Innehållsförteckning för November 2019 från True Love

I met this month’s cover star, Pearl Thusi, over a decade ago. We were both plebs in the media industry. She was a full-time model from KZN trying to make it in Jozi. I was also at the very beginning of my career – working my way up as a fashion stylist. Our relationship grew as she became my model of choice – she was always on call, literally a text away. One of the saddest memories I have was a moment we shared in the dressing room about how heartbreak had literally showed her flames. I remember thinking: Pearl? Heartbreak? Who on earth would break the heart of this drop-dead gorgeous, smart and amazing beauty? The Pearl I saw in that moment was a delicate bird with a broken…

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DRESS "A flowy maxi dress will always take the cup for me. It feels amazing on the skin and allows for great comfort. You can dress it up or down by just adding accessories like a thick waist belt." R899 Zara BAG "I’m torn between a dainty sling bag to carry all my essentials when going out on the town. You won't have to worry about carrying something heavy the whole night. On the other hand, a medium-to-large tote bag is amazing if you’ll be collecting souvenirs throughout your trip." R299 Style Republic @ Superbalist.com SHOES "There’s nothing more handy, for any form of travel, than white sneakers. They are easy to pair with a maxi dress for long walks in the spice markets of Zanzibar or with a crisp…

THE NEW FACE OF POND’S Following a nationwide search, iconic skincare brand, POND’S announced Nomfundo Mlaba as the winner of their #IAMTHEFACEOFPOND’S ambassador search competition. The social media community manager from Ezibomvini, Pietermaritzburg, will join Ayanda Thabethe and Thembi Seete as an official face of the brand. “Being the face of Pond’s is an assurance that dreams come true. It also means I finally have a platform to influence young girls’ minds and encourage them to break any boundary between them and their dreams. It’s also about preaching the word on how important taking care of your skin is,” Nomfundo says. UNLEASH YOUR INNER MAKE-UP ARTIST INSPIRED BY THE FASHION CAPITALS OF THE WORLD, CATRICE IS LAUNCHING ITS SPRING/ SUMMER 2019 MAKE-UP COLLECTION FOCUSING ON THIS SEASON’S TRENDS. THE RANGE’S…

The sun’s rays are heavenly. However, be sure to use a sun screen with a high SPF to minimise visible signs of aging, sunburn, dark spots, discolouration and hyperpigmentation. Follow these tips: WEAR SUNSCREEN DAILY Regardless of the weather or season, the sun’s damaging rays are still at work. Therefore, sunscreen is a non-negotiable step in your skincare routine all year round. Apply protective cream on the exposed areas of your skin daily. Cut down the number of steps in your skincare routine by opting for a moisturiser with SPF instead of a separate sunscreen. APPLY ENOUGH AND RE-APPLY THROUGHOUT THE DAY Apply about two tablespoons worth of sunscreen on the exposed areas of your body. Do it 30 minutes before you head out to give it enough time to…

MINIMISE YOUR USUAL HAIR ROUTINE You don’t have to wash your hair daily when travelling as this will strip off the natural oils needed to keep it healthy and shiny. Between washes, apply dry shampoo to the roots before styling. Also avoid excessive usage of hair dryers, straighteners, and curling irons as they can make your hair more fragile, especially in warm weather. OPT FOR EASY PROTECTIVE STYLES Quick updos are definitely worth mastering as they are easy to maintain. These protective styles will keep your neck cool and prevent your hair from being severely damaged by the harmful rays of the sun and wind. Try out various styles of braids and ponytails. Take along some hair accessories to simplify your styling routine and create quick, effortless hairstyles. CHOOSE YOUR…

Being an emigrant is a lesson in resilience. I’ve never had as much respect for emigrants like I did when I moved to New York. I couldn’t rent a place because I didn’t have a bank account, and I couldn’t get an account because I didn’t have permanent residency. It takes someone who’s willing to process that much new information, at an older age, to truly survive a place with no safety net. Spiritually, nothing divides the human race. We don’t need words to connect with people and I learnt this very important lesson during a trip to Brazzaville, Congo. Fighting amongst ourselves, because of our differences, is a waste of time. African confidence and power come from within. I’m excited about being in Lagos this November to host the…

How did you get into TV presenting? I started doing TV work around age eight. I was introduced to voice-overs by the legendary Polao Mohoto, who also happened to be friends with my father. He would rope me in whenever they had voice-over gigs. As a child, I’d observe visitors’ mannerisms and then emulate them the minute they left — an early sign of my passion for TV. I got my first TV breakthrough as a contestant on the SABC1 show, Friends Like These, with DJ Sbu. Thereafter, CEO and founder of Urban Brew, Danie Ferreira, gave me a chance to work for his company. I worked behind the scenes and gathered as much experience as I could before working my way up from runner to director. The goal was…

Chromat models walked down the Spring/Summer 2019 runways in braids bedazzled in pearls and rope, and celebrity hairstylist, Ursula Stephen, created bondage braids on models at the Maki Oh S/S 2019 show. Stars like Beyoncé and Shekinah have rocked braids in all styles and colours. Here’s how to care for yours: PROTECT YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT COTTON PILLOWCASES ABSORB ALL MOISTURE FROM YOUR HAIR. SO, KEEP YOUR HAIR WELL NOURISHED AND BRAIDS FRIZZ-FREE BY INVESTING IN A SATIN BONNET, SILK PILLOWCASE OR SILK SCARF. YOUR EDGES WILL ALSO REMAIN FRESHER. KEEP YOUR SCALP MOIST SPRAY YOUR HAIR ROOTS CONSTANTLY WITH WATER AND USE A MOISTURISING BRAID SPRAY WITH NATURAL OILS LIKE CASTOR OIL, ALMOND OIL OR OLIVE OIL TO DEEPLY NOURISH AND KEEP YOUR BRAIDS LOOKING HEALTHY. SPRITZ DAILY ALONG…

A recent study conducted by corporate cultural experts, The Human Edge, on SA women in business found that they battle with speaking frankly to those in higher positions. Of the 20 000 women surveyed, 55% said they would rather suffer in silence and find ways of coping with challenges such as a lack of support, discrimination and harassment. Co-founder of The Human Edge, Helene Vermaak, says, “Many women choose not to address these issues due to a fear of how they’ll be perceived. This highlights a lack of psychological safety within the organisation, as they believe that they’ll be victimised for speaking up, and due to this fear, have not pursued advancement in the past.” Of those women who were brave enough to speak up, 43% reported that nothing ever…

Any career highlights? I appreciate the recognition and the awards but I can’t really call them learning moments. It’s the more subtle things that happen along the way that you learn from. One of my first realisations was that you don’t get to the point where you cross the line and you’re done. The day never ever arrives! Do you feel you have ‘arrived’? No, there are so many dreams and things cooking. I’m far from being settled. On family? No, not yet. It’s still me, myself and I. I do have a partner though, which is great! How do you unwind? I’m a workaholic! If I’m not working, I love really fine food, wine and exploring beautiful places.…

Last month I shared how Jesus had to leave Judea and go back to Galilee; but the Bible says He needed to go through Samaria. However, this was a spiritual not a geographical need. The Jews despised the Samaritans, and often travelled east of the Jordan River to avoid Samaria and its inhabitants who they saw as an impure race with a defiled religion. And yet Jesus made a detour to specifically stop at a well – a place of significance – where physical and relational needs could be met. As Jesus was resting by the well, He initiated a conversation with a Samaritan woman who had had five husbands, and was on to a sixth. This woman was obviously thirsty in more ways than one. She reminds him that…

SAMOOSAS WITH CHUTNEY Serves: 4Prep Time: 45 mins Ingredients 1 T olive oil 450 g mince beef 1 onion, finely chopped 2 cloves garlic, crushed 1 tsp cumin 1 tsp coriander 1 tsp turmeric 1 tsp ginger, grated Salt and pepper 24 samoosa strip pastry Oil for deep frying Method 1. Heat oil in a large frying pan and brown mince. Add onion, garlic, cumin, coriander, turmeric and ginger. Cook, stirring from time to time until the mince is cooked. Season with salt and pepper. Remove and allow to cool. 2. Fold the pastry to make a triangle parcel. Open using 2 fingers and add a spoonful of mince. Fold the pastry to close, retaining the triangle shape. Use all the pastry and mince. Place in fridge. 3. Heat oil…

TSHEGO FEATURING KING MONADA - No Ties It’s going to be a big song. The reception has been amazing thus far. It’s a melodic song with a summer-time feel! NADIA NAKAI FEATURING TSHEGO - More Drugs Since the release of her album, Nadia Naked, the fans chose More Drugs, as their favourite. GEMINI MAJOR FEATURING TELLAMAN & NASTY C - Right Now It’s already doing big things on the streets and kids love it, so I think it’s going to continue doing well.…

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Who is Juan William Aria? After completing my BA degree at LISOF in 2009, I established Juan William Aria in 2010 and specialise in bridal, evening and special occasion wear. Our studio is in Little Falls, Roodepoort, and I'm 31 years old! How did you decide on fashion designing as a career? My uncle, Gideon, is a fashion designer and he was my biggest inspiration. I remember attending his fashion shows from the age of nine and knowing that I would one day follow in his footsteps. How would you describe your personal style? Modern, lux, contemporary and romantic are a few words I love using to describe my personal style. When did you get your first big break? When I started dressing the Queen of SA radio, Anele Mdoda.…

Global beauty brands are in a race to supply the growing demand for products that are environmentally friendly and ethically produced. A report in the New York Times in August 2018, estimates that by 2025 vegan beauty products will be a R312 billion business. This incentive pushes global brands to think outside of the box to meet the demand. Vivienne Joseph, Group Head of Beauty at Woolworths says, “It’s no secret that many brands in the beauty industry have met their fair share of controversy due to unethical and environmentally irresponsible practices and are now opting to also go green”. Locally, W. Beauty successfully launched their 100% vegan make-up and skincare products in 2019. Now, more South African brands are committed to meet the growing demand for vegan skincare, make-up…

NATURAL TRESSES Experiment with different hairstyles that are quick and easy to create. Ensure that your hair is hydrated by using a moisturising shampoo and conditioner that contain essential oils such as coconut or castor oil. A hair mask, moisturising lotion and hair mist will also help keep your locks smooth, manageable and shiny. Use a flake-free styling gel when shaping. SLEEK HAIR First treat your scalp with hairfood and be sure to use the correct relaxer for your hair type. Use a styling gel to create a ponytail or slicked-back hairdo, and glam it up with hairbands or clips.…

KAMOGELO MAGABANE Age: 36 Occupation: Project manager, events planner and body activist. “I don’t have a signature style becauseI mostly dress for comfort. I love Afrocentric garments, and requested a makeover because I’m having a wardrobe — I haven’t focused much on myself. This will help boost my self-esteem,” Kamogelo says. HAIR “I noticed that Kamo’s ‘keeping it natural’ with an afro and no makeup. I decided to glam up her hair a bit by creatively using the Marley braid fibre,” says Zola Ngejane of Urban Zulu Hair Salon. MAKE-UP “Oh my gosh, Kamo has beautiful features; I love her lips and dimples. Her smooth and radiant skin made my job easy. She doesn’t have oily skin, which is good. I went for a Tracee Ellis Ross red carpet clean…

City that brings out the best in me…Contrary to all the rumours I’d heard about Joburg while still living in KwaZulu-Natal, Joburg has really embraced me. I love it for its great weather and infectious energy. It has loads of opportunities and is the most blazing city in Africa. By the way, my new favourite city in the US is Los Angeles. It feels like home — in a strange kind of way — because it combines Cape Town’s beautiful scenery, Joburg’s vibe and energy, and Durban’s weather and laidback fun. Plus, there are a lot of black people there! My very first getaway… Mozambique in 2005. I’m proud that it was an African country. The first country on my bucket list…I’ve always wanted to go to Egypt and Morocco…

What is this chapter of your life called? The cusp because I’m transitioning. I have access to everything I’ve always wanted, but it’s what I do with it that will determine whether I go further or not. What song are you in denial about liking? R. Kelly’s Heaven I Need A Hug tells the story of a man in desperate need of God’s mercy. What inspires you? Negativity fires me up — the more people say I can’t, the more I want to prove them wrong.…

Can a woman climax from anal sex? “Anal sex is not something that only happens in the genital area and in isolation, your whole body is involved. Some women find anal sex just as pleasurable because the nerve supply, pelvic movements, lubricants, and the emotional and erotic experiences add up and play an important role in achieving an orgasm,” Dr Mofokeng says. How important is protection? “A lot of people mistakenly assume that anal sex is devoid of risk and using condoms is unnecessary. Many common STIs can be transmitted during anal sex, either through oral play or penetration. HIV, specifically, has a higher risk of transmission through anal rather than vaginal sex. Ensure that the condoms you use are compatible with the lubricant you choose,” Dr Mofokeng adds. What…

Use aromatherapy for deeper sleep. Lavender, jasmine, vanilla and sandalwood are essential oils that promote deeper sleep. Add a few drops of your preferred oil in enough water in a diffuser to last the night. Wash your face with cold water. This might seem illogical but there’s a scientific reason why it works – you reset your nervous system. When you submerge your face in a bowl of cold water it triggers an involuntary phenomenon called the Mammalian Dive Reflex, which lowers your heart rate and blood pressure. This leaves you refreshed, relaxed and ready for bed. Ditch your sleep tracker. Most commercially available sleep trackers are not accurate as they only measure blood pressure and movement and may not accurately track REM sleep. Checking the data daily can lead…

How did you fall in love with food? Growing up, I always insisted on helping with the cooking instead of washing the dishes — which I really hated and still do. I felt a sense of pride when people would enjoy something that I'd helped to create. Food eventually became a part of my life and one of my love languages. I'm curious by nature, so I also enjoyed how versatile and experimental one could be with food. What are some of your favourite childhood memories? It has to be the bond I formed with my mom and grandmother over our cooking and tasting sessions. Our best conversations happened over pots and pans. Once, when my cousins and I were left alone, we decided to make toffee apples and my…

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Lucoh Mhlongo National make-up artist for Elizabeth Arden Elizabeth Arden Eight Hour Cream Intensive Lip Repair Balm R285 This hydrating balm with intensive moisture heals dry, chapped lips. It’s conditioning formula is scientifically proven to strengthen the delicate moisture barrier. Tsakane Ndlovu TRUE LOVE’s Junior Fashion Editor Burt’s Bees Mango Moisturizing Lip Balm R75 After just one swipe of this natural and fruity balm, your lips will love you forever. It nourishes and hydrates them in no time. Sihle Mthethwa PR manager for top brands such as Nivea and Labello Labello 3-in-1 Instant Repair R49,99 Combat dryness, flakiness and cracking with this combination of shea butter and dexpanthenol to help lock in moisture. Vuyo Varoy Pro make-up artist Revlon Kiss Exfoliating Balm R59,95 The sugar crystals in the balm help…

Mihlali Ndamase My biggest struggle is trying to keep my skin hydrated without clogging my pores. Johnson’s Fresh Hydration range gives my skin the moisture it needs without triggering my acne. Johnson’s Fresh Hydration Night Cream R79,95 DJ Zinhle The OLAY Total Effects Whip Cream feels super light, but still deeply nourishes my skin. I love its matte finish, and it works so well as a primer on those days when I want to wear make-up. OLAY Total Effects Whip Cream R450 Nandi Madida I love indulging in products that pamper and soothe my skin. LUX Even Tone Soap maintains my glow, bringing out my radiance and the summer queen that I am. It smells so good, which makes it more luxurious. LUX Even Tone Soap R13,99 Nomzamo Mbatha Keeping…

Pretty Pixie “This hairstyle is ideal when visiting hot and humid places. Simply maintain the curls with a hydrating conditioner and prepare to hit the road!” Silky Braids “Braids are perfect for island getaways. I use a braid spray to lock in moisture and base my scalp with hairfood.” Sleek Tresses “When visiting exotic cities, I like to rock a 20 to 30 inch weave. I apply a styling mist to wet and make the weave curly. For a sleek look, I use a styler to straighten the hair and apply a hydrating oil.” Edgy Bob “A bob makes me feel chic. I apply a fizz-free conditioning oil and hair juice for a smooth, edgy look.”…

Pearl Thusi is the embodiment of being comfortable in one’s skin. That she can randomly break into a twerk or dance up a storm outside an international airport, all while slowing down traffic, is classic of her. Once, during a 2013 photo shoot and interview for City Press’ iMagazine, she nonchalantly slipped out of her shoot ensemble back into her own clothes — completely unbothered that she was a bra and panty away from being naked in front of a journo she had just met. At our November cover shoot — at the Cradle Moon Lakeside Game Lodge in Muldersdrift — I joke about how that 2013 incident scarred me. “Yini, do you have a crush on me?” she asks wittily, before inviting me to watch her change into the…

I grew up between Diepkloof (DK) in Soweto, and Ennerdale, south of Johannesburg. “I was born in the former and lived with my grandparents for a while because my parents moved around a lot. At some point, my parents lived in a shack in Evaton and in backrooms until they bought a house in Ennerdale when my dad found a stable job. I still have very close ties to DK because of all the weekends and school holidays I spent there. I definitely appreciated Soweto more than I did Ennerdale because at home, we were kept kids whereas in DK, we would play until we dropped.” Being a broadcaster has always been a childhood dream. “I believe in timing and that everything happens as it should. I’ve dreamt of being…

MALEFA ‘MEL’ TLHAPI, 34, founder of Mel Prods SA and Soweto Travel Shop. After a diagnosis of a major depressive disorder, in 2012, Mel found refuge in travelling and established Soweto Travel Shop. Both businesses are travel orientated but cater for two different markets. Mel Prods SA focuses on female-only travel and is now expanding into children’s travel, whereas Soweto Travel Shop caters for all markets. Why a travel business? Travelling has turned out to be exactly the therapy I needed. I wanted to share this passion with many others, as well as share the sense of healing it has afforded me. What are some of the joys and challenges of a travel business? The excitement of first-time passport holders resonates a lot with me. The biggest challenge I’ve experienced,…

What is cloud-based technology? In the past, businesses used to buy equipment to host server applications and systems, but that’s no longer necessary with cloud technology. They simply access their data from the internet hosted by a third party — in this case being major cloud providers such as Google, Amazon and Microsoft. What does your job as a cloud engineer entail? The engineers usually specialise in either Google, Microsoft or Amazon cloud systems and need to know how to go about recommending the best solutions for businesses. You can either be a software, security or networks engineer. I’m more of a cloud architect — I design what the software engineer is going to build and work closely with other stakeholders. Briefly share your career history. I have almost 20…

THE BEGINNING Rapelang Rabana began her education journey at Thornhill Primary School in Gaborone, Botswana, and went on to complete her primary and secondary schooling at Roedean School in Joburg. She then studied for a business and computer science degree at the University of Cape Town. “It was really tough, but I managed to survive. I got there by mistake because I was quite adamant that I didn’t want to study after school. I wanted to take a break, gather myself and run off to figure out life. But you know that with Black parents, that is not an option,” Rabana says about varsity experience. Her brother, who had already started studying at UCT, advised her on the route to take. Considering that the 4th Industrial Revolution (4IR ) is…

When you leave before you’ve learnt what you came to learn: It builds your character to push through challenges and focus on achieving your goals. When you’re not paying attention to personal red flags: It’s difficult to say and even harder to accept, but sometimes you’re the problem. Hopping from one job to the other, may lead you to ignore serious areas of personal and professional development. When you leave out of anger: If emotions are running high, ask yourself a few questions before making any decisions. These can include: What do I want from my current role? What do I want to leave having achieved or learned? Having an answer to these questions will help regulate your decision-making when the going gets tough. If you have not achieved and…

Install solar water geysers. Naidoo says the industry norm is that the portion of the bill that accounts the most in a residential setting is attributed to the heating up of water, which contributes to 40 to 60% of your total bill. Alternatively, install geyser blankets to keep the water warm, as well as timers in pools. Switch off lights you’re not using and change to LED bulbs. They’re the most energy efficient in SA with a longer lifespan, as compared to conventional or incandescent bulbs. Electricity usage is cheaper when the grid is not too loaded. Do your laundry, using the washing machine, in the early hours of the morning and use cold water. Pack your freezer tightly. According to lifehack.org, all the freezing air that comes out when…

Men are…many things. It’s easy to forget — given the rage directed toward males in recent weeks for the high occurrence of gender-based violence in South Africa — that men, generally, dislike men more than women do. I might add that men have resented men for longer, and with greater damage than women ever could. This is rarely mentioned when gents circling the braai whisper ‘not all...’ Man, seeing a close female relation develop an intimate male bond brings at least some anxiety, because of the general consensus — also at the braai — that “Lol, n-words ain’t s*%#”. It’s a common concern for men to be suspicious of the men who enter the lives of women they know. In fact, most women find ways to love and build community…

You can make up for lost sleep on the weekend. It’s a pleasant fantasy but won’t do nothing for your sleep debt. Even if you have a long lie in, the effects of that extra sleep are gone six hours after waking. The best thing is to stick closely to a normal sleeping pattern as much as possible. You can sleep when you’re dead. In the current “rise and grind” culture it can be tempting to put off sleep while you chase your passions. Sadly, the reality is that chronic sleep deprivation has been linked to serious illnesses such as dementia, heart disease and Alzheimers. So a lack of sleep can severely reduce your quality of life. A drink before bed will help you sleep. The popular myth that a…

Fulufhelo Ramulifho, 35 Fitness and adventure junkie, Fulu, decided to travel the world and fit in some sports. She visited Tanzania to summit the highest mountain in Africa. What led to your decision to summit Mount Kilimanjaro? As a social entrepreneur, I run career, personal and leadership development programmes in disadvantaged schools. The Trek4Mandela Caring for the Girl Child Initiative enabled me to summit Mount Kilimanjaro. I just couldn’t sit back and do nothing to drive change. What places would you recommend others visit in Tanzania? Visit Kilimanjaro Nature Reserve and walk through the rain forest, or spend time with locals — who are just so full of life! Nozuko Matushe, 45 A Cape Town-based freelance digital production manager, managing editor, owner of Vintage House Eccentric, and marathon runner, Nozuko…

Movies TERMINATOR: DARK FATE RELEASE DATE: 1 November Sarah Connor, together with a group of agents, go up against T-1000, a new modified liquid metal Terminator. She has to come to the aid of Dani Ramos, a hybrid cyborg human and her friends, who are targeted by the Terminator. Expect plenty of action. – PM PLAYING WITH FIRE RELEASE DATE: 22 November This comedy follows a crew of firefighters who must take on the role of babysitters to three mischievous kids they found in the path of a wildfire. The firefighters later realise that taking care of these rascals is nothing firefighting training has prepared them for. This film will have you shrieking with laughter! – PM Music IHHASHI ELIMHLOPHE, Ama Waza Waza Through his 16-track…

Readers of TRUE LOVE and Move! magazines recently added to their cooking skills at the fourth SA Pork Meat Masterclass at the HTA School of Culinary Art in Joburg. Of course, the menu consisted of everything pork – from roast, chops and a stir-fry. Chef Kabelo Segone was on hand to offer tips and answer questions on how best to prepare the meat. Then it was time to sit down and enjoy the fruit of their labour, and the satisfied readers all left with an amazing goodie bag!…