Dear Urban Diplomat,
I am well into my 30s and still go clubbing to unwind. Lately, my friends only want to attend silent, sober, daytime raves—but these things are like dressed-up networking events: too commercial, too annoying and, frankly, kind of embarrassing. They’re making me feel like a degenerate for wanting to drink while I dance the night away. When did wellness become so boring? What is this, Vancouver?
—RANTING AND RAVING, Little Portugal
UD: Health consciousness has always been boring, but most people make peace with that, usually around your age. If you want to exercise your God-given right to party until dawn, that’s your prerogative, just as it’s fine for your pals to choose abstinence over indulgence. It sounds like your issue is more that your friends’ lifestyles…