Loneliness is multifaceted and comes in various strengths, flavours, and shades.
Not all forms are negative, require therapy, or can be “fixed” with having someone pop in.
Your (my) unique blend is best embraced. Denying or rejecting it, over time, will cost you. When identified and embraced, these many forms of loneliness offer opportunities for learning, opportunities for grace and opportunities for reflection.
They provide a springboard for diving inward, for self-assessment. Do it well and you will marvel at the beauty and the power of your creation.
Rejected or denied, it will surface as thick-skinned crassness, emotional plaque and relational arthritis. Unaddressed loneliness will transform you into an emotional defender (let nobody in) and/or attacker.
Loneliness, in some forms, comes in time to all of our lives, acknowledged or…