Innehållsförteckning för April - May 2021 från True Love

When last did you get a chance to start anew and rebrand yourself ? Would you like to do a life reboot? A clean slate; new beginnings? I think most of us have felt this way at some point in our lives. Just a chance to wipe the slate clean of all the stuff we really didn’t opt in on, you know? Unfortunately, it is not that simple. If you want to reboot your life, you need to put in the work. So, where do you start? This issue is themed “A New You”. We unpack aspects of what it might take for you to start a new life as your new self; starting with finances. It is amazing how much our relationship with money impacts all areas of our…

STYLE TIP Velvet is one of the most comfortable and versatile fabrics to rock anytime, whether during the day or at night. It has the power to make every outfit look high-fashion, luxurious and expensive, even when paired with jeans.…

Whether your skin needs deep cleansing, soothing or an extra boost of moisture, cleansing is highly important in your skin regime and should be made a priority. Choosing the right type of face wash is crucial in tackling any skin concern you might have.…

Have you ever applied foundation and then halfway through thought, “this is too much”? As much as blending foundation to create a flawless look can be fun, sometimes you need to give your skin a break from heavy make-up. A good concealer can make your skin look smooth and even hide that uninvited hormonal pimple that takes up residence on your chin every month. THREE WAYS TO FAKE A FULL-FOUNDATION LOOK WITH A CONCEALER 1. Prep your skin like a pro. Make sure your skin is clean and super hydrated. Use a facial oil to keep your skin moisturised throughout the day. 2. Choose the right shade. To brighten the dark circles under your eyes, choose a concealer that is one shade lighter than your skin tone to disguise imperfections.…

BE OBJECTIVE: As tricky as it may be, try to look at the situation from everyone’s perspective, as it helps to not fall into a victim or blaming mindset, but rather one of compassion, empathy and understanding. TAKE OWNERSHIP OF YOUR ROLE IN THE SITUATION: Ask yourself how you reacted to their treatment, and if at any point you also hurt some people out of anger. ACCEPT THE SITUATION: Don’t get stuck on over-thinking or playing out the situation repeatedly in your head. This is often what prevents us moving on. TAKE ALL THE TIME YOU NEED: Process any emotions you may be feeling, such as guilt, anger, hurt and resentment, and work through them. FORGIVE: Acknowledging how the situation made you feel, apologising and accepting other perspectives, misunderstandings, mistakes…

A sudden loss of income, an accident or dread disease could all throw you into crisis mode and ruin your finances. However, there are ways you can help cushion the blow next time there’s a financial crisis. Here are a few tips from analyst, Wendy Makhado. BEGIN WITH A PLAN. A financial crisis can be prevented with good planning. Plan your finances now with a crisis in mind. START SAVING AGAIN. A good plan will incorporate a savings pocket so you can save for a rainy day. Start by saving towards having an emergency bundle set aside – for example, saving six months of your salary in case something should happen. A financial crisis takes most people by surprise, but the ones who come out less scathed are the ones…

Most times, we tend to think a rags to riches story is all about money and wealth. But sometimes, getting rid of emotional clutter from the past and starting on a clean slate is all the riches you need. A person who knows the power of emotional wealth too well is Sister Basha Tlhapane-Taylor (41). She is a successful surgical nurse who runs her own medical practice, has scored several humanitarian awards, has a well-oiled ministry, is an accomplished author, a philanthropist, a leader in her community and has been featured in the top 50 of Mrs South Africa. Her CV might be impressive, but life wasn’t always rosy for Basha. She did, however, manage to flip the script and turn her life around. And what is most inspiring is…

CALAMARI SPAGHETTINI SERVES: 4 // PREP + COOKING TIME: 25 MINUTES INGREDIENTS 750 g small calamari or squid 1/3 cup (80 ml) lemon juice 400 g spaghettini 1/2 cup (125 ml) extra virgin olive oil 2 cloves garlic, crushed 1-2 large red chillies, sliced finely 2 tsps lemon rind, finely grated 2 tbsps chives, finely chopped METHOD 1. To clean and prepare the calamari, remove the tentacles from the body (hood) by pulling gently. Also remove the black beak from the centre of the tentacles. 2. Remove the clear plastic-like quill in the hood and any internal organs. Cut out the two fins from both sides of the hood, then carefully pull away the dark membrane on the outside of the hood and fins. With a sharp knife, cut down…

BRAMLEY South Africa’s number one tissue oils are loved and trusted by many. Bramley tissue oils – a breakthrough product within the cosmetic industry – assists in diminishing scars, stretch marks, uneven skin tone and dehydrated skin. Enriched with Bio-Pharm Oil and Vitamin E for its healing and antioxidant properties, it’s affordable quality you can trust. Available at Pep stores. CLOVER AUTHENTIKOS Packed with protein and incredibly thick and filling, Authentikos™ introduces two new delicious 750g flavours - Coconut and Apple & Cinnamon, to add to the already popular Plain flavour. These retail from R34,99. In March, Authentikos™ also launched an exciting 125g range. This range consists of three delectable flavours – Plain, Strawberry and Granadilla, each from R11,99. Available at all major retailers, Authentikos™ is perfect for breakfast, snacking,…

WHERE AND HOW DID YOUR JOURNEY WITH TV PRODUCTION START? I studied filmmaking at Tshwane University of Technology because I had ambitions of becoming a filmmaker. I fell in love with scriptwriting, so I majored in it. In my last year at TUT, I started reaching out to soapies so that I could join them as an intern. I got my big break at Muvhango, and from there I moved to Zone 14 and The Wild. Later, I went back to Muvhango. As time went on, I started writing, and getting approached to write for different shows. WHAT DOES YOUR ROLE ENTAIL? I have the nice job of being the executive producer, but I must admit, it is hard. I am fortunate to share the workload and burden with my…

A NIGHT OF LOVE Our partnership with Ferrari, YouTube sensations and real-life lovebirds, Okay Wasabi and Sasha, was such a creative outlet for me and the fashion team! We loved playing with the new, very sexy, Ferrari Roma. BATHU SNEAKERS! I totally love how Theo Baloyi built a brand from nothing, and now he is one of SA’s most admired fashion innovators with Bathu shoes. We love this Somizi-inspired drop, especially. OLD MEETS NEW Japanese whiskey is the buzz in the alcoholic beverages scenes and I’m always eager to try new styles of whisky, so this Japanese Suntory is a must-have treat for those days when you want to ‘treat’ your palate with something unusual or to just show off to friends. BASHA TLHAPANE-TAYLOR Basha Tlhapane-Taylor is definitely a woman…

Never worn check before? Well now is your chance to be daring, and shine in this trendy pattern. Add an item as simple as a scarf to your ensemble, or complete it with a flattering check coat. Now are you ready to take the spotlight?…

They say you can’t fight fire with fire but when it comes to oil, it’s a completely different story. Even though most people are sceptical about using oil on the skin, the truth is, oil fights oil! Meaning if you have oily skin, you can still use oil products. Grapeseed and primrose oils work wonders for oily skin as they provide moisture without greasiness. If you have dry skin, use hydrating oils such as avocado or sweet almond oil. HOW TO ADD OIL TO YOUR ROUTINE 1. After showering: Lock in the moisture right after bath time. Water strips the skin of moisture, so seal it in with oil to prevent dryness. 2. As a night cream: A few drops of facial oil before you sleep allows the oil plenty…

A smooth-sailing relocation boils down to doing your homework. Below are some pointers to consider before setting up home in a new country. Are your documents in order? Ensure that you have a valid passport, birth certificate, marriage certificate if emigrating with your spouse, educational qualifications, police clearance certificates if necessary and a driver’s licence. Research everything. From custom taxes that some countries charge on shipped goods, by-laws and the weather, to health insurance options and transferring your savings abroad. Don’t pack up everything. This, in case life in the new country doesn’t work out before being granted a permanent residency, or should you wish to return to your home country at a later stage. Rather store some items in storage. Know the tax laws! Apply for a tax clearance…

What are the secrets of a satisfying sex life – whether couples have been together for years or are enjoying a new romance? We asked some experts to share their advice and ideas on what keeps sex interesting, intimate and enjoyable. 1 PLAN A SEX DATE 1 Life is busy and so there’s nothing wrong with booking in a time for sex. Just as you schedule a dental appointment or a trip to the hairdresser, make a sex date. “If you notice a change in sexual intimacy or frequency, schedule in sex,” says Desiree Spierings, director of Sexual Health Australia. “People think sex has to be spontaneous to be amazing and that’s why they’re waiting a long time. But when you’re busy, that spontaneous desire won’t happen. Plan sex. Get…

R100 000 in cash goes to the Woman of the Future R60 000 in cash each goes to the Rising Star and the Social Entrepreneur A full-page advertisement in FAIRLADY or TRUELOVE to promote the business, social enterprise or NPO An hour’s invaluable mentorship with one of our judges A one-year supply of African Extracts Rooibos skincare products, worth R3 500 Leather accessories, worth R5 000, from Zemp Business printing, worth R5 000, from Lithotech A women’s branded watch, worth R6 599, from American Swiss Fine Jewellers A Samsonite Prodigy Spinner Expandable 55 cm carry-on, worth R5 000 A GetSmarter Online Short Course to the value of R11 900…

“I wanted to change it as far back as two years ago when things got out of hand and my marriage was crumbling. It was the perfect opportunity. I am a Mngoma!” As a little girl growing up in rural KwaZulu-Natal, Nomachule Mngoma, nee Gigaba, better known as Noma in celebrity circles, had big dreams just like the rest of us. All she wanted was to chase her dreams – she wanted to be an independent woman and a pilot, and succeed so that she could help others. But life sometimes throws us in a different direction, and Noma was no different. She never imagined herself in the spotlight for the things she is currently facing. The past few months (and, in fact, years) of her life read like the…

Monochrome has become the new favourite décor trend for many people and that’s because it’s classic and timeless! You can choose white for the walls to make your home look more spacious, and black to make a statement. “One of the most effective ways to make a statement is with colour. Using a neutral base or contrasting neutrals like black and white creates the perfect canvas for showcasing eye-catching designs. Plus, it ensures that the individual colours aren’t competing with each other,’’ says Laura Umansky of Laura U Interior Design.…

DIEPCITY REPLACES ISIBAYA Now that Isibaya is coming to an end, many people are curious to find out what will occupy the 8.30pm slot on Mzansi Magic. DiepCity is the new kid on the block that will replace Isibaya. This new telenovela, produced by Black Brain, which is led by Mandla N, is about crime, faded dreams and redemption. The show focuses on young women who were forced into crime while in high school – just to make ends meet. The drama features big names in the entertainment industry, with Dawn Thandeka King, Nozuko Ncayiyane and Mduduzi Mabaso in the lead. “ DiepCity is a tale that does not only have a gripping storyline, but is also one that exposes the lived realities of most South Africans – the life…

A BIT OF SPARKLE A beautiful piece of jewellery holds a special place in every woman’s heart and wardrobe. Businesswoman and content creator, Mbali Sebapu, recently launched her jewellery line, Angela Jewellery, which offers carefully crafted modern pieces.Visit www.angelasa.com. SWEET DREAMS WITH NAHLA SLEEPWEAR Nahla is a chic, premium, African sleepwear brand that blends elegance and good tailoring. The line includes elegant sensual satin sets and beautifully tailored linen lounge sets, all piped with seshoeshoe fabric. Nahla offers peaceful sleep, so if you’re suffering from insomnia, say goodbye to restless nights and hello to lalaland. Visit nahlasleepwear.co.za. NAOMI OSAKA JOINS LOUIS VUITTON If there is anyone taking up space right now, it definitely has to be 23-year-old tennis champion, Noami Osaka. This girl is on fire! She is now part…

STYLE TIP Come rain or shine, denim is a versatile item for all seasons! Wide-leg denim is a fresh alternative to skinny or straight-leg jeans. Wear them slightly cropped with a fun boot, court heels or even sneakers. It all depends on the occasion and the mood!…

EMBR ACING YOUR NATUR AL HAIR Are you a naturalista interested in a refresher on basics? Then THE BIG SOUTH AFRICAN HAIR BOOK is a must-read for you. In this book, journalist Janine Jellars takes us on a fun, natural hair journey. The book is filled with tried-and-tested tips and haircare testimonials from hair gurus. Reasonably priced at R208, the book is a celebration of the #naturalhair community. AU NATURALE Sensual You is an anti-ageing body-care creation by obstetrician and gynaecologist Dr Karabo Tlale. The product range consists of body scrub (R189), body butter (R289), tissue oil (R229) and anti-cellulite firming gel (R30), specifically made to rejuvenate and hydrate the skin. A NEW CHAPTER OF FEMININITY A floral fragrance created for the open-minded woman who is ready to broaden her…

Blush and bronzer are make-up bag essentials that help accentuate your beautiful cheekbones. Blush is used to add a flush of colour or warmth, while a bronzer is great for creating a sun-kissed glow. Bronzer is applied across your cheeks, while blush is applied on the apples of the cheek, which is at the end of where bronzer is applied. But when using these two, you must go for a more natural and realistic look – no more contouring and overdoing of the highlighter trends. If you spend a lot of effort blending the blush or bronzer, you’ve used too much. When it comes to this dynamic duo, a healthy and authentic glow is guaranteed. But always remember, less is more.…

GO BIG, OR GO HOME!  OVERSIZED CLOTHING DOESN’T HAVE TO BE BAGGY AND SHAPELESS. THE TRICK IS TO FIND THE PERFECT FIT AND CUT THAT WILL FLATTER YOUR BODY. EMBRACE EFFORTLESS STYLE IN THIS BEIGE OVERSIZED T-SHIRT DRESS PAIRED WITH NATURAL-LOOKING ACCESSORIES. REIGN SUPREME  THIS FIGURE-HUGGING DRESS EXUDES SENSUALITY, FEMININITY AND GLAMOUR. IT’S THE PERFECT DATE-NIGHT LOOK. THE ULTIMATE STAPLE  IF YOU WANT SOMETHING THAT WILL TAKE YOU FROM CORPORATE CHIC TO DATE NIGHT, THEN LOOK NO FURTHER THAN A SHIRT DRESS. IT LOOKS FABULOUS ON ALL SHAPES. EARTH TONES ARE ESPECIALLY COMPLEMENTARY TO DARK SKIN. COSY AND CHIC  SUPER COMFORTABLE AND TRENDY, A JUMPSUIT IS A GREAT ITEM TO HAVE IN YOUR WARDROBE. IT’S EASY TO DRESS UP OR DOWN TO SUIT ANY OCASSION. SMART CASUAL  THIS ONE-PIECE ENSEMBLE…

It’s no coincidence that 71% of Fortune 500 companies have mentorship programmes. The influence of meaningful mentorship is well known, and it could be particularly powerful during the pandemic. An article published in the Harvard Business Review notes that mentorship can help boost confidence. The uncertainty brought on in 2020 by the pandemic had many people feeling lost. Mentors can prove a calming presence during a difficult period. Here are Santam’s three types of mentoring that could be beneficial to your business: PEER-TO-PEER MENTORSHIP This is the best approach for a new employee joining the organisation, especially in a remote work set-up. It will help with smooth onboarding and learning the company’s culture. CAREER MENTORS Career mentors serve as coaches, assisting mentees to reach professional goals. They help provide direction,…

Since the broadcast of Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD) started, music mogul Ayanda Ncwane (36) hasn’t stopped trending. She trends religiously almost every Friday, when a new episode is flighted on Showmax. “People hadn’t experienced the real Ayanda, but finally, they are getting to see my colourful personality,” she gushes, as she sips tea in her lounge at one of the leafy Dainfern estates, a prestigious suburb in the north of Johannesburg. “People would see me on social media and have perceptions of me. What they didn’t know is that there are many dimensions to me – although serious, I am also bubbly and fun. People have fallen in love with the well-put-together woman that I am,” the mom of two smiles. In the first episode of RHOD, Ayanda trended…

HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST TRAINING AND RECOVERY PRODUCTS TO SUIT YOU If you are a gym bunny or an athlete, you know that your body can’t heal on its own, it needs heating or cooling products, something for joint support, and relief from inflammation or to eliminate lactic acid build-up. There are lots of products on the market to choose from, which can sometimes be confusing. You can shop for products to heal your body at www.wintergreen.co.za. Daliah Hurwitz, body and muscle expert and official massage therapist for the USA Eagles Rugby team, advises that you shouldn’t forget magnesium products. Magnesium is crucial for over 300 chemical reactions in the body! Besides promoting energy production and bone and muscle health, it also helps in sharpening mental clarity. “If you…

How do you relax? I relax by binge-watching series or movie marathons on my couch. I live for those moments. They are the best. What are you currently watching? Lupid! on Netflix. I absolutely love the crime drama series. I don’t watch only to enjoy, but to also learn something new. Who are you listening to now and why? Tasha Cobbs, Birdy, Drake and Sade. I listen to anything that picks up my mood. Tasha Cobbs does that all the time with her music. I also listen to anything that sounds trendy ... my playlist speaks for itself. What are you currently reading? Joyce Meyer’s Battlefield of the Mind. What’s your favourite dish? I love food so much, so it’s difficult to choose a particular dish. I’ll just say anything…