WHEN engaging those of advanced age, approach with deep respect, kindness, openness.
Expect to be enthralled, to learn.
Besides, in a flash of time – yes, 30, 40, even 60 years is a flash of time – and it’ll be you.
Listen, rather than speak.
Learn, rather than try to teach.
Wait, hold on to yourself.
Offer time for a reflective exchange.
Imagine how you’ll want to be treated in a few years – and do that.
The life experience embodied in the person before you, if you’ll take the time to hear, will astound you. But, it requires necessary time to hear and the power to resist the urge to do all the talking.
Be aware of chasing away an elderly person’s desire to engage you because you talk…