Indholdsfortegnelse for Nov/Dec 2023 i Fairlady

I’m so glad summer is finally here… It felt like winter went on forever, didn’t it? For the first time in a long time, this year our family is planning an actual Christmas Day lunch with loads of friends and extended family, and we’re going the traditional route as far as food goes. Over the past few years we’ve got into a lazy (but lovely) habit of heading off to a fabulous local artisanal market as close to Christmas Day as we can, selecting little tastes of all the deliciousness on offer and coming home to enjoy that, rather than faffing over a huge meal. The reason we went rogue is because, as you’ve almost certainly discovered yourself (because you’re a woman at this time of year), there’s a design…

THE AFTER-AFTERPARTY One of my favourite shows from 2022 was The Afterparty, so I was thrilled to see it back for a second season. For those who aren’t familiar with this Apple TV+ whodunnit, each episode explores a different character’s account of one fateful evening, all told through the lens of popular film genres and unique visuals to match the storyteller’s perspective. Season 1 took us to the high-school reunion of Aniq (Sam Richardson) and Zoë (Zoe Chao), and in Season 2 a wedding is ruined when the groom is murdered – and every guest is a suspect. Detective Danner (Tiffany Haddish) returns to help Aniq and Zoë solve the case by questioning family members, star-crossed lovers and business partners, and hearing each suspect’s retelling of the weekend, each with…

When I was a toddler, my mom managed to crack an invite to the fanciest parenting group in town, held at the very posh house of the queen bee of local moms’ clubs. After noticing I’d been eerily quiet for the previous few minutes, she discovered that I’d snuck to the bathroom and was systematically stuffing every book this swanky woman owned down the toilet. My mom, loyal accomplice that she is, fished the books out of the U-bend, stuffed the soggy tomes under her shirt, and snuck both of us outside, where we proceeded to stash the evidence in the neighbour’s rubbish bins. Most of us owe our parents more than we can ever thank them for. But life comes full circle, and eventually many of us will face…

AT just 30 years old, Amanda has emerged as a force to be reckoned with in the world of branding and entrepreneurship. She is the founder and owner of Branding Africa, an agency that envisions a prosperous Africa driven by African brands. Its mission is to empower local businesses and entrepreneurs to build robust brands through comprehensive brand development programmes, workshops and strategy consulting services. ‘Africa’s entrepreneurship rate is among the highest in the world, yet many small businesses in Africa fail before they reach their fifth anniversary,’ Amanda says. ‘I believe many of them fail because of poor branding and marketing. ‘We aim to capacitate businesses to grow and thrive in a way that positively impacts both the communities around them and the African economy.’ Amanda’s commitment to her…

With a twist This dress might just be the most versatile thing in your wardrobe this summer. The ruching is flattering, the clay hue goes with everything and the length is très elegant. Dress it up with gold sandals and statement earrings. Rock ’n’ roll muse Bet you didn’t think this glitzy skirt could be worn during the day! Metallics and neutrals work well together, and here the slate-grey vintage rock ’n’ roll T-shirt adds an unexpected element to the look. Birks keep it cool and casual. All set We love a breezy set for summer! Wear both pieces together for a head-to-toe boho look, or split them up – pair the top with a pair of jeans and the skirt with a classic tee. Jump start The jumpsuit is…

Hoochy Dom Pedro SERVES 10 • I litre real dairy vanilla ice cream• 375 ml pouring cream• 10 tots Musgrave Copper Black Honey Brandy (or more) Let the ice cream stand on the counter for about 20 minutes to soften, but don’t let it melt completely. Add the pouring cream and the brandy, and mix it all together with a whisk (it’ll clump in the beginning but will soon smooth out). When you’re satisfied with both the consistency and taste, keep it on ice until you serve it. Serve the Dom Pedro in stemmed glasses with a reusable or recyclable straw (half the pleasure is sucking it through a straw), with a sprinkling of cocoa (or cinnamon) powder on top. He’s back! THE RETURN OF DOM PEDRO The decadent combination…

R100 – R199 GROOTE POST BRUT ROSÉ MCC, R186 This salmon-pink bubbly is dry and gorgeous. It has delicate notes of strawberry and raspberry, and a gentle finish. WELTEVREDE PHILIP JONKER BRUT ENTHEOS, R179 This wine has lovely fresh notes of pear and lemon: light, easy-drinking, unpretentious and fun. KRONE VINTAGE ROSÉ CUVÉE BRUT 2020, R190 Earthy and lively, this lovely Chardonnay Pinot Noir blend has a touch of blood orange and fresh strawberry. ZERO DOSAGE BLACK ELEPHANT ZERO DOSAGE CAP CLASSIQUE 2011 (THE TIFFANY), R325 Made from Chardonnay, this lipsmackingly dry MCC was on the lees for 100 months! It’s a winner. ALVI’S DRIFT BRUT NATURE CAP CLASSIQUE, R315 A favourite with the panel, this wine is bone-dry, and has a hint of lemon and a creamy finish. R200…

ACROSS 1. In which the open-minded may take steps (7) 5. Accommodation for Lot he had to arrange (5) 8. Unfortunately some err due to feeling of regret (7) 9. An artificial silk or any such confection (5) 10 Compel beef, say, to serve as stuffing (9) 12. One of the first gardeners appeared the day before (3) 13. Singable words used in holy ricercare (5) 17. It is a little selfish, the fairy (3) 19. It is easy, not being upset by a blockhead (9) 21. Oar I’m waving at a New Zealander (5) 22. Speed it can reform, regardless (7) 24. Ornamental spray may be used for a nail (5) 25. The principal players are performing, which hoaxes one (5,2) DOWN 1. Somebody shabby as to the neck part (6) 2. In…

ACROSS 1. Noisy (hinge) 6. Australian nut 11. Longed 15. Merge 16. Crisis 17. Automated 18. Reserved 21. Layabouts 22. Knobby 23. Yay! 24. Woods 28. Char 30. Awhile 32. Meagre 35. Person 37. Bombarded 38. Seaweed 40. Gigolos (3,4) 43. Corn bundles 45. Actress, … Hannah 47. Moan 48. Skiing terrain 52. Indisposed 53. Slothful 56. Powerless (to) 58. Rope descent 60. Drinks servers 61. Excel 62. Startling 64. Flow 65. Spigot 67. Woozily 69. Decree 72. Genesis 75. Nutmeg spice 77. Stallion and … 78. US Midwest state 79. Tropical wader 81. Frozen peaks 83. Rage 84. Cuddle 86. Exasperate 87. Do penance (for) 90. Shark fin 92. Ku Klux … 93. Looped 95. Visually or … 96. Hansel and … 98. Ostrich cousins 99. Lariat 100. Christ’s…

Write to flmag@fairlady.com – and remember to put the word ‘letters’ in the subject line. WINNING LETTER Vote of confidence I had not been aware of the cover price increase as I have a subscription (once a birthday present that I have since renewed several times) until I saw the thankyou note on the letters page in the previous issue. I assume that other people have commented on and possibly complained about the increase, and I just want to ask those readers to consider these points. A small cappuccino with almond milk at a local coffee shop cost me R37 yesterday, and I drank it in 5 minutes. An issue of FAIRLADY costs less than three of those coffees combined, and I will guarantee that most of us are buying…

Sina Moyane Communications manager and Trek4Mandela project manager at Imbumba Foundation ‘My style varies! I can go from dressed up and super-girly to African attire to athleisure, but I do like simple, timeless, non-branded pieces. I tend to wear more subtle colours such as navy, black, white, stone and tan. I am not drawn to bright colours unless it’s an African print – then I can go all out!’ Sarina van Engelen Owner and creative director of NOAH House ‘I would describe my style as classic, with a focus on slow, sustainable fashion. I look for investment pieces (with eye-catching details) and I’ll combine them with more on-trend items.’ Lilli du Plessis Content creator and fashion designer ‘I like a blend of fun, feminine elements that vary from day to…

START-UP COSTS: ‘Initially, ChaufHER was funded by friends and family – until we had a venture capital investor join the company. It is fair to say that there is never quite enough capital to bring all the plans to life. We are on the lookout again for more capital.’ TURNOVER: ‘Each month, more and more women are using our service, and rides are increasing. Turnover, however, needs to be about 10 times higher before we turn a profit.’ ChaufHER DANIELLE WRIGHT South Africa has a lot going for it – breathtaking natural landscapes, rich cultural diversity and wildlife safaris – but, sadly, safety is an issue. As of 2023, it ranked as the sixth most dangerous country globally, and it’s our most vulnerable that are in the most danger. There’s…

• She’s the face of the UK cosmetics company Charlotte Tilbury and loves their beauty products. ‘I’m never without my Magic Cream. It smells delicious, it’s so hydrating, and honestly it’s the best base for makeup.’ • She believes in self-care. ‘I’m very into my rituals – I cleanse, tone and moisturise every night. And I love long baths, with as much bath salts and bubbles and oils as possible.’ • She says she pretty much only ever gets recognised for one of her earliest roles. ‘I’m so surprised that it’s always Downton [Abbey],’ she says. ‘People love Downton, especially [in the US].’ • Her personal beauty philosophy? ‘It’s really all about confidence. When you feel good, you radiate that energy, and I think that’s a beautiful thing.’ • She…

◗ Why do you believe Covid is not a respiratory disease but a vascular disease? By about January 2020, we had the first reports from China about this terrible disease. There was a high mortality rate and the mode of death, in the end, was the same: resistant to treatment, low oxygen levels. Whatever was done, be it an oxygen mask or even a ventilator, the disease was resistant to therapy and patients died. The Chinese published small post-mortem studies on patients who had died from the original virus. Everybody was scared, so postmortems were only done on a small number of patients; one study was on nine patients; another on 13. They showed that 20–30% of the patients had macroclots – deep-vein thrombosis, clots in the lungs and so…

WOMAN OF THE FUTURE KERI RUDOLPH The IV Bar RISING STAR AMANDA SIBIYA Branding Africa SOCIAL ENTREPRENEUR THEMBISO MAGAJANA Social Coding SA READERS’ CHOICE MARCIA MONARENG Millennial Mindset Media Keri, Amanda and Thembiso win: • R100 000 in cash to Keri from Santam• R60000 in casheach to Thembiso and Amanda from Santam• A luxurious beauty hamper worth R10000 from beauty partner Lancôme• A full-page advertisement in FAIRLADY or TRUELOVE to promote their business, social enterprise or NPO • A mentorship session with one of our judges• A ‘Strategies for Making and Taking New Markets’ course worth R11000 or a ‘Strategic Marketing course’ worth R18000, from the Gordon Institute of Business Science (GIBS) • A Frederique Constant Vitality women’s watch valued at R15495 • Business printing worth R5000 from Lithotech •…

Ginger-marmaladeglazed ham SERVES 12 PREP + COOKING TIME: 1 HOUR 45 MINUTES • 365 g ginger marmalade• 80ml (⅓ cup) grated fresh ginger• 80ml (⅓ cup) maple syrup• 110 g light-brown sugar• 250ml (1 cup) ginger ale• 7kg cooked leg of ham• 30ml (2 tbsp) cloves 1. Stir marmalade, ginger, syrup, sugar and ginger ale in a small saucepan; bring to the boil. Reduce heat to medium; simmer, uncovered, for 10 minutes or until reduced by half. 2. Meanwhile, place the oven shelf in the lowest position. Preheat the oven to 180°C. 3. Using a sharp knife, cut through the ham rind about 12cm from the shank end of the leg. Remove rind from ham by sliding your hand between the rind and the fat layer. Discard rind. Score fat…

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ACROSS 1. Optic hair 6. Seafarer 11. UK actor, Kenneth … 15. Likeness 16. Altogether (2,3) 17. Assign 18. Secretion of milk 21. Come forth 22. Garden pests 23. Queen’s second son 24. Appetiser 28. Protected 30. Sympathy 32. River-mouth regions 35. Sink pipe (1-4) 37. Pedants 38. Mixed metal 40. Fidelity 43. Return game 45. Leered at 47. Dense 48. Cowboy lawman (5,4) 52. IVF cells 53. Edible plant 56. Sexual drive 58. Wickerwork stem 60. SE Asian country 61. Out of order 62. Artwork surfaces 64. Likely 65. Golf mound 67. Most luxurious 69. Couch potato 72. Go-ahead (3,5) 75. Slow down! 77. Mediterranean volcano 78. Wine container 79. Mobile app cab 81. Choose (4,3) 83. Ravine 84. Cheekier 86. Layer 87. Increase 90. Primp 92. Finance 93.…

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Sina Moyane ‘I steer more towards a classic, subtle look.’ Any silhouettes or prints that you’re drawn to? I like a tailored silhouette. If I’m wearing an oversized shirt, flowy skirt or pants, at least one of the other main items has to be fitted. I steer more towards a classic, subtle look. The only prints I like are that of African fabric. Do you follow any trends? I used to, but over time I have become more comfortable wearing simple, timeless pieces. Having said that, my mother is from Mozambique, so I have a lot of traditional fabric, which I’ve taken to tailors to have African outfits made. I wear them more often than before. So my style has gone from being trend-driven to either classic and tailored or…

MobileGPT has the potential to democratise AI. START-UP COSTS: ‘MobileGPT is completely self-funded. I was able to save for a few years, while drastically cutting down my costs, to give myself a safety net to pursue my business Tati Digital Software Development and through that, work on MobileGPT.’ TURNOVER: ‘Today, we passed the 227000 mark of people who’ve used the app globally – and this number is growing as more and more people share MobileGPT with their communities.’ Ever wanted a personal assistant at your fingertips? Bertha Kgokong, a self-taught developer from Johannesburg and the founder of Tati Digital Software Development, launched MobileGPT in March this year. It’s a WhatsApp application that can generate text, analyse documents and websites, create images and documents, generate real-time research reports from the internet,…

Who doesn’t love a good hack? TikTok is a treasure trove of tips, especially on the topic of sleep – the hashtag #sleeptips has amassed more than 544 million views. Intrigued by the promise of a good night’s slumber, we went down the rabbit hole. There are numerous reasons for sleep struggles: the rising cost of living, load-shedding, life… If if you can find the trick to drifting off, it can be everything. And where better to seek your sleep hack than the hub of all hacks, TikTok? A word of caution to the uninitiated: TikTok brims with information, but you have to be discerning: much of it lacks professional validation. I selflessly embarked on a journey to test nine TikTok sleep hacks to determine what worked and what didn’t…

It’s hard to argue that your looks don’t affect how you’re perceived by the outside world. And, even though body-positive activists tell us to love ourselves just the way we are, we all know that being easy on the eye has its benefits. As Lizzo says, ‘It’s so hard trying to love yourself in a world that doesn’t love you back, am I right?’ What is pretty privilege? Between baked feta pasta recipes and the mouth-taping sleep hack (do not try it at home, kids!), TikTok is also the source of a lot of the recent discussions about pretty privilege – although we’ve been talking about attractive people being handed the world for millennia. It’s a concept that describes the advantages and benefits that some people who are considered physically…

IN today’s world, where instant gratification is just a click or a swipe away, INtoday’s many of us find ourselves trapped in a neverending pursuit of pleasure. Whether it’s scrolling through TikTok, binge-watching a Netflix series or indulging in sugary treats, our brains are constantly flooded with the feel-good hormone dopamine. But what happens when that quest for pleasure begins to dominate your life? That’s where dopamine fasting comes in. Understanding how dopamine affects us ‘Dopamine is a neurotransmitter: a chemical messenger that facilitates communication between nerve cells in the brain,’ says clinical psychologist Audrey Katsidzira. ‘It plays a pivotal role in the brain’s reward system by motivating behaviour and reinforcing pleasurable experiences.’ Furthermore, dopamine influences various aspects of brain function. ‘It significantly influences the regulation of memory, mood, sleep…

When we were there in September, one Czech koruna (1Kc) ˇ was equivalent to about 80c, so the one handy thing is that you can bank on prices being roughly the same in rand, and then you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the amount charged on your card. (It’s a lot easier than trying to convert everything into euros in your head.) Prague is not as expensive as some other European cities but it’s also not cheap, especially if you are eating out. The pastries atMysákˇ costabout68Kcˇ each, and the big vetrníks ˇ cost 138Kcˇ each. A beer can cost anything from 55Kcˇ to 80Kc. ˇ Attractions are quite pricey, so you need to do your research and be selective. We went to the Lego Museum, which cost us 300Kcˇ per…

Marcia, who is the founder and CEO of Millennial Mindset Media, is not just an entrepreneur but also a visionary who is shaping the future of digital marketing, empowering young people and having a positive impact on her community. Wishing to create inclusive spaces for black female creatives, she launched Millennial Mindset Media in January 2021. It is an agency that aims to uplift young people through an avant-garde approach to digital marketing. This is not your typical creative firm. It is a 100% black-owned and female-led business that focuses on personalised solutions and close client collaboration. But what truly sets it apart is its mission. ‘South Africa’s high youth unemployment isn’t just due to a lack of education,’ Marcia says. ‘Many talented young people are sidelined because of their…

AS a child of the ’90s, the phrase ‘teeth whitening’ always triggers a specific memory for me, of an episode of Friends: the one where Ross tries to impress a date by over-whitening his teeth – and hilarity ensues. As a result, I’ve always been a bit worried that a teeth whitening session might leave me with a glow-in-the-dark smile. (As Chandler asks, ‘What was wrong with your old… human teeth?’) Turns out, you shouldn’t base your opinions on sitcoms. Here’s the thing: I love coffee, and not so long ago, I smoked. (I know, I know. I have since kicked the habit for good, so I don’t need a lecture.) And I’m not what you would call a regular visitor to the dentist. What these confessions mean is that…

Buy macarons at bakeries or speciality food shops. Honey panna cotta with apricots in thyme syrup SERVES 8 HONEY PANNA COTTA • 15ml (3 tsp) powdered gelatine• 60ml (¼ cup) water• 580 ml (2⅓ cups) buttermilk• 125ml (½ cup) pouring cream• 175g honey APRICOTS IN THYME SYRUP • 500ml (2 cups) water• 175g honey• 10ml (2 tsp) fresh thyme leaves• 12 small apricots, halved and pits removed• 15ml (1 tbsp) lemon juice 1. TO MAKE THE HONEY PANNA COTTA: Sprinkle gelatine over the water in a small heatproof jug; stand jug in a small saucepan of simmering water; stir until gelatine dissolves. 2. Meanwhile, bring the buttermilk and cream to the boil in a medium saucepan; remove from heat. Whisk in honey and gelatine mixture; strain into a large jug.…

BONELESS GAMMON ENTERTAINER SMOKED BONELESS GAMMON R89.99/KG; FOOD LOVER’S MARKET This gammon was rich yet not too heavy, and struck a good balance between smoky and salty. It was juicy and had a lovely texture. Our tasters said it had the aroma of a classic Christmas gammon. LIMITED EDITION BONELESS GAMMON R98.99/KG; CHECKERS The meat held its shape well and sliced neatly, and it was delightfully juicy. The flavours were well balanced, with just the right amount of salt and a good smokiness. Some tasters found the flavours a tad subtle, and mentioned a slight artificial taste. UNCOOKED DEBONED GAMMON R109.99/KG; WOOLWORTHS This gammon was easy to carve, succulent and full of flavour. Brushing a glaze over it added a sweet contrast with the smokiness and savouriness of the meat.…

☞ Turn to page 165 for the solution to MegaXword 188, and to page 176 for entry details and winners’ names. ACROSS 1. Medieval farm worker 6. Secede (5,4) 11. Ham it up (4-3) 15. Surmise 16. Model 17. Mollify 18. Efficient 21. Great applause 22. Proclamation 23. Evaded (capture) 24. Flounce 28. Gentle strokes 30. Female servant 32. Stingier 35. Skips 37. Pedicured item 38. Yoghurt sauce 40. Make fresh appraisal 43. Probe 45. UK actor, Rhys … 47. Of punishment 48. Lodging firmly 52. Chapter in history 53. Period of three months 56. Variable 58. Dale 60. Scratchy 61. Horse 62. Compliments 64. Fond attention (1,1,1) 65. IVF cells 67. East US state 69. At an advantage (3-2) 72. Spiny-finned food fish 75. Splash (through) 77. Sensitive wound…

Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175 NB In these puzzles, each letter of the alphabet has been replaced with a number. You need to decide which letter is represented by which number. To start you off, we reveal the codes for a few letters. With these letters filled in throughout the puzzle, you’ll have enough clues to work out words and discover other letters. Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175 Solution on page 175…

MegaXword 1 MegaXword 2 Brainteaser 1 Brainteaser 2 Sudoku Word search Code words Cryptic 1 ACROSS: 1. Sandals 5. Hotel 8. Remorse 9. Rayon 10. Forcemeat 12. Eve 13. Lyric 17. Elf 19. Simpleton 21. Maori 22. Despite 24. Sprig 25. Leads on BELOW: 1. Scruff 2. Numeral 3. Air 4. Scene 5. Heretical 6. Thyme 7. Linger 11. Enlisting 14. Detains 15. Hermes 16. Intern 18. Flour 20. Model 23. Sea Cryptic 2 ACROSS: 1. Operational 7. Parasol 9. Pose 11. Cause 12. Girdle 14. Athleticism 18. Repine 20. Verse 22. Nark 23. Hurling 24. Dairy farmer BELOW: 2. Pursuit 3. Tilt 4. Aloud 5. Speck 6. Revel 8. Shelling 10. Discover 13. Sty 15. Servile 16. Grant 17. Verge 19. Parma 21. Chef…

Winners! Congrats to our WINNERS MegaXword 188 Jenny Bain from Somerset West Brainteaser 187 Michelle Vahl from Waterfall Katey Johnston from Pinelands HOW TO ENTER MEGAXWORD & BRAINTEASER The MegaXword and Brainteaser crossword competitions close on 15 December 2023. Scan or photograph your completed crossword and email it to puzzles@fairlady.com with MegaXword 190 or Brainteaser 189 in the subject line, and provide your name, residential or postal address, email address and phone number. Digital copies of the crosswords are allowed, but photocopies are not allowed. Delivery of prizes may take up to six weeks after notification. Also read the standard terms and conditions below. STANDARD TERMS AND CONDITIONS 1. Competitions and giveaways are open to permanent residents of South Africa over the age of 18. 2. Staff members of the respective prize…

We’re away for the long weekend. My husband, being the enormous fan of the Venter trailer that he is, has naturally brought it along. And this time, because there is water involved, on top of the trailer is his boat. He couldn’t be happier. It’s an old family cottage, so we know it well. He gets his boat into the water on the day we arrive, and tethers it securely in front of the cottage, the way he has done for years. Actually, I think ‘tethers’ might be more to do with goats than boats, but you know what I mean. You can see I come from a long line of nautical types. The next morning, he sets off for a meeting in town, and Twenty-Four ambles down to the…