This is the most read column on my website in 20 years and I never wrote one word of it.
“Hi ladies, just a bit of advice, if your husband says he doesn’t want to be married or doesn’t love you any more, as much as it hurts, the best thing you can do is nothing.
“Go about your business, act happy, be nice, don’t beg, don’t plead, don’t cry and make him try to feel sorry for you. Listen to me, as hard as this sounds, it works. Work on yourself, be your own person, let him always see you are happy.
“Men don’t want to pull away from happy women!
“They want to pull away from a woman who is yelling and nagging. I am not saying this…