Innehållsförteckning för December 2015 från Fairlady

The first time I heard the word ‘misspeak’ was in 2008 when Hilary Clinton was trying to explain why she’d said she had to evade sniper fire in Bosnia in 1996 – when, in fact, she hadn’t been anywhere near any sniper fire. ‘I misspoke,’ she said when she was caught out. Until then, I never knew misspeaking was an option. I thought we were all pretty much limited to telling a whopper or telling the truth. Obviously, since then we’ve all become very familiar with the notion of misspending (sometimes also referred to in South Africa as ‘to nkandla’), but a while ago I came across the concept of ‘mis-selling’, when Lewis Stores was referred to the National Consumer Tribunal for selling insurance to customers who couldn’t possibly claim…

‘From strength to strength’ Your article on hormone therapy (October 2015) was informative and impartial. After consulting with my gynae in 2014, we agreed I’d begin oral HT. I was 49, and experiencing classic menopausal symptoms. My gynae considered me a prime candidate for HT, but the deciding factor was the risk of developing osteoporosis. As a lifetime athlete and Iron-Man finisher, the prospect of a future without sport filled me with dread. After 14 months on HT the nightmare symptoms have disappeared, I’ve summitted Kilimanjaro and trekked to Everest Base Camp. I urge anyone to have that initial discussion with their gynae. HT is not for everyone, but it might be the best thing for you! Cheryl Gibson-Dicks, Jeffreys Bay Ed: We agree; every woman’s situation is different, and…

Sure, Lee-Ann Liebenberg’s successful 10-year run on the international modelling scene brought her fame and glamour. But the flipside of that life was that it took her away from the people and the country she loves. ‘I travelled all over the world for two weeks at a time,’ she says. Her decision to trade the international scene for fewer, smaller jobs locally wasn’t made lightly, but she hasn’t looked back. In fact, she’s flourishing now – not only as a model, but also as a mother to Gia, five, and Gabriella, one. ‘When I had Gia I didn’t want to take on work that would take me away from my family. I enjoyed a successful career before she was born, but nothing fulfils me as much as being a mom.…

‘Dylan and I are at the market every Friday night. It’s like hosting a dinner party every week.’ BLUE BIRD GARAGE MARKET Owners: Kim and Dylan Speer Start-up costs: Under R100 000, spent mostly on furnishings and paint. Profit: R50 000–R100 000 per month ‘As soon as we walked into the space, we knew what we were going to do with it,’ says Kim, reflecting on the first time she and her husband Dylan saw the 1920s hangar that now houses their weekly market. The couple started the popular Muizenberg market five years ago and have watched it grow busier and get better every year. ‘We knew the area was full of young families, a lively surfing community and film and design industry types. At that time there were no…

When did you first sign up on Airbnb? After hearing about the global success, we signed up in November 2014. Where is the home you rent out? We have a three-bedroom townhouse in Chelsea Village in Wynberg (Cape Town’s southern suburbs). We list it as a two-bedroom place so we can lock up breakables in the other room. How often do you rent your place out? Usually over holiday periods – Christmas, New Year and Easter. So far we have rented it out four times, mostly to families. What made you decide to become a host on Airbnb? I had read and heard so many positive stories about Airbnb and how simple it was to list your property. As we were going away for the holidays anyway, I thought it…

1 KNOW THAT THE FEELING WILL PASS Some of life’s most basic choices involve balancing immediate feelings and long-term interests, say the authors of a Journal of Consumer Research article. So is sticking with the programme just a matter of reminding yourself of the long-term gain? Yes, to some degree, but things are never that simple. Your attitude to your emotions comes into play. The researchers believe that you’re less likely to abandon a long-term goal (like steering clear of carbs and then scoffing that gift box of chocs, or saving for retirement in favour of another fashion haul) if you understand that feelings pass. So what do you do? Don’t fool yourself into believing that indulging will make you happy. Remind yourself that the mood (happiness/sadness/desire/greed/lethargy) will pass anyway.…

1 Beat the bloat Not only is bloating unflattering, it also makes you feel uncomfortable. Avoid salt, sodium-rich foods, processed foods, carbonated drinks, beans, legumes, and cruciferous vegetables. Instead, stock up on eggs, nuts, berries, yoghurt with live cultures, watermelon, pineapple, apples, and cucumbers. 2 Strengthen and lengthen Pilates, yoga and barre classes will strengthen your core muscles, work on your posture and help build lean muscle. These types of exercises are great because you don’t have to buy expensive equipment or exercise gear to reap the benefits. And if a class filled with people intimidates you, try a 20-minute at-home DVD to help ease you into things. 3 Supplement Imedeen tablets, for example, improve the skin’s tone and texture – brand spokesperson and model Christy Turlington uses the Time…

YORKSHIRE PUDS • Don’t be tempted to open the oven door for the first 15 minutes of cooking as this will reduce the oven temperature and may make the puds collapse. • Be extra careful when handling the hot oil – use silicone mittens or thick oven gloves when handling the hot tray. • Placing the muffin pan on a larger baking tray will catch any oil that may overflow from the pan when the batter is added, plus it makes it easier to take the hot puds out of the oven. • Bake the yorkshire puddings a few hours in advance, and then pop them onto a baking tray in a 180ºC oven for 10–15 minutes before serving to crisp them up, or make the batter in advance and…

The Lancewood premium range of bestselling full cream and low fat cottage cheese is so versatile – it’s ideal for baking and cooking both sweet and savoury delights. COTTAGE CHEESE FLAPJACK AND STRAWBERRY STACK YOU WILL NEED: 3 large eggs,250g Lancewood Smooth PlainCottage Cheese,1 tsp vanilla essence2 tbsp castor sugar¾ cup cake flour1 tsp baking powder½ tsp saltSunflower or canola oil for fryingGolden syrup & fresh berries toserve 1. Combine eggs, cottage cheese, vanilla essence and castor sugar in a bowl. Sift over flour, baking powder and salt and stir until smooth. 2. Heat a little oil in a pan and fry spoonfuls of the batter over a medium heat for about 1 minute on each side until cooked through. Repeat with remaining batter. 3. Serve 3 flapjacks topped with…

Giveaway THERE ARE 3 COPIES OF EACH OF THESE TITLES UP FOR GRABS. To stand a chance to win, SMS the keyword of the book of your choice, along with your name and postal/physical and email addresses to 37174. SMSes cost R1,50. Free SMSes don’t apply. For rules, see page 145. Creative Therapy for the Soul (Tracey McDonald Publishers) Colouring in is a wonderful way to relax, and these beautiful scenes and designs will give you hours of calming therapy. KEYWORD: CREATIVE Fishing Stories for Africa Edited by Edward Truter & Martin Rudman For the fisherman/woman in your life! (Find at Exclusive Books or contact Martin at martinrudman71@gmail.com.) KEYWORD: FISH An Empty Coast by Tony Park (Pan Macmillan) Emma, a student archaeologist on a dig at the edge of Etosha,…

Win a KitchenAid Artisan Stand Mixer worth R7990! Iconic design, a 95-year heritage… it’s the ultimate kitchen accessory! The original planetary action is powered by a direct drive, gear-driven motor. Optional accessories turn the Mixer into a pasta cutter, citrus juicer or ice cream maker. Keyword: KITCHENAID Win a R3000 Red Square Gift Card! Indulge in a luxe signature fragrance from Red Square this festive season – perhaps one of these from the Michael Kors Gold Fragrance Collection? Shop online at www.redsquare.co.za to get it delivered to your door – gift-wrapped too! Keyword: REDSQUARE WIN one of six mouthwatering Beyers hampers – each valued at R500! For nearly 30 years, Beyers Chocolates has been handcrafting the very best chocolates. Each hamper contains the Art of Chocolate Collection (three boxes), Chocolatier’s…

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IN 2015, as a party-goer, it’s difficult to work out what the hottest and most current attitude towards ‘partying’ is. Before, say, 1997, it was simple: everyone loved parties. Everyone. All parties were great. Back in 1127 AD, if someone went, ‘After the harvest, do you want to drink a load of cider and fall into a hedge?’, you’d be like, ‘Yes! Totally!’ Fast-forward to 1996, and if someone said, ‘Do you want to celebrate England being in the semi-finals of Euro ’96 – by drinking some of the newly invented alcoholic lemonade?’, you’d be like, ‘Again, yes – totally!’ ‘Party’ just meant, simply, ‘Not working, and therefore having a brilliant time.’ Parties were conceived as a conglomeration of all the best things: jelly, alcohol, watching your nanna dance, wearing…

My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante I love the mystery around this book almost as much as I loved the book itself: the Banksy of the Italian literary world, ‘Elena Ferrante’ has been writing for over 10 years. But that is not her real name, and nobody knows her true identity, although there is plenty of speculation. This series of four novels (The Neopolitan series) is about the lifelong friendship of two women born into the same poor neighbourhood in Naples – with all the love, enmity and complications that that entails. It’s a stealth book … very understated, but it creeps up on you and suddenly you find yourself caring about the characters, and looking for the next in the series. The Hummus Bar at the M Mall in…

BOSS Ma Vie Pour Femme celebrates the moments in a BOSS woman’s life when she steps onto the wild side, takes a chance, slows down, lets go – and truly enjoys the moment. The fragrance is inspired by her independent spirit and insatiable thirst for life – her life. The Scent, a new fragrance, reveals an unexpected side to the BOSS man. It pays homage to his personal successes and his professional achievements. The BOSS man’s success is characterised by a traditional sophistication. It’s in the way he carries himself, the way he wears a suit, his unfailing confidence… THE HAMPER INCLUDES Boss Ma Vie (75ml) fragrance for you & Boss The Scent (100ml) for your man.…

THE FAMILY AGM I’ll start with my own family favourite – the tradition that sparked my interest in what other families do. About three years ago, my dad suggested that we hold a Family Meeting, an AGM of sorts. I suspect it was originally a way to get us up to speed with family finances and plan the year ahead, but it quickly became much more than that. With one sister based in Germany, one in Cape Town, one in Stellenbosch and our parents in Pretoria, the opportunities to sit and talk had become fewer and fewer and more difficult to coordinate. The Family AGM was a way of bringing us together to share the important stuff in a constructive way. Because we’re dotted across the country (and, more recently,…

Chocolate should, in theory, be a quintessentially African product: almost two thirds of the world’s cocoa beans are grown on our continent. So why is it that we don’t have a reputation for making chocolate? ‘Africa is known for cocoa beans, but not for chocolate,’ says Kees Beyers, owner and founder of Beyers Chocolate. He believes it would take a shift in culture for that to change. ‘In South Africa, the average person eats one and a half kilograms of chocolate a year. That might sound like a fair bit, but compared to Europe, where people consume about 10kg per person, it’s not much at all.’ Despite that, business is good. ‘As a business we grow 10–15% year on year, which is well above inflation,’ he says. ‘And 95% of…

Airbnb appeared on the scene in 2008 in San Francisco, but here in South Africa, we’ve only really got on board in the past two years or so. Along with Uber, it’s part of the booming ‘sharing economy’ – which allows people to share resources and customers to access goods without owning them. Airbnb offers a more authentic, sometimes cheaper way of travelling than a hotel stay; you can rent a room, an entire home – or even a castle. Even more appealing, perhaps, is that you can rent out your home to earn some extra cash. It’s as easy as going onto the Airbnb site and clicking on ‘become a host’ at the top right-hand side of the screen. Airbnb handles all the money, which makes things easier (note…

• Drink water half an hour before your meal Okay, the study (published in Obesity Journal) was a small one, and limited to obese people, but those who drank half a litre of water 30 minutes before each meal lost an average of 4,3kg. Worth doing anyway, we say. • Keep count When you’re faced with an array of delicious snacks – especially when those laden trays keep coming past you – it’s easy to lose sight of just how much you’re nibbling. Don’t! Decide how many canapés you’re going to eat, and stop when you reach that limit. • Eat protein first This idea is also based on a very small study – this time, on obese people with type 2 diabetes. (If you’re obese, your BMI is 30…

MAINS Butter-basted turkey with a classic herb stuffing Serves 8–10 FOR THE STUFFING 1 tbsp olive oil 1 onion, chopped 2 cloves garlic, crushed 250g pork sausage mince 100g breadcrumbs 1 tbsp each thyme & oregano, finely chopped FOR THE TURKEY 2 red onions, quartered 1 x 1,8–2kg turkey, thoroughly defrosted,with giblets removed 180g butter, softened 1 tbsp each thyme, rosemary &parsley, finely chopped 3 cloves garlic, crushed Zest & juice of 1 lemon Salt & milled black pepper Bay leaves 1. Preheat the oven to 160ºC. 2. To make the stuffing: Heat oil in a pan and fry onion until golden. Add garlic and cook for 1 minute, then set aside to cool. Once cooled, add the mince, breadcrumbs and herbs and season well. Set aside. 3. For the…

B eyers Chocolates have been producing South Africa’s finest quality chocolates for nearly 30 years. Under the watchful eye of owner, founder and master chocolatier, Kees Beyers, a passionate team skilfully and lovingly handcrafts the chocolates using the best Belgian ingredients to create beautiful works of edible art. Beyers’s Premium and Taster boxes are affordable selections of flavourful chocolates that make the ideal gift – even for the most discerning chocoholic.…

Pork is a delicious and satisfying meat, and a rich source of protein and minerals, especially iron, zinc and magnesium. It’s also rich in all the B-vitamins, which help us cope with stress. A pork terrine may seem like a complicated recipe, but it is really easy, and in a few simple steps you can create a showstopper to impress any guest. Terrines are also a great way to make the most of a selection of pork products. Try this fabulous pork dish for your friends and family this Christmas – it’s sure to become a festive favourite. tips for cooking your terrine TIP 1: 3 tbsp brandy mixed with 3 tbsp apricot juice make a delicious substitute for white wine. TIP 2: Make this recipe in individual baby loaf…

GAMMONS Boneless Gammons READY TO COOK MEDIUM GAMMON About R69,99/kg; Woolworths Looks good. It was baked in the net, which comes off easily after cooking. The texture is good and it has a strong flavour, which we loved. It carved beautifully. DRY CURED GAMMON WITH PINEAPPLE AND CRANBERRY GLAZE About R139,99/kg; Woolworths Has a pineapple and cherry garnish, and a glaze to add. We felt it looked festive. A good flavour, but chewy texture. BONELESS GAMMON About R72,99/kg; Checkers & Checkers Hyper We found the net very tricky to remove – it was really embedded in the meat. Was easy to carve. We felt the texture was rather spongy and the gammon didn’t have much flavour. MARKETSIDE BONELESS GAMMON Between R64,99 and R69,99/kg; Game Looks good; nice shape. The net…

SAGITTARIUS 22 NOV – 21 DEC Change is always exciting – especially when it supports your Grand Plan. But don’t expect everyone else to be as excited as you are about having the carpet ripped out from under their feet. In fact, if you’re wise, you’ll have some comforting pillows on hand for the less adventurous to land on. Not that you should stop, by any means. Just be aware. And take note, too, of the team on your side – lovers, and the big cheeses at work. Say thanks, and let them in. Try not to say anything unspeakable. Make it your Christmas present to them all. CAPRICORN 22 DEC – 19 JAN Those stodgy ideas are being laughed at – and you’re being forced to revise your thoughts,…

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‘Woman power’ Carol Tshabalala (featured in ‘The First Lady of Sport’; September 2015) is a phenomenal woman! She is strong in her convictions, principled, fiercely driven, passionate and unapologetically and unwaveringly herself! Our country is filled with amazing and phenomenal women like her. Women should make it their mission to befriend other women who are dedicated to pursuing their own empowerment and emancipation. They should build a network of women of substance, thought leaders, across all sectors. They must start building one another up and not pull each other down. How many women are waiting for another woman’s downfall to make a breakthrough? Isaac Tshepo, Johannesburg Ed: We agree with you about Carol! But those other competitive women you refer to are clearly not FAIRLADY readers – we’re all about…

for the past four years, a group of South African celebrities has set out to climb the tallest mountain in Africa as part of the Trek4Mandela campaign – a campaign that, together with the Nelson Mandela Foundation, aims to raise money to provide sanitary towels for girls so that they no longer have to miss school. Leanne Manas and Gerry Elsdon were part of this year’s group. We listened in as they chatted to each other about the good, the bad and the ugly bits of their experience. Gerry: Leanne, how did you feel just after you’d agreed to climb Kilimanjaro? Leanne: Of all the decisions related to the climb, deciding I was going to do it was the hardest one. My husband, Marc, who climbed with me, kept telling…

• Airbnb recommends you confirm with your insurance provider that your rental activity is covered under your current policy before listing your space. • AIRBNB’S HOST GUARANTEE PROGRAMME: If you’re worried about potential damage to your belongings or property, this programme protects hosts against damages to their own possessions or property by guests. According to Airbnb, it provides protection for up to $1 000 000 in damages, in the event of guest damages that are not resolved directly with the guest. (Note that the Host Guarantee is not insurance and should not be considered as a replacement or stand-in for homeowners or renters insurance.) • SECURITY DEPOSITS: Ask guests for a security deposit to cover accidents that may occur – wine stains, a broken window, or unreturned keys. You have…

Merry merry! Why not make Christmas a formal affair this year? Be inspired by the colour of the season and embrace the chance to get all dolled up – this slinky red number is sure to get you into the festive spirit! Dress to impress You don’t have to bare it all to look sexy. This maxi dress has a full-circle skirt that softly skims your curves, while the draped cowl neck shows off just a hint of cleavage. Life of the party A little sparkly dress is the unofficial uniform of New Year’s Eve, so go for something sequined or glittery. Every woman should have a classic embellished cocktail dress tucked away in her closet – all you need to do is mix up your accessories for a totally…

TRIFLE • If you are short of fridge space, this trifle can be layered into any serving dish that you’d prefer to use and will fit into your fridge better. • If you aren’t a fan of sherry, feel free to use brandy or, for a non-alcoholic version, the reserved juice from the peaches works very well. • Make this pudding in advance to save time on the day. CHRISTMAS CAKE • If your family is not a fan of fruit cake, substitute the fruit with 100g chopped mixed nuts. • Christmas cake freezes beautifully: just seal it in an airtight container or zip-sealed bag for up to 2 months. PANFORTE • You can make this cake weeks or even a month in advance and keep it in an airtight…

Did You Ever Have A Family By Bill Clegg (Gallery/Scout Press) The novel opens with Silas, a pot-smoking teen who is awoken by the sounds of sirens, horns, and ‘the oily stench of a fire burning more than just wood’. June Reid’s house has gone up in flames – and with it her family: her boyfriend Luke, ex-husband Adam, daughter Lolly and future son-in-law, Will. The small town of Wells simmers with gossip: was it carelessness, a crime of passion, or a result of Luke’s alleged criminal inclinations? The only option for grief-stricken June is to drive far away and try to feel close to her daughter in the one place Lolly felt most at peace. Told from various perspectives, the novel tracks the events that led to the fire,…

WHAT YOU WILL NEED: FLOWERS Ericas, a protea or banksia, Port Jackson flowers and leaves, wheat, fynbos flowers like pincushions, and any other greenery in your garden or from a florist that will dry in a good condition. TOOLS Thick floristry wire, thin floristry wire, secateurs, glue gun and glue, feathers and ribbon of your choice. STEP 1 Create a round frame with thick floristry wire by moulding it around the base of a medium bucket. Loop twice and secure the two circles with extra wire. STEP 2 Create small bouquets with the ericas and secure to the frame with thin floristry wire. STEP 3 Secure the banksia with thin floristry wire to the bottom of the frame. STEP 4 Create small bouquets with wheat and pincushions of various sizes…

INTRODUCING During the month of February we will be all about Home and Food, and you can take your pick from various events and happenings hosted by your favourite magazines in Gauteng and Cape Town. That’s right: 30 days of food & drink 30 days of ideas & inspiration 30 days of celebration & celebrities 30 days of giveaways & promotions 30 days of shopping & discounts The February countdown culminates in a fabulous 30 Days of Home + Food live weekend and you are invited to come and meet your favourite magazine team and experience the pages of our magazines coming to life in front of your very eyes. buy your tickets now! R150 per person for either a morning or an afternoon session www.30days.co.za the people Bobby &…