Innehållsförteckning för June 2016 från True Love

In June we celebrate Father’s Day, and while many families do so, it’s a difficult time for some of us who’ve had issues with our dads. A surprising number of women I engage with don’t have relationships with their fathers. For the longest time, I believed my father was the worst, until one late night at the office turned into a conversation about dads. One colleague says hers is a “a rolling stone”; the type that went AWOL every December holidays and came back when the chips were down. This happened throughout her teenage and adult years. She’s still bitter, and has had difficulty accepting her father back in the family after the pain of growing up without him, and seeing her mom struggle to hold the family together in…

CARAMEL COMPLEXION This skin tone stands out when you wear nudes with a pink undertone. Match the look with similar-coloured make-up and accessories. CREAMY CAPPUCCINO The never-seen-the-sun-before complexion trend is inspired by the Scandanavians. To get the look, go for off-whites and khakis. DARK CHOCOLATE Women with dark skin tones can work any Edgars variation of nude because of the strong contrast. But the best shades to try are brown, copper or gold.…

Style tips  Wide-leg pants are no longer reserved for only tall, slim women. Curvacious or petite, you too can use these tips to wear the pants of the season: 1. High-waisted pants elongate your frame. Wear them with high heels to make you feel taller. 2. To accentuate your waistline, wear a belt. A high waist with a full flare also works to accentuate it.…

A look that originated in the opulence era when styling products and tools were not as advanced as they are now, the wave was created by applying oodles of hair gel to wet hair with one’s fingers – hence its name, the finger wave. Celebrity hairstylist Jawad Maphoto says: “For best results, the hair needs to be relaxed. After washing and towel drying hair, apply foam wrap or mousse for easier management and setting. Then use a fine-tooth comb or your fingers to direct the hair in a zig-zag pattern to create the wave. Sit under a hood dryer until hair is completely dry. Finish off with sheen spray for shine.”…

Many of us choose braids, plaits and cornrows during winter – even celebs such as Anele Mdoda, Khanya Mkangisa, Blue Mbombo and Unathi Msengana. These styles may be convenient and low maintenance, but they still require TLC because pulling hair tightly can cause hair loss, but don’t despair! “It’s common to lose hair strands when hair is pulled too tight, is not hydrated enough and is damaged by chemicals or rendered brittle due to heat styling,” says Mashoodwa Cajee of Candi & Co. “The great thing about braids, plaits and cornrows is that they help with hair growth, minimise dryness, and are a good way to give hair a much-needed rest from the harsh weather.” Use these tips to keep your braids and cornrows healthier and shinier: 1. Do an…

“I’ve experienced many losses in my life. It began with my mother, Sibongile, who passed away from a brain tumour when I was four years old. I remember watching the video of her funeral when I was in high school, crying so much as I saw how little I was as I asked my mom to wake up. I have vague memories of her. She was a geography, maths and science teacher. I’m told I got her brains, while my sister got her free-spirited nature. My parents got married in 1989 and divorced in 1992. My father, Nhlanhla, didn’t know of my existence until after my mom passed away. Apparently she found out she was pregnant with me soon after they separated, and he had moved to Germiston in Gauteng…

The only object that stands out as you walk into Dr Lesego Bogatsu-Maimela’s office is a gold statue of a Buddha. “This Buddha was a gift from a friend who knows that I’m spiritual. It’s supposed to represent peace and serenity in this space,” she says. Peace and calm are what she needs in her line of work because her job is very demanding and there’s absolutely no room for mistakes as she oversees aviation safety, security. “The wellbeing of pilots and their readiness to fly big planes packed with hundreds of people rests on me and my team. I’m responsible for a group of 200 specialist doctors who inspect every professional – from the pilot and air traffic controllers to the cabin crews,” she says, adding that her office…

You always complain about being single, but you aren’t willing to make the effort to meet someone, or even compromise on what it is you’re looking for. Are you really unlucky in love, or are your unreasonable expectations holding you back? Your checklist for Mr Right could be riddled with unrealistic expectations: he must have at least two degrees, drive a German car, earn a six-figure salary, and be tall, dark... Is this rational? How do you know whether your standards are coming from a place of self-respect or self-delusion? Thembi, 33, was introduced to Mike, a civil engineer who spends the better part of his day on a construction site. Her friends, who introduced them, knew she was looking for an educated man who earned well and was independent.…

Lamb phall Serves: 4 – 6 Prep time: 180 minutes Ingredients 3T sunflower oil 4 lamb shanks 1 medium onion, chopped 3T ginger, grated 2 cloves garlic, crushed 3 bay leaves ½ tsp cumin 3 tsp curry powder 1T garam masala ½ tsp turmeric 1 tsp cayenne pepper 2 tsp red chilli flakes 10 red chillies 1 can tomatoes, chopped 2 cups beef stock ¼ cup masala wine Method 1. Preheat oven to 160°C. Heat oil in a large, heavy-based saucepan and brown shanks on all sides. Remove and set aside. 2. In the same pan, add onion, ginger, garlic and leaves. Sauté for 3 minutes. Return shanks and add all ingredients except tomatoes, stock and wine. Cook while stirring over low heat for 2 minutes. Add tomatoes,…

LIQUORICE SPAGHETTI WITH SWEET POTATO AND BUTTERNUT Serves: 4 Prep time: 30 minutes INGREDIENTS 4T avocado oil 4T dijon mustard 4T apple cider vinegar 4T honey 1 tsp garlic, crushed ½ butternut, cubed ½ sweet potato, cubed 250g squid ink pasta Salt and pepper METHOD 1. Preheat oven to 180°C. In a bowl mix oil, mustard, vinegar, honey and garlic. In a roasting pan, place butternut and sweet potato. Drizzle honey and mustard sauce over veggies, and roast for 20 minutes. 2. Meanwhile, cook spaghetti in salted boiling water until tender but firm. Drain; set aside, warm, in a pot. 3. Pour roasted butternut onto the spaghetti, together with the leftover residue, and mix together. Serve with spinach leaves. CHICKEN & TOMATO BASIL FUSILLI Serves: 4 Prep…

MOVIES EVERYBODY WANTS SOME!! Set in 1980, a group of baseball players get up to no good. Their behaviour is typical of varsity men – chasing women and competing with one another to prove their manliness. Starring Blake Jenner and Tyler Hoechlin, this is a hilarious comedy. Rating: 3/5 Distributor: Nu Metro Release date: 3 June 2016 A HOLOGRAM FOR THE KING After a bitter divorce and failed businesses, Alan Clay (Tom Hanks) goes to Saudi Arabia to try to revive his entrepreneurial career by selling an idea to a wealthy monarch. The movie explores desperation in the face of a crippling recession. Rating: 3/5 Distributor: Black Sheep Release date: 3 June 2016 THE NICE GUYS A private investigator, Holland March, and an enforcer,…

ALL THINGS FASHION AND BEAUTY Stay on top of all the latest fashion trends and learn how to master make-up tricks, DIY facials and hair treatments. ADVICE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS Our experts give you useful relationship advice and tips on how to get ahead at work, manage money and achieve your weight-loss goals. BEHIND THE SCENES Check how photographer Nick Boulton brought out the best in gorgeous Lerato Kganyago, and what went down behind the scenes with our June cover star. LUXE LIVING Find cooking inspiration for days when you have little time to make dinner, for hosting guests, or for preparing meals that won’t widen your waistline. FOLLOW US ONLINE: www.truelove.co.za True Love Mag @TrueLoveMag @truelovemagazine…

A micro-pleated skirt paired with knitwear shouldn’t really work, but it does. The pair has a synergy no other two-piece can beat. The statement jumper makes a fancy skirt suitable during the day. Plus, it’s feminine and chic. We’ve picked the best duos that’ll make any office you walk into fashion-forward. Our style crush is all-round fashion insider Elisa Nalin. STYLE TIP: Pair a pleated skirt with heels for a glam finish, and masculine-inspired loafers for a simple daytime look.…

Pat McGrath has quite a reputation. The London-born make-up artist is currently the creative design director of beauty and grooming company Procter & Gamble, working with brands like Dolce & Gabbana, Max Factor, Covergirl and Coty. If you got the impression that she’s your average make-up artist doing weddings or touch-ups in-store, you’d be wrong. McGrath has enhanced the looks of some of the most famous faces of our time – Madonna, Oprah and J.Lo, to name a few. She has collaborated on a plethora of design campaigns and catwalk shows such as Prada, Louis Vuitton, Valentino and YSL. She also guest edits for magazines like Allure and i-D. Born to a Jamaican immigrant mother in 1970, McGrath received no formal training in hair and make-up, only completing an art…

Myavana This hair app analyses your unique hair type (we know how varied they are) and recommends ways to maintain healthy hair. Black City The perfect app for women who travel abroad. It gives you a guide to the best salons, from barbers to natural stylists. Cocoa Swatches The app focuses on finding shades not seen in mainstream media. Simply scan various make-up swatches on the app and its Instagram site. My Black Hair Diary The app reminds you of hair appointments, tracks your style changes and recommends products for your hair. OPI Nail fundis, this app is for you. It lets you try out nail colours to match your skin tone and nail length. You can also save your favourite colours to buy later. Spruce Share your information online,…

Ever dreamed of owning your own designer bag, think Louis Vuitton, YSL, Chanel… KELLY’S uses its online platforms of Facebook and Instagram to sell lux handbags. The pieces range from vintage collectors items (A 1989 Chanel Flap Bag is currently available to purchase!), Celine, Chanel, Givenchy, Louis Vuitton, Yves Saint Laurent to name a few! Some of the brands aren’t readily available in South Africa – imagine that! Prices range from 20%-60% below the new retail price. Upon request KELLY’S can source unique handbags for clients who may be looking for something that's exceptionally rare or again not readily available in South Africa. KELLY'S handbags are 100% authenticated and will be delivered to your door within 3-5 working days across South Africa and Africa! www.facebook.com/kellyshandbag/ www.instagram.com/kellys_handbag/ Alternatively, e-mail us at…

It was her love for theatre that propelled the young Zuri Hall to focus on the arts when growing up in Toledo, Ohio. “I had a lovely childhood. Ohio is a great place to raise a family as it’s quite slow paced. I was in love with music and theatre from an early age, and my family and teachers always encouraged me. I would write and direct plays and cast my brothers and cousins in them – it was my favourite thing to do during the holidays,” she recalls. She and her younger brothers were raised by her parents, who always encouraged the petite star to put education first before pursuing a career in entertainment. “The value of hard work was the biggest lesson my parents taught me. They sacrificed…

“I NEVER FELT LIKE I WAS SUFFERING BY EATING LESS AND EXERCISING MORE. THE KEY WAS FINDING EXERCISES I ENJOYED. IF YOU DON’T, YOU WON’T STICK WITH IT.”– Jordin Sparks, American musician and actress TAKE A PAUSE Modern life has become highly stressful and emotionally draining. Meditation gurus have come up with a concept they call “mindfulness pausing” to help lower stress. They suggest pausing from time to time during the day to regulate emotions. Take 30 seconds every hour to pause, breathe and reflect. Count from one to 30 and then continue doing what you were busy with. Breathing is a great tool to clear the mind, and can boost your concentration span. GET STRETCHING Fitness experts say that circling the arms, arching the back and doing lunges are…

“THIS WORLD NEEDS MULTIPLE INTELLIGENT LEADERS WHO CAN CREATE AN ENTREPRENEUR MOVEMENT CAPABLE OF CREATING NEW INDUSTRIES AND NEW JOB OPPORTUNITIES.”Wendy Luhabe, businesswoman and founder of Wiphold FAMILY BREAKDOWN According to the Department of Social Development’s white paper on families, the proportion of households made up of the nuclear family structure of mom, dad and their biological children has declined, while the number of households made up of extended families has increased. Also on the rise are single-mom, three-generation and blended families. See our story on blended families on page 110. DID YOU KNOW? By 2030, customer service and experience will overtake price and product as the key brand differentiator. The customer will be more informed and in charge of the experience they receive. They will expect companies to know…

On average, about 50% of all start-up businesses in South Africa fail within 24 months as a result of inexperience. Further research reveals that funding is the biggest cause for the failure of most businesses. Like many other hopefuls, designer Paledi Segapo, owner of Pulse, didn’t get a financial injection from anyone after many applications to the bank. “There was no way I could get capital from a financial institution because of the nature of the industry I work in. It’s deemed very high risk because it’s not a big enough industry. The only funding I got was through the Gauteng Growth Development Agency for marketing tools for things like the website, business cards and banners. It’s only now that we’re looking at applying for actual finance to grow the…

We’re swooning over this artwork by Gary Card, which was on show at the Roksanda A/W16 show. It added a fun and colourful element as the models strutted their stuff on the runway. Pairing popping colours that clash or complement each other is the new trend spotted on runways. We loved the retro pairing of sweaters with kitsch pattern skirts at Miu Miu A/W16, and bold-coloured coats with dresses at Roksanda A/W16. Pull off this look by wearing a classic camel coat with an orange dress.…

THE INS AND OUTS OF VELVET 1. Choose one velvet item as a base and work the rest of the outfit around it. 2 . Stick to deeper tones like midnight blue, charcoal and crimson. 3. The clothes must be well ironed. Creased velvet looks cheap. 4. A spot of dark lipstick takes the look to vamp levels. Our muse! We give a fashion salute to the late Prince for his inspirational top-to-toe velvet suits and platform heels. Velvet will never be the same without him.…

SO HANDY Heal the skin on your hands with Filorga Hand Absolute Ultimate Rejuvenating Hand and Nail Cream, R400. The formulation is made to nourish skin while boosting nail growth. SMOOTH OPERATOR Stop signs of ageing with Kiehl’s Nightly Refining Micro-Peel Concentrate, R750. It has natural quinoa husk extracts that work as you sleep. PICTURE PERFECT best facial Highlight your features using the Smashbox LA Lights Blush and Highlight Palette, R450, which has blush hues and a highlighter. The three shades complement one another to help you create a flawless make-up finish. SLEEK LOCKS Get the hair salon look with Dark and Lovely Amla Legend Sleek Repair, R29,95. The triple-action spray prevents damage, adds shine and protects strands from heat damage. Spray liberally on hair before applying heat. FIVE…

BRIGHTNESS BOOSTER The treatment: Radiance even tone, an intensive treatment that combines Microdermabrasion with CEYA® technology. Microdermabrasion is a quick, non-invasive procedure used to resurface the skin by gently exfoliating it. The tiny grains buff away dead cells. CEYA technology is radiofrequency that generates deep heat to aid in reducing pigmentation and skin discolouration. The facial improves radiance, brightens complexion, reduces pigmentation and discolouration. The cost: R550 at Placecol skincare clinics. BEFORE THE PARTY The treatment: Dermalogica MicroZone® is a 20-minute, treatment that addresses random breakouts, dullness and tired eyes. The process involves face mapping – a type of skin analysis – as well as a professional double cleanse, customised exfoliation, masque, tone, treatment serum and moisturiser application. Depending on the skin concern, a MicroZone® treatment can…

THE GREAT GATSBY Become a movie star like entertainment queen Bonang Matheba in her ’50s Hollywood-inspired hair, created by celebrity hairstylist Saadique Ryklief. You’ll need rollers, not a tong or a flat iron, to create the perfect curl. Adds Ryklief: “Finger wave the hair in sections and clip it to set while spraying with extra-hold holding spray.” BOLD MOHAWK Talented American actress Keke Palmer is fearless when it comes to hairstyles. Her current look, with sides shaved off, is fresh and edgy, and gives her lots of scope to play with different styles. To achieve Keke’s funky look, add extensions for length and bang. Clip in as many wefts as you need to get the volume you want, then use bobby pins to roll and tuck at the crown, making…

Nthati Moshesh has portrayed more characters in international films than local ones. Her first movie role was in Kini and Adam, which scored the coveted Cannes Film Festival nod. She’s acted alongside industry greats such as Miranda Otto in The Long Run, and has appeared in features such as Beat the Drum, Round Trip and The Seven of Daran: Battle of Pareo Rock, to name a few. In 2004, she won the Canadian Gemini Award for playing Odette in Human Cargo. She made her debut on the TV series African Skies in 1993 after working mainly in theatre. The mother of one has since starred in many local productions, including Scandal!, 7de Laan, Gaz’lam, Interrogation Room and, most recently, Saints & Sinners. Born in Katlehong and raised in Sandton by…

START WEIGHT: 75 KG GOAL WEIGHT: 53 KG I never used to have a problem with my weight until I fell pregnant in 2013 and gained a whopping 21kg! I went from 54kg to 75kg. A year ago, I started eating properly without skipping meals. I snack on fruits or healthy bars, and drink lots of water. In the morning, I eat cereal and an apple. Lunch is mostly salads, but I love chicken. I eat grilled meat and lots of vegetables for dinner. I’ve cut down on sugar and banned fizzy drinks in my home. I also joined the gym, and go three times a week. On the days that I don’t go to the gym, I exercise at home. I’ve been consistent in my exercising and eating right,…

BANTU BEAUTY Black Chyna and Rihanna have upped the Bantu knots cool factor. This style provides protection for both natural and relaxed hair, and results in tight curls when undone. BEST BRAIDS The typical long, thick braids are getting shorter and more defined. Play with different lengths and widths, and add beads for a pop of colour. Look to the likes of Brandy and Erykah Badu for inspiration. FAUX LOVE Glam queens, Ciara and Zendaya, have turned to faux locks for the trendiest style. Personalise yours by adding highlights using lighter pieces among darker strands. CORNROW CRAZE The Kardashians can’t get enough of this uber style. The longer the braid, the better. Wrap it into a bun for a night out.…

We all know of people in business who’ve lost it all. These are the people who suddenly lead an extravagant lifestyle because they scored one big deal that paid them really well. Studies show that most businesses close down before even reaching the profitability stage. Here are some of the mistakes that business owners should avoid by all means. 1. Chasing money Many start-ups focus too much on growing the sales volume or size of the business. They also work on diversifying and covering a larger footprint. The business expands more than it can be supported by its working capital and fails. Early on, the owner must focus on profit rather than sales volume. In business, cash is king, so monitoring is very important. This is all the money that…

Sex in a long-term relationship can become routine and feel like a chore. The problem may be that you’ve stuck to a safe way that you’re too scared to disrupt. To help spice up intimacy and keep things exciting this winter, we’ve put together tips that will rekindle the fire that brought you together. 1. SET THE DATE Send your man an email or a text, and tell him to be at a certain spot at a certain time (a hotel, or wherever you can be alone together). Once he gets there, blindfold him, lead him to the bed or blanket, lay him down, and tease his socks off. Actually, he can keep his socks on – it’s everything else that has to come off. The uncertainty and anticipation (and…

THERE’S NOTHING LIKE A GLASS OF FINE WINE IN WINTER. FULL BODIED, IT PAIRS PERFECTLY WITH STEWS OR STEAKS.Durbanville Hills wines are available at liquor stores. OPEN AIR SPACES Look to Michael Obert’s spacious Braamfontein flat for inspiration on how to decorate your home. Simple yet stylish furniture, larger-than-life artworks and quirky design pieces make for a relaxed and character-filled place. Turn to page 138 to see more. POWERFUL You’ll have no worries with electricity this month if you have a Grundig oven. While using less energy than a conventional oven, this German machine can cook three meals simultaneously without mixing aromas. This multitasking oven has 13 cooking functions, is thickly insulated, and has improved circulation for evenly cooked food. It retails for R12 999 at selected Hirsch stores.…

1. WHAT GETS YOU UP IN THE MORNING? My family, my dreams and my goals. These are intertwined. The lifestyle I desire for my family and the legacy that I want to leave for my children, my family and my community. On a micro level, getting my children to school every morning. 2. WHAT WOULD YOU DEFINE AS A PIONEERING SPIRIT? I would say it is the willingness to keep pushing every day, even when you have been on the end of rejection daily. It is about forging forward, staying motivated and repeatedly committing to your chosen path, despite the challenges. It is about consciously and constantly defining what success looks like, for you. It is about choosing your life while recognising that we do not live as islands, in…

BOOKS GANG TOWN  by Don Pinnock, Tafelberg, R225 Cape Town is a tourist haven, with beautiful Table Mountain, its long strip of bays and a lifestyle to die for. However, the city also has an ugly side to it. It is riddled with gangs, crime, money laundering, prostitution and corruption, and police seem to be fighting a losing battle. Don Pinnock gives insight into the city’s gangs, how they started and why they are attractive to the youth. He also examines possible solutions for Cape Town, garnered from his 30 years of research. Rating: 4/5 WE’LL ALWAYS HAVE PARIS  by Emma Beddington, Pan Macmillan, R310 This is a sweet memoir about a moody English 16-year-old who is charmed by everything French. She dedicates 10 years to learning the French…

GEMINI (21 May – 20 Jun) It feels like you are caught up in a pot of ready-to-pop popcorn – wait for the lid to lift and pop right out, taking others with you. Share your enthusiasm and don’t let judgment hold you back. The unrest is within yourself; don’t blame others for not keeping up with you. Love: Cupid is aiming right at you – glam up, and make it easy by opening your heart before the 18th. You could talk yourself into something fabulous. You’re hot property. Work/Money: From the 13th, you start connecting in ways that show off your wisdom. Don’t be alarmed if what you thought you could count on isn’t quite so. Take a step back and reassess the situation before acting again. CANCER (21…