Innehållsförteckning för December 2017 från True Love

OVER AND OUT The '90s trend of wearing a dress or shorts over pants is back. Ace the look by wearing a crop top over a formal blouse. STAND OUT Black and white are no longer the go-to colours for a night out. Electric pops of colour are the trend. ATHLEISURE Who says sportswear is only for the gym? Give an evening look an active kick with a bomber or track-pants slacks. HEAD GIRL High school Alice bands are back in vogue and have been given a gorgeous makeover.…

Social media has spawned several new careers that the generation before us could never have imagined. On the fashion front, bloggers sprung up. The really good ones have graduated to become ‘influencers’, the new title that every blogger is working hard to earn. WHO’S WHO? Before Bryanboy, many of us had never even heard of the term ‘fashion blogging’. Bryan Grey Yambao, known to the fashion industry as ‘Bryanboy’, started the trend. Having blogged since 2004, he now has 612 000 followers on Instagram and 583 000 on Twitter. His ‘likes’ for a single post can top 16 000. As a result, the Filipino fashion blogger gets to rub shoulders with powerful industry names like Anna Wintour, Marc Jacobs and Stefano Gabbana, and is a front-row fixture at all the…

The best way to handle the effects of a crazy-fun night out starts with knowing how it affects your body on the inside, even before you start the rescue mission for your skin. The dehydration caused by alcohol is hard to reverse because you don’t just lose the good nutrients that make your skin look healthy and radiant; alcohol also eats up vitamin A, an important antioxidant that plays a powerful role in cell rejuvenation. So, before you step out of the house to shake, rattle and roll, take the necessary steps to ensure you won’t find the night’s shenanigans evident on your face the next morning. Make a decision before you go out to avoid carbohydrates and drinks that are high in sugar. These culprits are behind your skin’s…

“WOMEN HAVE BECOME STRONGER. WE’VE ACCEPTED WHO WE ARE AND WE’RE DOING OUR THING.” Tshepiso Mabulana is well on her way to making her mark in her chosen field. She co-hosts the popular 3-6pm drive-time slot on YFM, called The Best Drive, with Sabelo Mtshali. Before getting this coveted gig, the two hosted the lunch-time slot, The Best Thing Ever. Tshepi also hosts the specialised show, The Game Changer, which airs on YFM on Mondays from 10pm to midnight. Its theme is woman empowerment. In addition, Tshepi is a budding voice-over artist. All this, after she kicked off her career in 2013 as part of YFM’s six-month radio internship programme, Y-Academy. And to add to her rising star, in April, she was named the brand ambassador for a new wine…

It’s a problem when the office party is only weeks away and you still can’t squeeze into your little black dress, or when you meet friends for an annual catch-up session and feel like the only one who looks frumpish this year. Still, with December’s social calendar keeping you away from the gym, not to mention those delicious cocktails upping your calorie count, surely it’s inevitable? Not at all. Fortunately, you don’t need to quit your job and scrap your social life to shape up for the party; you simply have to harness a few smart strategies. We got the hottest international fitness professionals on the workout scene to unravel the secret weapons they use when they need to slim down in a hurry. BECOME A MULTITASKER – Shaun Stafford…

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ON THE DAY BEFORE… Who’s going? Sure, a vacation is nice. But make sure you know who is going on this trip, and that you’re comfortable with them. If it’s just you and your friend, plus five other guys – whom you’ve never met – in a van, then you may want to rethink going at all. “If you feel even the slightest hint of discomfort about the list of vacationers, then you should trust your instincts and not go,” says Ricky Williams, a travel expert. “Men tend to feel emboldened to try things they wouldn’t normally do when women are willing to go out of town with them.” Pack : Last-minute packing is a breeze once you get the hang of it. But for the uninitiated, it can…

December is open season for criminals to make money off unsuspecting South Africans. Our experts help you to prevent falling victim to scams. It’s all about being vigilant and taking simple precautionary measures so you can enjoy the holidays in peace. BANK CARD SAFETY Keeping your bank card safe may seem like a no-brainer, but you need to be alert at all times, especially during simple activities like paying for a meal at a restaurant or for groceries at a store – even if it means putting your card in the machine to make the payment yourself. That can save you from stress arising from fraud. Ryan Prozesky, CEO of Value Banking Solutions at FNB, says: “Your card is not transferable. Only the person whose name appears on the card…

From decor and styling to pallet tables, cushions and snacks, Lele’s Picnics offers all you need to set up the perfect picnic. Whether it’s a romantic setting for two or a gathering for family and friends, the company caters to all occasions. “There’s something intimate and beautiful about everyone coming together to enjoy a picnic,” says owner Lebogang ‘Lele’ Sadiki. “We create that experience for everyone and we do it anywhere, be it in your backyard or at a park.” How did it all start? Lebogang says she’s always enjoyed planning events, which is what inspired her to start the business. “I’ve always appreciated family and friends gatherings, and would often volunteer to plan and organise these myself. I’d then go the extra mile to make sure that the occasion…

DJ Tira’s music is the soundtrack to the fun times in many South Africans’ lives. His current track, Malume – featuring Tipcee and Joejo – is dominating the dance scene. Last December, Umsindo – his collaboration with DJ Sox – reached anthem status and earned the two DJs Best Duo/Group Album at this year’s Metro FM Music Awards. The pair came together in 2005 to form kwaito group Durban’s Finest and achieved great acclaim. After a few years, they went their separate ways before regrouping last year. Mthokozisi Khathi was born in Hlabisa in KwaZulu-Natal. He kicked off his music career while studying Human Resources at the then University of Natal in Durban, where he’d play at campus parties, weddings and night clubs. He then won the Smirnoff SA DJ…

We’re still on a high following our beautiful November cover shoot at the spectacular Victoria Falls Safari Club in Zimbabwe. We wish we could go back for a longer vacation these December holidays. But we take comfort knowing that South Africa has so much of its own hospitality and spectacular attractions to offer. We’re sure that you, like us, can’t wait to enjoy our country’s glorious bush, beach or urban getaways this December. But with so much fun on the horizon comes the need to be cautious, especially healthwise and moneywise. Keeping to an exercise regime while on vacation isn’t that hard, as you’ll see on page 54. Holiday time is open season for criminals. Follow our experts’ advice on page 102 to keep your finances out of the clutches…

EYE SPY An eyeshadow palette with a gorgeous set of colours to create stunning looks from morning till night is ideal. The BlackUP Eye Shadow Palette R855 is my current favourite. You can play by applying the varied hues with their shimmery finish to your eyes until you come up with designs to complement every ensemble you rock this festive season. HOLIDAY GLAMOUR Dior’s 2017 Holiday Collection is a dream for your eyes, lips and nails. It’s a sophisticated yet fun make-up line that caters to the modern woman. Creative director Peter Philips did a phenomenal job with the silky textures and electrifying shades. We love: Dior Vernis Nail Colour R440 Dior Vernis Gloss R650 SKIN ILLUMINATOR As a fan of Chanel N°5, I was thrilled to see this limited-edition…

6 EYELINER TRICKS TO TRY Use a white eye pencil instead of an eyeshadow primer. The white liner serves as a canvas for the liner and helps the line to stay put for longer. For precise lines, invest in a liner with a pointy felt tip for more control. When applying eyeliner or mascara, look down instead of straight at the mirror to avoid crooked lines and gaps. To create graphic lines, cut a piece of cellotape and stick it on and off your hand to make it less adhesive. Now place the tape where you’d like to create the lines, fill the space with an eyeliner and remove the sticky tape. Use a little make-up remover or Vaseline on a cotton bud to wipe away any overlaps of liner.…

“I’m stupidly happy,” says a beaming Minnie. In July, the media personality said “I do” to Quinton Jones in a chic traditional wedding ceremony held in her hometown, Durban. Then two months later, the couple tied the knot as part of an exquisite white wedding event in Cape Town. It marked the crescendo in an eventful year. Minnie hosted the seventh season of the star-studded SABC3 programme, Tropika Island of Treasure, which was filmed in the Seychelles. She made the jump from SABC Sport to the DStv channels SuperSport and Mzansi Magic, where she now co-anchors the lifestyle and sports show Homeground with Lungile Radu. She also works on other shows, including Super Diski. And that’s not all: 2017 saw the media darling assume a new role as executive producer…

“I WANT TO LET EVERYONE KNOW IT’S OKAY TO BE INTERSEX... BUT I DON’T WANT THIS TO BE THE ONLY THING ABOUT ME.” “When I entered the Miss South Africa beauty contest, I intended to make a difference in our education system as I’m passionate about education. I first entered the competition in 2015 and didn’t get in. I entered again in 2016 and was among the top five finalists. I enjoyed it and grew from the experience. Entering a pageant that is based on beauty, you have to be secure and confident. There’ll always be someone taller, thinner or prettier than you. I purposely went on board with my natural hair, so I was totally myself. I stood my ground even during the makeovers to keep my natural hair.…

Summer is here and the sun, sea and sand are beckoning. People are more relaxed as they spend time with family and friends. The extended party time means they are also more likely to “get it on” with their partner or someone they fancy. It may be the silly season, but that’s no excuse for you to put your health at risk when it comes to sex. Despite extensive progress in the diagnosis, treatment and prevention of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), the prevalence of common STIs remains a problem around the world. This is because people behave differently on holiday, says Professor Elna McIntosh, a clinical sexologist. “People tend to abuse alcohol and drugs when they’re on holiday, and they let go of their inhibitions.” Everyone is tired and worn…

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Born and raised in Springs, Gauteng, Lerato Kotane describes her family as tight-knit, saying her parents instilled good values and a great work ethic in their kids, and to this day, these are what she embraces in her personal and professional life. “My mom was a nurse and dad was a teacher. I was always told to work to my fullest potential and never to underestimate the power I had as a girl,” she says. “I always joke and say I’m not sure if I chose engineering, or if engineering chose me. I considered myself a creative type growing up, which is why I initially considered a career in fashion design. The fact that I had good grades in maths and science, though, made my parents question this career choice.…

With the shocking stories about the sexual abuse of schoolchildren that have recently made headlines comes the need for parents to be ultra-vigilant when it comes to ensuring their children’s safety. South Africans were horrified to hear of the scholar patroller at an Orlando, Soweto school who was arrested for allegedly molesting 87 pupils. There’s also the case of the former Parktown Boys High assistant waterpolo coach, who is facing charges of having sexually assaulted more than 20 teenage boys. These revelations beg the question: How can you be sure that your child is safe at school, as well as at home? A recent study by the Children’s Institute at the University of Cape Town found that between 20% and 34% of South Africa’s children experience some form of contact…

THE DAY BEFORE THE MEETING… INTERVIEW YOUR BOYFRIEND There’s only one person who can help you prepare for this meeting: your boyfriend. He has an obligation to help you, after such short notice. Don’t let him get away with brush-off sentences like, “Oh, they’re fine – just be yourself.” Parents are only that way with their own sons, not the women they date. Whichever way you choose to look at it, the man you’re dating and whom you love is the way he is because of his parents. They set the rules of the household he grew up in. They moulded his mind, spirit and heart. And right now, within that house and heart, they’re king and queen, not you… at least, not yet. “The first encounter between prospective in-laws…

TOMATO AND BASIL BREAD Ingredients 250g rosa tomatoes Olive oil 240g flour 2 tsp baking powder 6 eggs 1 cup milk 250g basil pesto 320g parmesan cheese, grated Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper Fresh basil leaves Method 1. Preheat oven to 200°C. Halve and season tomatoes, then drizzle with olive oil. Roast in oven for 20 minutes. Set aside to cool. 2. Combine flour and baking powder. In a bowl beat eggs, then mix in flour mixture, a bit at a time until combined. Add milk and basil pesto, and stir through. 3. Fold half of the roasted tomatoes into the mixture as well as parmesan cheese. Spoon into a greased ring pan. Place in the microwave and press the preheat button first. When done, bake for…

Sagittarius (22 Nov – 21 Dec) Very little can throw you off balance. You’ve become expert at managing life’s lessons. Hold steady, though, as there’s always a curve ball. Expand your awareness and reconnect with life and creation. Love: Follow the path to unexplored places. By the end of the month, the heat will be on. Work/Money: Expect a month of confusion from the 3rd to the 23rd. Quieten down the ‘noise’ by using your mind in new and creative ways. CAPRICORN (22 Dec – 19 Jan) It’s time to let go of experiences that have shaped you. Forgive and let go of what hasn’t served you in a while. Love: The world is full of distractions. Once you’ve plucked your love from the crowd, bring them…

The key to styling a bold item of clothing is to pair it with subtle staples from your wardrobe. Accessories can glam up the look for a night on the town or downplay it to suit a formal office environment. Here's how to make the most of your investment piece. LAYER Wear a skirt or dress to break the sparkle. A pencil skirt or spaghetti strap dress works for the office. COVER UP A tailored coat finishes the jumpsuit and is great to wear to the dance club. ACCESSORISE Use belts, turbans, earrings and clutches to make the outfit look new. The looks above and below are ideal for a wedding or work do.…

1. All the benefits of the coveted Stayfast Liquid Matte Lip Vinyl R119,95 – bold colour, 24-hour wear and ultra-matte finish – now come with a glittery finish that you’ll love. 2. Make a statement in the brightest matte paint with L’Oreal Infallible Lip Paints R179,95. Our favourite shades include King Pink, Hollywood Beige and Red Actually. 3. This compact bullet fits into the smallest clutch. The Urban Decay Revolution High Color Lipgloss R330 is incredibly rich in colour and has brilliant shine finish. 4. A beautiful combination of hydration, colour and comfort, the Dolce & Gabbana Miss Sicily Colour and Care Lipstick R625 is the most iconic lip care yet. The shades are inspired by the fashion brand’s luxurious fabrics. 5. The lippie with the ultimate staying power, Maybelline…

PUFFY PONYTAIL This slicked-back hairdo with its centre parting and puffy pony combo is a winner. Copy the look by using a brush to get your hair flat and applying some edge control gel to make sure that the style lasts all day. HALF AND HALF Zendaya revives the classic half-up, half-down style. We love the curly pony. FRO The lady loves to break all hair rules, and she does so beautifully. This afro wig is stunning! Maintain yours by using a moisturising spray. MODERN LADY This ’60s updo is simple and classy. To keep it looking fresh, use lots of leave-in conditioner on damp hair before styling. OLD FINGER WAVE Zendaya channels the retro appeal of 1920s Hollywood. For a perfect finish, have your hair done professionally. HEAVY CURLS…

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HUAWEI MATE 10 PRO This device showcases Huawei's reputation for superior performance and long-lasting battery life. It boasts the new Leica Dual Camera technology, enabling you to take crisp pictures, and features an attractive 3D Glass Body as well as intelligent photography, including the AI-powered Real-Time Scene and Object Recognition. The phone sells for R18 999 at leading retailers. SAMSUNG GEAR VR WITH CONTROLLER Virtual reality will transport you to new worlds in a way you’ve never imagined, and the Gear VR headset takes it to a whole new level. The controller is curvy, offering you convenient one-hand control and better motion interaction, with minimised head movement, for a comfortable experience. Available for R1 999 at Samsung stores. JAYBIRD FREEDOM WIRELESS BLUETOOTH® HEADPHONES Take your tunes to the streets with…

DREAM DESTINATION “My husband and I are planning to take a holiday to Jamaica for some sun and water. It’ll be the perfect getaway this festive season. I can’t wait!” DOWNTIME HOBBY “Yoga centres me and makes me feel stronger. It helps me to find peace when there’s a lot of noise around me and get my energy back.” CURRENT READ I’m currently reading I Choose Us by John Philip Louis & Karen McDonald Louis. I still feel like a newlywed, even though I got married two years ago. I feel I need to know how to get a handle on the elusive marriage-career balance.”…

ON THE DAY BEFORE… THINK OF A THEME Every successful party has a theme, and you must decide what yours is going to be within 30 minutes of discovering that you’re playing host, especially since you’ll need to send out the invitations as soon as possible. A theme sets the mood for a party. It gives people something to look forward to. For example, a Hollywood theme means that everyone should show up as a character out of a movie, while a karaoke party will mean that there’s going to be a lot of singing. Since you’ve only got 24 hours to plan your party, and guests will only have about the same time to get ready for it, your theme should ideally require few stage props (to save you…

So you think you’re something of a sexpert in the bedroom. You know what to do and when to do it. Teboho’s friend told him about a sex move that the ladies just love. It’s complicated, so Teboho wrote it down. That night, he and Dineo are in bed. They’ve just had sex, and there’s a look of bewildered wonder on her face as she says: DINEO: “Wow! That was great.” TEBOHO: “It just came to me.” D: “Never in my life have I... what was that?” T: “You mean, at the end?” D: “Uh-huh.” T: “A counter-clockwise swirl.” But then Dineo spots something on Teboho’s hand. D: “What’s that?” T: “What?” D: “On your hand? Let me see what’s on your hand.” T: “Nothing. I don’t know... just a…

YUMMY TREATS For a healthy kick between meals, snack on Blue Diamond Almonds. Its range of nuts are lightly roasted and packed with nutritional goodness. All products come packaged in an airtight container to maintain freshness and the perfect crunch for longer. Look out for these four yummy flavours: lime and chilli, roasted salted, salt ’n vinegar, and smokehouse. Munch away, without feeling guilty. SPARKLING DELIGHT It’s time to put your feet up and enjoy chilled beverages all day long. What better way to do that than with some sparkling wine? Robertson Winery’s Lightly Sparkling range is the perfect choice. Its Sauvignon Blanc offering has delicate, fruity flavours of grapefruit, melon and passion fruit, while Pinot Noir Rosé has the refreshing scent of ripe strawberries, with hints of rose petal…

AVOCADO AND SPICY CHORIZO TOPPER Ingredients 2 bagels, sliced in half Lettuce leaves 2 avocados, sliced Spicy chorizo, sliced Feta cheese, crumbled Method 1. Place lettuce on bagels. Add avocado slices and chorizo. Top with crumbled feta. Serve. PINEAPPLE AND CORIANDER CHICKEN CROISSANT Ingredients 2 chicken thighs, cooked Pineapple, thinly sliced 1 clove garlic, crushed 1 tsp ginger, grated Bunch coriander, chopped 1 radish, sliced ¼ cup lime 1/3 cup honey 1/3 cup olive oil 4T cream cheese Salt and pepper 2 croissants Method 1. Preheat oven to 200°C. Place pineapples on rack and grill until dried out. Remove and leave to cool. 2. In a bowl, place garlic, ginger, lime juice, honey and olive oil, and whisk together until well blended. Season with salt and pepper. Remove and refrigerate.…

Movies PITCH PERFECT 3 Release date: 22 December This is the final call for the Bellas as they reunite for the last time. Everyone puts their separate lives on hold and joins the OSU tour in Spain. What the group hadn’t expected was how tough the competition would be. They have to dig deep to win. This is the perfect finale to the trilogy. ACCIDENT Release date: 1 December Friends Jess and Caroline are ready to party it up in northern California, but miss their bus to the festival of the year. They come across Thomas and Fred, who offer them a ride. Then all four are involved in a car accident and the tension rises as they fight to survive this and other disastrous revelations. A gripping…