without some chic designer accessories. To give your new look a super-stylish finish, you’ll also receive two pairs of Vera Wang shades worth R5 000, as well as Lipault travel handbags & luggage worth R10 000. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ANSWER ONE EASY QUESTION: Which famous designer sunglasses could you win in the Win a Shopping Spree Competition? HOW TO ENTER: Simply SMS the keyword SHOPPING, along with the answer, your full name, physical or postal address and email address to 33136. SMSes cost R1,50. Free SMSes don’t apply. CLOSING DATE: 31 August 2015. For the rules of the…

Beauty industry giant Clarins, along with FAIRLADY, Sarie & True Love, is looking for an inspiring woman who is improving the lives of disadvantaged and underprivileged children in South Africa. If you know of one such woman, we’d love to hear about her. The winner will receive R200 000 for her cause! How to nominate Log onto www.fairlady.com and tell us about your dynamic woman. She must be a South African citizen and she must agree to the nomination. In your nomination, explain how the R200 000 prize money (R150 000 in the winning year and R50 000 the following year) would be used to uplift the lives of the children she is working with. The closing date for nominations is 11 September 2015. For the rules of the competition,…

Apple & pear custard tart Serves 6–8 1 x 400g roll store-bought shortcrust pastry FOR THE FILLING 3 Cripps Pink apples, peeled, cored and sliced in half 3 Forelle pears, peeled, cored and sliced in half ½ cup water ½ cup sugar ½ tsp ground cinnamon FOR THE CUSTARD 2 cups full cream milk 2 tsp vanilla essence 2 cinnamon quills 4 egg yolks 60g castor sugar 3 tbsp flour Melted apricot jam for glazing 1. Preheat the oven to 200ºC. 2. Lightly roll out the pastry on a floured surface and press into the base and sides of a greased 22cm quiche tin. Trim off the overlapping pastry, line pastry with foil and fill with baking beans. Bake blind for 20 min, then remove the foil and baking beans…

The Narrow Road to the Deep North By Richard Flanagan (Chatto & Windus) At the heart of this novel is the construction of the Burma Railway by World War II prisoners of war. Australian medical doctor Dorrigo Evans is fighting in Java when his unit is captured by the Japanese. In the camp, Dorrigo manages to perform surgery on his fellow prisoners under terrible conditions, using homemade anaesthetics and improvised implements. Later, in post-war Australia, he’s a hero, famous for his courage and work in the prison camp. But he struggles with this growing celebrity status as he faces his own guilt and failings. The novel also tells the love story of Dorrigo and his uncle’s wife Amy, which spans half a century. The accounts of life in the camp;…

Test House is all about finding the highest quality items at the best prices. And for this test, there aren’t many items under R500. [In this case, we’d definitely recommend spending a bit more!] KETTLES HOW WE TESTED We tested speed of boiling (250ml, 500ml, 1L and max) and energy consumption (very little difference between kettles). We assessed features, and how easy it was to use each kettle – comfort, ease of filling and pouring, cleaning, visibility of ‘on’ lights and controls. Noise and weight were also considered. The latest models offer more flexibility – they can boil less water, use less energy and allow you to set the temperature. CUISINART (CPK17E) R1799 from Yuppiechef Sleek and stylish in design and versatile, with many advanced functions. It’s fairly pricey, but…

winning letter In response to ‘Time to let go?’ ‘Time to let go?’ (May 2015) came at just the right moment. I was struggling with whether to move on from my job, thinking ‘winners never quit’ and staying loyal – even though I was becoming miserable. By chance I bought FAIRLADY as a pick-me-up after a rough day at work. Reading the article was like someone talking to me, telling me everything I already knew but was fighting against. I handed in my resignation the next morning. There was no longer room for growth – in fact, I found out the next day that there would be a reshuffle and I was to be put in an even less fulfilling job. Even though I have no idea what’s next, I…

The ethos of ‘everyone’s child is my child’ is no more. We want people to think that way again. If everybody adopted that attitude, our children would be better protected. Pink Ladies was founded in 2007 when Sheldean Human, a little girl from Pretoria, went missing. The night she was found murdered, left in a storm water drain, a few of us who were involved with the search started an online chat group and decided there and then that we needed to put a stop to this sort of thing. Sheldean was wearing a little denim skirt and a pink top. That’s where we got our name – we decided that we would be the Pink Ladies. It became a mark of respect. We now wear pink shirts when we…

A Friday night, December 2014. I suppose the nightmare began when my colleagues at an international ad agency urged me to download a dating app. I was reluctant, but after listening to the success stories over a glass of wine, I decided to give it a try. The first guy I ‘connected’ with lived a fair distance from Fourways, where I live. After numerous messages, we decided to meet in person. In Parkhurst, at my suggestion. Leaving work that afternoon, I wondered why I’d suggested an area so out of my way, but I felt like a bit of a vibe. So off I drove. Vincent* and I hit if off instantly. The hours went by quickly – there was so much to talk about. My glass of wine turned…

BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF Do you really need the object? Is your life really better because of this particular thing? THREE-MONTH RULE Angela and Saskia practise the three-month rule. Anything they haven’t used in three months gets the boot. Or – for Minimalist Lite, if that’s what you feel capable of at this point (baby steps!) – bump it up to six months. STOP BUYING FOR BUYING’S SAKE Your happiness doesn’t lie within a new car. Retail therapy may give you a high, but you pay for that brief excitement long after the pleasure has worn off. ONE A DAY As an introduction to decluttering, Angela challenges people to throw out one thing every day for a month. You may not want to stop. DONATE, SELL, GIFT It’s not about…

Forgiving someone who has wronged us is a challenge we’re likely to face several times in our lives. We’ve probably had to forgive one of our siblings for destroying a prized possession. We’ve had to forgive our parents for, well, being our parents. We’ve had to forgive a friend for betraying our trust. This is all part of life. But some of us, over the course of our lives, will be confronted with something that seems completely unforgivable. In every newspaper, there are numerous incidents we’d deem unforgiveable. Women are raped, parents lose a child when a drunk driver crashes his car, a respected businessman and loving father steals money from friends and family, a gunman kills worshippers in a church – the list goes on. And yet our young…

… but not when it comes to education. Of the 148 countries surveyed for the 2013 World Economic Forum Global Competitiveness Report, South Africa takes top spot in strength of auditing and reporting standards. We’re ranked number two in terms of availability of financial services. But the quality of the education system is ranked right near the bottom, at 146, and we’re at rock bottom in terms of the quality of maths and science education. A very recent ranking by the Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development, comparing maths and science results of 15-year-olds, put South Africa 75th out of 76. ‘So I’ve given them the school keys – they’re in charge, they know that they have to lock the gate when they leave. I think that was the turning…

1 Accessories Opt for accessories that look opulent or elegant, like a pair of jewelled earrings or a statement necklace. 2 Fabric Steer clear of cheap-looking fabric. Before you buy, have a good look at the material and touch it – the feel is often a dead giveaway. When in doubt, check the tag to see what it’s made of. 3 Leather look When it comes to leather lookalikes, your safest bet is shoes or a bag. With clothing you have to be careful: steer clear of faux leather items with too much trim. 4 Essentials Trying to make your everyday essentials look luxe? Stick to classic colours – gold or silver-plated watches and plain black or tortoiseshell sunnies. ‘No matter the price, classic colours will always look timeless.’…

Pretty in pink This is easy: smile and note the colour of your gums – your lipstick should be no lighter than that. A bold pink can create the perfect statement lip, but always choose a shade with your personal style in mind – do you prefer matte, glossy, sheer or opaque? Your texture preference will determine whether you should go for a solid colour or a stain. Our top pink this season is Clinique’s Pop Lip Color and Primer, R275 in 11 Wow Pop – it moisturises while delivering bold, saturated colour. And you barely have to reapply it! Red alert Ah, the classic! Every woman should have at least one shade of red in her repertoire. Here’s how to create that perfect scarlet pout: start off with a…

Spicy beef kebab burritos Serves 4 600g rump steak, in medium-sized cubes FOR THE MEXICAN-STYLE RUB 2 tsp each ground cumin & coriander 1 tsp paprika Olive oil for brushing 1 tsp dried chilli flakes FOR THE BURRITOS 4 store-bought burritos, toasted 200g cultured cream or crème fraîche 1 baby green cabbage, shredded 1–2 avocados, peeled and sliced 3 spring onions, chopped 10g coriander leaves Sea salt and black pepper Fresh lime to serve 1. Place the cubed steak in a shallow dish, mix together the rub ingredients and sprinkle over the meat. Set aside for 10 minutes. Thread the cubes onto 8 small or 4 big skewers and brush with olive oil. 2. Heat a griddle pan and griddle the kebabs until done to your liking. Cover and set…

SERVES 6 You will need: 200g castor sugar 60g butter 10 small pears, peeled and cored 2 tbsp flour for dusting 1 x 400g packet puff pastry 15g butter, melted for brushing STEP 1 Preheat the oven to 180ºC. Place a heavy-bottomed ovenproof pan or cast iron skillet on a medium heat. Sprinkle the sugar in an even layer over the bottom of pan and allow to melt, gently swirling the pan until all the sugar is dissolved. Do not stir as this will cause the caramel to crystallize. Cook for about 5 minutes or until it turns a rich golden brown, then remove from heat and add the butter. STEP 2 Arrange the pear halves cut side down in the dish on top of the caramel. STEP 3 Dust…

The first, Living Dangerously, was published in 1995. Living in Wales with a husband who worked at sea, Katie was left at home with ‘two small children who didn’t sleep well’. Her solace was Mills & Boon novels. She yearned to write her own romance novel but didn’t until her mother bought her a writing kit. Katie had three kids, a dog and two cats by then. ‘I didn’t think I had the time to write but my mother thought differently. Ten years later I had a book on the shelves.’ Her latest novel, A Vintage Wedding, is based on her daughter Briony’s recent nuptials. A Vintage Wedding By Katie Fforde (Century) Three women meet in a small English country town. Beth, who moved there to arrange her sister’s wedding…

shop TALK FURNITURE We were so excited to discover that one of our favourite SA brands has branched out. Zana, known for their quotable cushions and minimalist design, have just launched their very own furniture range: simple yet multi-functional pieces, all of which are designed and manufactured locally. This slick and simple timber and white steel table (left) (R3 700–R5 500) can be an entrance table, a desk or even a dressing table, finished off with the upholstered stool (R2 600). The side table below (R2 100) is petite but can be used as a coffee table or bedside table. We also love the rose gold-plated trio pendant light fitting (R1 900) and the comfy floor cushions (R780), great for adding informal seating to your lounge or cuddling up with…

LEO 23 JULY – 22 AUG The universe is behind you, feeding your strengths – but also your weaknesses. Yes, it’s wonderful to have such a grand vision for the world. But until you get there, a few small details need to be taken care of. Like a spot of budgeting, for example. And a touch of attention to those boring practical details you were hoping someone else would take care of. Not to worry, though. The world is moving to your tune, and you are completely irresistible. Just don’t forget to dance. VIRGO 23 AUG – 22 SEPT Use the first week of August to clean up the dregs – and make space. A wildly, fabulously extravagant phase is about to enter your life – and you’ll soon be…

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Tip Unsure how to apply a facial mist? Hold the bottle at least 15cm away from your face and spritz. Wait for a minute for it to be absorbed, then blot the excess off with a tissue. Instant dewy glow! Tip Facial mists are a must for travelling, especially on long-haul flights. Just a few spritzes will freshen you up instantly. Check to see if your favourite comes in a travel size, and pop it in your handbag!…

It’s been four years since Oprah filmed her final show. ‘I thank you for being as much of a sweet inspiration for me as I’ve tried to be for you. I won’t say goodbye. I’ll just say… until we meet again. To God be the glory.’ For 25 years, that show had been part of the daily lives of her loyal viewers. But as far back as the 12th season, Oprah was saying she was exhausted. The reason she didn’t quit then was because she felt a responsibility to keep going. ‘I made the decision in the midst of doing Beloved. I connected to what slavery had meant, and connected it to my own personal ancestry and history in a way I had never before. And I realised I had…

‘Clean eating’– eating whole, preferably organic foods, and avoiding all things processed – is pretty much the diet du jour. And it sounds good, right? It is – except for the fact that the name implies that some foods are ‘clean’, while others aren’t. WHAT’S THE PROBLEM WITH ‘CLEAN EATING’? The idea that some foods are bad for you while others are good is deeply embedded in the health and fitness industry: ‘bad’ foods make you fat or destroy your health; ‘good’ foods boost your metabolism and burn fat. But one of the problems with the term ‘clean eating’ is that there’s no clear definition. Some ‘clean eaters’ eschew carbs, others don’t touch dairy. Some don’t eat fruit, others reject all animal products. All of them would swear they were…

Growing up during the Zimbabwean war of liberation was traumatising. We had to be in the house by 6pm and could not leave before 6am. Our house was surrounded by six-foot sand bags, and all the windows had bulletproof tape on them. Army tanks patrolled the farm and my dad slept with a rifle at his side. If we heard the alarm go off I would have to wake my sister and we would leopard crawl on our stomachs to my dad’s room, where we would call in on the agri call alert system to the army... I have no idea what we would tell them, other than ‘we are still alive’. We had a pet lioness called Carmel. She arrived when I was 12. My dad had…

Even if you have clear directions for getting to Sinenjongo High School, you will drive right past it, though it’s just a few metres off Freedom Way in the Joe Slovo area of Milnerton, Cape Town. There’s no sign pointing you there, and its high, padlocked mesh gate is obscured by ramshackle shacks, with wash-lines of bright clothes strung between them that reach to the edges of the pavement. The school itself is just a series of prefabs lined up round a tarmac quad. That’s it. No grassed playing fields, no hall, no library. There’s no doubt that this school is low in socioeconomic status. Since the end of apartheid, the government has shifted spending to try to get rid of massive inequalities in school resources. In 1991, spending on…

our expert We asked Andrew Bradley, CEO of Old Mutual Wealth and co-author of How Much is Enough? to demystify investing. What’s the difference between saving and investing? Saving is when you don’t spend. If you earn R100 and you spend R95, you’ve saved R5. What you do with this is the next step. You could invest it to earn interest. By definition, an investment generates a return, and there are only four ways of investing your money, as shown below: Unit trusts and retirement funds are just different wrappings for these investment options, while derivatives are a subset of them. Kruger rands, coins, stamps, jewellery or art aren’t defined as investments because they don’t generate a return. When should I start investing? If you’ve got debt, whether it’s credit…

This young winemaker once nearly quit the studies that would lead her to her Place in the Sun. While on her first Easter vacation a few months into her degree, Praisy Dlamini decided not to return to Elsenburg Agricultural College in Stellenbosch to pursue her dream of becoming a winemaker. ‘It was so far away from home; I was 17 years old and I just felt overwhelmed,’ she reflects. Luckily, her mother convinced her to go back and the brave Empangeni local left KZN in her pursuit of creating the perfect palate-pleaser. Two vintages ago, armed with her qualifications and expertise, she joined the Zonnebloem team, proudly creating their Place in the Sun range which supports the farmworkers who tend the vines. Place in the Sun is a Fairtrade brand,…

CARA-LEE’S BUDGET OF R500 - CLASSIC BLACK DRESS R99,99 - SKINNY BELT R150 - BLACK PENCIL SKIRT R89,99 - ANIMAL PRINT PUMP R129,99 - EARRINGS R29,99 AMOUNT REMAINING R00,04 R29 99 I had a bit extra so I grabbed these pearl drops. You can never have enough accessories: make older outfits look brand new just by switching them up. R99,99 ‘This classic black dress is perfect for layering under a coat and can be dressed up or down for any occasion. Or slip a knit over it and use the bottom half as a skirt.’ 129,99 ‘When I do buy prints, I usually go for something subtle and timeless that will work with my other purchases. A faux animal print is always easy to pair with everyday items already in…

Mrs Ball’s recipe has remained unchanged since 1871 – an uncompromised recipe that is chunky and fruity and loved by South Africans all over the world. Of course, Mrs Ball’s Original Recipe Chutney is the ultimate favourite, but equally delectable are the Peach, Chilli, Hot and Extra Hot blends available. The flavoursome mix of sweet and fruity makes it a perfect accompaniment to (and ingredient for!) any meal – whether it’s a stir-fry, stew, salad, pie or curry. Butter chicken with Mrs Ball’s Chutney Serves 4–6 FOR THE MARINADE 800g chicken breast fillets, cubed 1 cup plain greek-style yoghurt 2 tbsp olive oil Juice and zest of 1 lemon 2 tbsp garam masala 3 tbsp mild curry powder 2 garlic cloves, minced 1 tsp sea salt FOR THE SAUCE 1…

3 ways with  A CAND FO TOMATOES Chilli con carne Heat 2 tbsp olive oil in a pot, add 500g beef mince and cook until browned. Add 1 chopped onion, 2 cloves of crushed garlic, 2 tsp ground cumin and 1 tsp chilli flakes. Cook for 2 minutes, then add 1 can (400g) of chopped tomatoes, ½ cup water and 1 tbsp tomato paste. Simmer for 20–30 minutes or until mince is tender. Season with salt, pepper and a little sugar and serve with toasted tortilla chips. Puttanesca sauce Heat 2 tbsp olive oil in a pan, add 1 sliced onion, 2 chopped cloves of garlic and 3 chopped anchovy fillets and fry over medium heat until onions are soft and golden. Add 1 can (400g) chopped tomatoes and 100g…

HOW TO pretty up a SMALL SPACE Richard, the manager of Starke Ayres in Mowbray, offers his expert advice on what to grow in a small area to give the illusion of space. He also has some excellent suggestions for adding charm. Q: WHICH CREEPERS WOULD BE GREAT IN A SEMI-SHADED SMALL GARDEN? A: Star jasmine would be perfect – the petite white flowers are pretty. Also, mandevilla splendens – it’s got incredible deep pink flowers that will create a wonderful scene. These are your kan-niedood-nie creepers – so they’re low maintenance. Q: WHICH PLANTS ARE PERFECT FOR A PATIO? A: Patios generally enjoy intense sunlight, so shrubs are ideal. One that does exceptionally well in hostile, hot conditions is rosemary – and it’s useful in your kitchen too! Aloes…

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Anaïs Nin once observed that life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. I have pondered this for some time and am bound to disagree. Life shrinks or expands, at least to me, in proportion to one’s conversations. I can tolerate the drivel most of the time, but deep down I secretly yearn for a philosophical argument and a fresh point of view – with the odd bon mot thrown in to keep things fresh. Living in a blaze of obscurity has its drawbacks. One is the quality of chat to which one is exposed. Quentin Crisp said that the key to speaking with style is to command a vocabulary large enough to give you both flexibility and precision in expressing yourself. The more words you have, the more…