Our daughters were seven and eight when we started this column. Six years, a thousand ketchup bottles, and roughly 6,500 meals later, we’ve learned a thing or two about feeding them:
Family dinner offers a space where the kids (we hope) learn about the value of empathy and meaningful conversation, but it has done nothing to teach them the value of a napkin.
Things that should be banned from the dinner table: phones, hats, wiping your mouth on your sleeve, the water bottle challenge, the question “How was school today?” the answer “Fine,” the phrase “She started it.”
Things that should be welcomed: curiosity, openness, difference of opinion, legendary family stories (the more sophomoric the better), tears, compliments, a little bragging.
A proven way to expand palates without kids noticing:…