Innehållsförteckning för December - January 2021 från True Love

This issue is the most bittersweet issue I’ve ever had the pleasure of putting together. I am signing off as editor of TRUE LOVE magazine. A magazine I have loved since I knew how to read. A job I dreamt of before I knew that it was attainable. An experience that will forever be etched in my heart. I’d like to dedicate this issue to my mother – relentless hoarder of magazines and lover of all things style. She still owns TRUE LOVE magazines dating back to the late ‘80s, as well as every single magazine issue I’ve ever contributed to – insane but true. I believe that she spoke this dream into being and I was merely living out her fairytale. Nevertheless, it’s one that was complete magic –…

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Go outside and bask in the sunshine but make sure you’re protecting your skin. Whether you’re doing a quick grocery run or taking a slow hike with a friend, make sure you’re covered. The sunscreen you choose is important. Look for an SPF of at least 40+. Wear sunscreen daily as part of your skincare routine. Two tablespoons can cover exposed areas but be sure to reapply every 30 minutes. Yep, it’s a lot. As the sun peaks give your sunscreen a back-up with sunnies and hats. WHAT TO BUY…

I immediately felt a sense of belonging and happiness with my first-ever audition in high school. I remember going into grade eight at Parktown Girls High School and there being a frenzy about a major production that was taking place. A friend suggested I try my luck. I did and got the lead role. I carried on with it and did dramatic arts as a subject while also doing the major house plays. Professionally my acting career kicked off in 2017 when I landed one of the leading roles as Itumeleng Mokoena on One Magic’s The River. Auditioning for Tumi was a surreal experience that was meant to be. I was still studying for my Bachelor of Arts law degree at Wits University. I’d been auditioning here and there but…

“Creating sustainable jobs in rural communities is possible.” Welile Gumede (29) found herself at a crossroads when she was unable to secure a job, despite having obtained a qualification in chemical engineering. She decided to identify problems in her rural community and present a solution that would unlock job opportunities for both herself and others in the community. “I became a statistic in terms of youth unemployment in SA,” says Welile. “But I couldn’t accept that I was now jobless. My business has not only created a job for me, but for 13 other people as well.” Azowel Projects is a youth- and women-empowering enterprise that focuses on developing unused and neglected farming spaces in the Ilembe region of KwaZulu-Natal. “The project is dedicated to generating revenue, influencing youth development…

Make-up sex. Simply put, it’s that passionate, steamy “mad at you” sex that erupts mid-fight with your partner. The romp after the rage that makes it all worth the fight. The earth-shattering angry sex you see in movies, beautifully scripted to end arguments. But does this scripted narrative of make-up sex translate into the reality of our own lives? The Truth About Make-Up Sex Intimacy and relationship coach Tracy Ziman Jacobs explains that arguing makes us feel distant from our partners. “Disagreements often leave us feeling criticised as well as resentful, and sex brings us closer together, allowing us to feel more connected. Sex creates more intimacy in relationships and provides us with an opportunity to communicate and apologise.” She adds that couples feel most vulnerable and often question the…

Does maintaining your long-distance relationship feel like a chore? Two readers share how they keep the flame alight. “Our random acts of kindness help fuel our six-year long-distance relationship. The ‘Yoh, guess what just happened?’ phone calls keep things exciting. Knowing that I’m the first person my partner thinks of when something big or small happens, even though we’re miles apart, makes me feel loved. We share playlists regularly and always dedicate the first night of the week to date night [chuckles].” SISONKE LABASE, COPYWRITER “My husband has been working in Lagos, Nigeria for four years now. As the parent who stayed behind to run the household and raise our three children, I often feel lonely and overwhelmed — especially when out at school gatherings or social events. But no…

Roasted Stuffed Pork Neck Serves: 6-8 Preparation time: 3hrs 2 Tbsp olive oil ½ onion, finely chopped 2 cloves garlic, finely chopped 600g spinach, chopped Salt and freshly ground black pepper 6-8 leaves sage, finely chopped 2,3kg deboned pork neck 150g mozzarella cheese, grated Boiling water to cover the meat ½ cup plum sauce ½ cup dry apple cider 3 Tbsp whole grain mustard Method: 1. Preheat oven to 200°C. In a large pan, heat oil and sauté onion and garlic together. Add spinach and cook for about 3 minutes, until wilted. Add sage and stir. Remove and cool. 2. Butterfly open pork neck and flatten with a mallet. Season inside and outside with salt and pepper. 3. Spread the spinach on top of the inside of the pork, then…

Movies SONIC THE HEDGEHOG RELEASE DATE: 14 December Based on the blockbuster video game franchise from Sega, Sonic the Hedgehog tells the story of the galaxy’s fastest hedgehog as he embraces his new home on Earth. This live-action adventure comedy sees Sonic and his new best friend team up to defend the planet from the evil genius Dr Robotnik (Jim Carrey) and his plans to take over the world. ROGUE RELEASE DATE: 3 December Megan Fox stars as Samantha O’Hara, leader of a band of mercenaries on a mission to rescue a group of kidnapped schoolgirls. But they find themselves out of ammo in the hostile African bush, having to defend against the kidnappers and an angry lion. South African actors Jessica Sutton and Sisanda Henna also star. Stream LEBO…

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Phone call or text? I’d rather do a phone call because it’s straight to the point. Texting is for when we’re in love. Favourite day of the week? It recently became Monday because Mondays have become my days off. It’s the day I look most forward to because I get to rest! Favourite city in South Africa besides the one you live in? Definitely Durban and Cape Town. Durban’s got the warm beach water. Cape Town because it feels like a little European escape - you get to go there and feel like you’re out of the country. What was the last song/album you saved to your playlist? Thokoza Cafe by DBN GOGO (new album) – shout-out to my girl! Are you a good driver? I’m an incredible driver! I’ve…

Using make-up sex for conflict resolution tool may feel good at the time, but it can lead to trouble down the line. Co-dependency. One partner becomes less likely to voice their true feelings for fear of upsetting their significant other. Instead, they may use make-up sex as the only way to express their vulnerability. This may also lead to the partner constantly picking fights. Stagnation. It can keep the relationship alive but not thriving, as couples never get to deal with the root of their disagreement and rely on sex as the “fixer” in their relationship. Manipulation. It can be used as a manipulation or coercion tool, where one uses it to get their partner to agree with their views on issues they may be disagreeing about.…

Joseph had a dream. He had a vision. He told his brothers, “We were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine.” His brothers replied, “Do you intend to reign over us? Will you actually rule us?” And they hated him all the more because of his dream and what he had said. Then he had another dream, and he told it to his brothers again. “Listen,” he said, “I had another dream, and this time the sun and moon and eleven stars were bowing down to me and his brothers hated him because of his dream.’ Anytime you have a dream, it will be challenged. After Joseph dreamt, his brothers planned his death. They said,…

MINT, LIME AND CUCUMBER SLING Makes 1 Ice cubes Cucumber ribbons Lime 25ml gin 1Tbsp mint 1 Tbsp lime 1 Tbsp cucumber syrup 200ml tonic water Mint leaves for serving Method: In a glass, add ice cubes, cucumber ribbons, lime and mint. Add gin, syrup and top up with tonic water. Garnish with mint leaves. Serve cold. SPARKLING BERRY Makes 2 ½ cup frozen berries 1tsp castor sugar 3Tbsp cherry liqueur Dry white sparkling wine to top up Method: In a glass, add berries and castor sugar, then muddle together. Pour in cherry liqueur and top up with sparkling wine. APPLE AND GINGER COOLER Makes about 750ml 150ml whisky (optional) 2 cups ginger ale 1 cup cloudy apple juice Crushed ice Apple slices and mint for serving Method: In a…

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The Fountain of Youth Okay, okay, not so much the endless stream that promises eternal youth, but a drinkable skincare solution that’s both delicious and nutritious. SKOON introduces three all-in-one beauty smoothies, R550 per box, that promise a range of benefits. From getting your glow on to increasing skin’s elasticity and detoxing. Use daily mixed into you fave smoothie or just plain with crushed ice. TO THE QUEENS Justine has just dropped a new signature scent inspired by the powerful women of Mzansi. The scent - Privé Eau de Parfum – is an ode to the complexity of women, whose different sides both contradict and complement each other. The scent is anchored by base notes like sandalwood and orris, with mellow heart notes of jasmine and ylang ylang and fruity…

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The truth is, I don’t recall any moment in my life when I was not a musician. I furthered my studies in jazz at Technikon Natal (now UKZN) in 2001. This is where I met my mentor and multi-instrumentalist Bheki Mseleku. I later graduated in Stellenbosch with a Masters in music. I then moved to Johannesburg in 2006 where I worked with a diverse number of artists such as Lebo Mathosa, Voice, Mthunzi Namba, Oliver Mtukudzi, Zim Ngqawana, Zamajobe, Jimmy Dludlu and Busi Mhlongo among many other artists. With Ngqawana, we recorded several records and toured Europe and the US. This was an important period in my development as a musician. I later produced records for my wife, Omagugu, Sisa Sopazi, Lindiwe Maxolo and Thandiswa Mazwai to name just a…

When it comes to accessing quality health services, Dr Mmamontsheng ‘Dulcy’ Rakumakoe understands the reality of most South Africans. “Less than 15% have access to proper medical aid coverage,” she says. “This means that 85% of the population has to take money out of their pockets to access quality health services.” In 2013, Dulcy founded Quadcare, a network of nine medical centres in low- to middle-income communities in Gauteng. “Our company provides people with quality health services that respect their dignity,” Dulcy says. “We operate in and expand to locations that are close to patients and thus accessible.” “I can finally call myself a woman of the future!” Dulcy grew up in Temba, Hammanskraal, a township just outside Pretoria. “What inspired me to start this business was a conversation I’d…

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1. Only treat as gospel what you’ve experienced firsthand or sourced from within. To all other data add a bag of salt. 2. Do not make your intuition pay for the sins of your loins. 3. Be wary of turning your preferences into judgements. 4. You are a human Being. Learn to Be. 5. Expand your awareness to resolve your challenges, just don’t get your ass arrested.…

I’m stuck, now what? According to Robyn Farrell, CEO of short-term insurance at Telesure Investment Holdings, the first thing you should do should your car break down is to switch on your hazard lights – so you are visible and don’t cause further obstruction on the road. If possible, roll your car (by releasing your handbrake) to the yellow lane or as close to the shoulder of the road as possible. When it’s safe to do so, exit your car and place a warning triangle 50 metres behind the car. Once your vehicle is in a safe stationary spot, return to your car and lock all the doors. If you think your car might get hit from behind, don’t stay inside – rather stand at a safe distance from the…

Lebza TheVillain is a sought-after South African DJ and he shares his priceless memories with some of the festive tunes that shaped the love he has for his craft. Guqa ngamadolo by Mzekezeke The song was released on September 2003; I was 11 years old. This song will always remind of the festive season because of how it made people feel. Whenever it played on the radio or at parties, people knew exactly how to dance to it. Remember when it rained by DJ Sbu This song was released in 2006 and it was a dance recreation of Josh Groban’s original version. It reminds me of one unforgettable festive season, with family and friends when that song played in December and it rained. It gave me hope and it inspired…

THE BOOK OF PROVERB By Tebogo Thekisho and Paballo Rampa, Penguin Random House South Africa, R240 Tebogo Thekisho, famously known as ProVerb, made his debut on the South African music scene in 2005 with his hip hop album, The Book of ProVerb. Fifteen years later, he hits South Africa’s bookshelves with his memoir of the same name. He honours the people who were there when he became the success that he is today, with a special thanks to his parents, his grandmother and his siblings. It’s a book about lessons learnt and, while the tone is mostly positive, it doesn’t shy away from the dark side of the experience – he also shares some details about his public divorce and attempted suicide. CORRIDORS OF DEATH By Malaika Wa Azania, Blackbird,…

Aries 20 March – 19 April The year 2020 was filled with power struggles. Some on the world stage and others within ourselves. Go with 2020’s final push of inspiration to propel you into the new year with more focus and optimism – there will be sunshine and roses with scattered storms, but it certainly won’t be boring. Off with the PJs and get ready to work. Your go-to social network undergoes a revamp. By the end of the year you could have a tighter network of lovelies in your squad, online or in your hood. LOVE From January to March you flit and flirt with your friends, and with friends of friends – fun is one thing but commitment is another. During the Aries birthday cycle cupid is flapping…