Indholdsfortegnelse for May 2019 i Cosmopolitan India

THE ART OF BEING PAINFULLY COOL Cool—the slang, not temperature—is more than just a phrase. It’s a lifestyle, a marketing guy’s mission, a hashtag with over 150 million mentions on IG. It’s the group we wanted to be part of in school, and the driving force behind many of our outfit, dating, and playlist choices. But what does it mean to be ‘cool’? It’s a complex formula, naturally, so we’re lucky that science is here to help. Last year, two scientists were arguing about whether actor Steve Buscemi was cool or not. Serious stuff. They were unable to arrive at a conclusion, so they decided to conduct a social-science experiment, enlisting the help of hundreds of students to sum up the exact nature of coolness. What they discovered was this:…

POSING IN FRONT OF A MIRROR If you’re looking at the camera instead of each other, you’re more concerned with outward appearances. This could be a new relationship—or you just want to give good face, says Blanca. SO. MUCH. KISSING. You’re young and in love, and you have zero boundaries—that’s for sure. Snapping a photo with your partner when you’re locking lips shows you desire each other and are proud to be together. TOUCHING HEADS “This isn’t for the casual couple,” says Blanca. If you’re close enough to breathe their air, you two aren’t in a FWB situationship—there’s a rock-solid intimacy here. STANDING WITH YOUR ARMS AROUND THEM You’re signalling that you have your partner’s back, says Blanca, but it’s sensual, too. When your chest, pelvic region, and legs are…

How many shots do you need to get a pic you’re happy with? 51% However many I can get in the span of one minute. Any longer is awk. 40% Putting a number on this minimises my process and my art. 9% Maybe one or two? Definitely fewer than three. Be honest: how many photo-editing apps are on your phone? 64% Two to five. 2% I’ve forgotten what I look like without them. 34% One, and I’m counting Instagram. What’s the most likely reason you’d ever delete a photo? 57% I no longer need 10 pictures of coffee with the Toaster filter and a border. 16% I don’t want my boss to see it. 27% It didn’t get enough Likes and we’ll never speak of it again, thanks. Have you ever…

STYLE IS MY BUSINESS Going on a beach vacay? Opt for a pair of cycle shorts and team them with a sweatshirt in a similar print. Throw on a straw hat and you’re all set for a day amidst the sun, sand, and the sea. BERMUDAS Knee-length and cut wide, bermudas are resemblant of skirts with the functionality of pants. For a feminine look, wear them with ballerinas. HIGH-WAIST HOTPANTS Tights with a high waist accentuate your butt and make your legs look longer. For best effect, French tuck your T-shirt or top. CYCLING Whether nylon, faux leather, printed, or solid: cycling shorts continue to be fashion forward. Tip: the longer the leg and firmer the fabric, the better. IT’S ROMANTIC Paper bag shorts can look both formal and casual,…

THE HISTORY The American hippy movement in the mid ’60s and the iconic Woodstock music festival in 1969 had famously linked this psychedelic print to ‘freedom, love, and peace’…making it a global hit. The trend, actually born centuries ago in Peru, returns in 2019 with some stellar appearances already. DO-IT-YOURSELF Although tie-dye stuff—shirts, skirts, shorts, pants, dresses, and everything else you can think of—has been invading shop windows lately, you can also make them yourself at home, and quite like a pro! Take the garment you want dyed, knot it several times, and immerse it in water diluted with bleach. Leave for a few minutes depending on how intense you want the design. The result: unique, and so you! OPTIONS GALORE It doesn’t matter how you choose to flaunt the…

SO, WHAT ARE THE NEW ESSENTIALS? 1 A SUPER-CLEANSER Remember the obsession with double, even triple, cleansing? Well, that’s over. Every time you wash, you strip away moisturising lipids and weaken your skin’s protective barrier. “Studies show that washing your face three or more times a day can actually cause acne and irritation,” says Dr Shari. The latest multi-functional washes are just as effective as the double cleanse method—they melt away make-up, dirt, and oil—but without all the negative side effects. And some, like Neutrogena’s, contain a patented cleansing technology that contains hyaluronic acid, which helps in cleansing effectively while protecting the skin’s barrier to help lock in hydration. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Hydrating Cleansing Gel, `670 2 A CUSTOM MOISTURISER Serums and moisturisers should come with a warning like ‘layer…

1 Shape Up Pointy nails (or stiletto nails, as they’re known in Beautyville) are trending ATM. You can either get a professional to shape your talons or DIY—the important thing is to adjust the length to your liking. 2 Buff Up Next step: buff the rough edges to create a smooth shape—this style looks fierce, but it makes your nails prone to breakage. 3 Prep Up Bright/dark shades tend to leave behind residual pigment. To ensure that your nail beds are left unharmed, apply base coat before starting on the manicure. 4 Master Strokes Whatever colour or manicure style you opt for—monochrome, dual-toned, galaxy-inspired glitter tips, or checkered—always keep a corrector pen close to fix any errors instantly. 5 Seal the Deal Finish up by applying a top coat—it doesn’t…

YOU’RE BURNED OUT: When you’re neglecting yourself, it’s natural to feel irritable, frustrated, restless, and other such strong, overpowering emotions…which then start affecting other areas of your life, including work and relationships. YOU DON’T CARE FOR YOURSELF: Another indicator that you have stopped prioritising yourself is your daily self-care habits such as eating healthy and on time, sleeping well, exercising, investing in social activities and hobbies, and the like. When one starts neglecting themselves and their needs, it adversely affects not just them but even those around them. In short, the only takeaway from these exhaustive to-dos is to start with the basics—put yourself on top of the priority list!…

From the chowing down of five portions of fruit-and-vegetables-a-day rule, to walking laps around your printer in order to meet your daily 10,000 steps target, there are certain health commandments that we’ve long taken as gospel. But what if we told you that most of the research behind these go-to fitness ‘facts’ is…how can we put this…flimsy? Because it is. So buckle up, we’re going on a fiction-debunking ride… THE MYTH AIM TO WALK 10,000 STEPS A DAY Says who? The World Health Organization (WHO), for one, and almost all fitness apps and trackers, for another. Past wisdom: Hitting 10,000 steps a day was seen as the way to help you lose weight while maintaining general fitness. Actually… The whole idea was dreamed up by a Japanese marketing team in…

THE PODCAST Conversations Of Inspiration Holly Tucker, Founder of online boutique, notonthehighstreet.com, dishes out big-boss smarts and interviews with similarly impressive leaders to ask their advice. Holly.co/podcast THE BOOK The Making Of A Manager: What To Do When Everyone Looks To You Written by Julie Zhuo, consider this read your ultimate starter pack, complete with genuinely relatable examples and illustrations. Out now, `479, amazon.in THE TED TALK The Discomfort Zone Farrah Storr, the ex Editor-In-Chief of Cosmopolitan UK, explains why we fear the unknown in life and work—and exactly how to conquer it. Youtube.com…

“During my first year in college, I went out with a guy from my class. He wore a ‘bros before hoes’ T-shirt to the date. I tried not to judge but he turned out to be a narcissist. I spent the rest of my college life avoiding him.” —ESHA V., 21 “I was on a date with this super-hot guy and I was really excited about it. That lasted for about 10 minutes until he asked me if he could cup my boobs and guess my bra size. I ran the hell out of there.” —RIYA S., 30 “When I was dating my ex, I told him about some of the things I had learned from past dating experiences. He told me his ex-girlfriend was at uni getting her PhD,…

Q Is there a striking summer make-up trend that’s also easy to cop? A: SS19’s pop eyeliner is super-easy to create. You can use any kind of eyeliner for the same—gel, liquid, or pencil—depending on what you like and are comfortable with. But if you don’t have a steady hand, pencils are easy to use. A few things to keep in mind when going for bright, bold eyes are a) always use a lid primer, it helps the product glide on better and last longer; and b) keep the rest of the look minimal—never team bold eyes and lips together! As for the shape, there are no set rules anymore. You can go for cat eyeliner, graphic, abstract—the beauty world is your oyster. Q Summer season = acne. What can…

Something weird happened the other day. Instagram told me I should start following someone named Ilaria Urbinati. Never heard of her. But I was curious, so I tapped, only to be lured into scrolling through dozens of paparazzi and redcarpet shots of…hot guys wearing clothes. Bradley Cooper, Nikolaj Coster-Waldau (Jaime Lannister from Game of Thrones), John Krasinski, Tom Holland, Chris Evans, and other go-to phone background options were all over her feed. Great find—thanks, scary-good algorithm! But this wasn’t a stan account. Ilaria is actually the professional stylist behind these celebs’ unique looks. Normally, I’m just scoping these guys out for pure eye-candy consumption. But this time, I didn’t want to zoom in on Bradley’s baby blues—I wanted to purchase his bow tie. As women, we’re all conditioned to develop…

BRUNCH Your friends will compliment you on your elegant new ‘duster’…and only you will know the cozy truth. Etro, `1,03,076 WEDDING Yes, it’s possible to attend one in loungewear—especially if you add extra-glam accessories. Gucci, price on request WORK Red lace + dramatic sleeves = a speakeasy mood. Soleil Atelier, `11,500 GIRL TIME What can be more fun than a casual-chic chica who can rock a playful robe? DKNY, `6,244 NIGHT OUT The perfect replacement for your over-the-chair sweater. H&M, `2,299…

SILVY MEHTA, 22 “I’m totally crushing over flared jeans ATM—they’re roomy and sexy, and perfect for summer. I like using accessories to play up a look, and my Serpenti bag and patent-leather boots do the job well.” SRUSHTI POREY, 19 “On most days, I love hanging out in my favourite pair of jeans and a comfy T-shirt. To keep the look from getting monotonous, I like knotting up the tee to lend a cool vibe.” EKTA BASU, 25 “My personal style is sporty-chic and sneakers feature on the regular in all my looks. While this blazer-and-shorts combo could have been formal, my accessories (backpack, sneakers and round sunnies) ensure my look is anything but boring.” MILONI GILTIWALA, 19 “Neutral co-ord sets are a great investment. I’ve taken the cazjh route…

1 DO THE TWIST DIFFICULTY: 1/3 Brock Collection’s SS19 look takes third-day hair from greasy to glam in the blink of an eye. Start by spritzing locks with dry shampoo and creating a centre parting. Then, “take the front section of hair from above each ear and pull them into a small ponytail on the top of your head,” says hairstylist Ken O’Rourke, ambassador for Charles Worthington. “Hold onto the base of the ponytail and move it around to loosen the hair and create body at the front.” Finally, bring the pony back to the centre of your head, twist into a bun and pin in place with kirby grips. Top knotch. 2 CATCH A WAVE DIFFICULTY: 2/3 Chanel’s Spring/Summer beach-babe coiffure will get you in the mood for some…

Here’s Your Problem… This is what’s supposed to happen when you use dry shampoo: you spray or shake it onto your roots and then oil-absorbing powders soak up grease and neutralise odours. When you brush out your hair a few minutes later, the gunky powder theoretically gets brushed out too. Easy, right? Yeah, except that most of us just spray, wait exactly three seconds, then haphazardly rub at our roots as we’re running out the door—giving the product zero time to work its magic. So when a hairstylist recently told us to use it differently, our beauty brain malfunctioned. …and Here’s Your Solution The key is to apply dry shampoo at night, instead of in the morning, to give the powder plenty of time to soak up new oils and sweat…

Q: Should my Q. fiancé and I tell each other how many people we’ve slept with before we get married? A: Honestly, what’s the point? If you’ve made it this far in your relationship without revealing your numbers, and have just said yes to a lifetime of (presumably) having sex with only each other, whatever sex you’ve had in the past is a non-issue. Trust us, knowing exactly how many people your fiancé banged—and vice versa—is probably only going to get under your skin. “It’s much healthier for couples to share what they’ve learned from past relationships about their likes and dislikes in the bedroom,” advises Emily Morse, US-based sex expert and host of the podcast Sex With Emily. “This info can actually help you have better sex.” Q: I…

WHY DOES IT WORK? No, The Golden Girls isn’t having a revival…but your granny’s favourite tea-time dunker is fashion’s hot new shade. Worried you’ll look like a sad, old cracker? Brands like Burberry and Balmain, along with celebrities such as Gigi Hadid, are proving that, with elegant tailoring and modern accessorising, read: dressing like a biscuit can be more flattering than you’d think. COLOUR MATCH Avoid the dreaded washout—beige with yellow undertones flatters warm skin, and beige with pink undertones works for cooler complexions. Still not sold on head-to-toe? Incorporate complementary neutrals, such as brown, blush, or white, to break it up. SHAPE OF YOU The number-one rule for not disappearing into a blob of crumpet-y colour is to wear at least one structured piece. Some neat tailoring, like Gigi’s…

—The Anonymous Author “If you met me, you wouldn’t be able to tell that I’m in a same-sex relationship for the last three years. Quite like a heterosexual couple, we don’t want sexuality to define us. We live together, bicker over big little things, share daily chores and holiday expenses, and sleep in the same bed. It is 2019, after all, and we are not criminals in our country, courtesy of the Supreme Court partially striking down Section 377 last December. The secret life, however, fades in the selective company of friends, colleagues, and family. And we have found liberation in living honestly; should it matter then that our building members know us as ‘family friends’? If you met us, you would be able to tell that we are practical…

1 Wearing a low bun to avoid hair dents. There’s speculation that Meg’s signature loose hairstyle serves another purpose: she can easily unpin it at night, and avoid those annoying, unwanted bumps. 2 Using a clutch to conceal cleavage. Princess Diana whipped out this clever move to prevent nosy photographers from snapping revealing pics. 3 Hiding weights in their hems. Stewart Parvin, one of Queen Elizabeth II’s couturiers, says he sews them into HRH’s clothes to prevent unfortunate wind-related wardrobe malfunctions. 4 Buying their shoes a size too big. ‘What blisters?’—Meg, when she wears roomy heels that don’t rub her skin. 5 Sneaking out in a bodysuit instead of a blouse. The Duchess of Sussex is very busy and doesn’t have time to tuck in her tops, TYVM. Enter: this…

the space you’ll save in your suitcase. We’ve all been there: trying to stuff, like, three too many pairs of shoes into a suitcase right before heading to the airport. No matter how carefully you line them up at the bottom of your bag, you’re still left breaking a sweat as you edit out clothing and struggle to zip the case shut. But why pack a bunch of clunky things you’ll only wear once when you could bring a midblock heel that goes with everything and goes everywhere? This is a rhetorical question, clearly. MORE SHOES THAT WILL MAKE YOUR FEET HAPPY…

SWIPE IT ON CHEEKS The texture reflects light the same way a powder or cream highlighter does, but never looks chalky on skin. “Just pat a tiny bit on the apples of your cheeks and blend it out toward your ears,” says Geo. TRY M·A·C Lipglass in Clear, `1,600 TAP IT ON EYES Drop your brushes, palettes, and powders: glossy lids look just as fire as your go-to smoky eye (and take a quarter of the time). “Put a few dots above your lash line, then use your finger to blend it up towards the crease,” says US-based make-up artist Geo Brian Hennings. TRY Estée Lauder by Violette Eye Gloss in Sheer Scandal, `2,100 LAYER IT ON LIPS It’s time to break up with your mattes, because gloss is easier…

SAVE A BAD HAIR DAY… Haven’t had time to wash your hair but still want to look fabulous? We learnt an easy hack to wave bad hair days goodbye. If your hair’s greasy, spray on a little water from the roots to the mid-shaft—don’t soak it, just a few mists will do. Follow it with a texturising spray on just the damp areas. The water disperses the oil, and the texture spray gives hair lift and body. RECHARGE YOUR MANE The new Wella Professionals Invigo is the quick recharge fix you need! Inspired by nature and powered by technology, the Wella Professionals Invigo range, comprising four sub ranges (Color Brilliance, Nuti-Enrich, Volume Boost, and Balance), designed keeping in mind different hair types and concerns, will leave your hair refreshed and…

Whether you’re majorly emosh ’coz you’re going through a massive heartbreak RN or you’re experiencing relief after finally getting out of a toxic relationship, it’s crucial to mourn the end of a relationship, the right way. A breakup is a detrimental process, and the way you deal with it could make or break you as a person. Now, we’re not suggesting that you cry your heart out or anything, but we’re also not not suggesting it… A girl’s gotta grieve and our Troubles Of The Heart playlist will coach you through this delicate time in your life. We’re going to start off our pack of tunes with sombre ballads to help you get it all out of your system. Then, we’ll move on to more chill and pensive tunes, before…

If you can’t love yourself, no-one will,” my mum has said over and over again. I didn’t realise how important her advice was till well into my 20s, when I questioned why guys I liked didn’t treat me the way mum said I deserved. Why would they, when I shush anyone who pays me anything even remotely close to a compliment? I didn’t believe I was awesome, so why would some random guy think so? But things have changed a lot since I turned 30. With the big 3-oh, you learn to just accept yourself for who you are. Better yet, you learn to celebrate all those chunks, clumps and lumps that add up to perfection, aka YOU! Before you go looking for Mr Right, stop for a second, and…

First, there were the chewable tablets and the gummy versions your mom gave you in school, then the fruit-snack-style supplements you popped in college. Now, vitamins have adopted an edgier aesthetic. The west is teeming with ads for vitamin-infused vape pens—candy-coloured sticks that emit thin wisps of smoke. Issa wellness mood, right? Companies market these disposable vapourisers (or non-nicotine e-cigarettes) filled with supplements, like Vitamin B12, on social media, as the cool new way to get your nutrients. There’s just one problem—they might not work at all. “There’s no evidence that inhaling vitamins through vaping has any benefit,” says US-based pulmonologist, Dr Humberto Choi. And they aren’t regulated by the FDA, so there’s no way to confirm they contain what they say they do. Also, since it’s a relatively new…

You’ve finally left behind the office coffee run. There are people to do it for you now. And you no longer have to hustle your way to payday by rationing your fancy dinners. But with such perks of promotion come challenges. Scary challenges! Like managing the team. Tricky at any age, but even more so when you’re younger than your reportees (something that’s becoming more common as 34% of managers are now millennials, according to a 2018 survey by Totaljobs). Whether you’re climbing the corporate ladder or managing your own start-up staff, here’s everything you need to know about being a young boss. THE PROBLEM You’re Friends With Your Colleagues One minute you’re downing drinks and sharing 4am car rides with them, the next you’re having to call them out…

To create Jacqueline’s expressive eyes, apply the beige shade from the Glitter Me All Dreamland Eyeshadow Palette to prep lids. Using the fluffy part of the eyeshadow blending brush, apply the pink hue, and blend it well. Next up, a thin eyeliner (using the Colorbar All-Matte Eyeliner), line the waterline using the Just Smoky Kajal, and finish up with a couple of coats of the Colorbar Zoom & Whoosh Mascara to get long, fluttery lashes. Define and fill in the brows with the Stunning Brow Pencil—don’t make it too strong, this look demands softer, more natural-looking eyebrows. We’re always crushing on Jacqueline Fernandez’s flawless make-up. And this time around, while shooting for Cosmo’s May cover, we found out the secret behind the same. Here’s how you can create this girl-next-door…

Model: Shonali Singh at Inega; Fashion Interns: Janvhi Jaiswal and Rupal Vaid; Fashion Assistant: Simran Handa; Location Courtesy: JW Marriott Mussoorie Walnut Grove Resort & Spa…

PURPLE PATCHES “These are hardly looks for shrinking violets, but you don’t want to look like a circus act either,” says US-based make-up supremo James Molloy. The trick? Keep shades tonal. “Nyasha [this page] wears fuchsias (1) all over, while Alice [opposite] teams maroons (2) on cheeks and eyes with her top.” Snaking strands of emeralds (Okay, green diamanté) demand a slicked-back bob. “Blowdry hair as smooth as possible after misting a blowdry spray [3]; it gives natural hold, helps thick or coarse hair dry faster, and heat-protects,” says Charles Worthington ambassador Ken O’Rourke, the hair magician on this shoot. Next, wield your straighteners section by section, bending your bob inwards at the bottom, and mist with a shine spray [4].” LOOK BOLD CAN HUGE ’80S-STYLE EARRINGS LOOK CHIC? YES,…

Taurus 20.04–21.05 You’re crushing it right now, thanks to this being your season. And on the 15th, your ruling planet, Venus, enters your sign. This happens once a year, and for a month, you’re feeling extra gorge. Oh, and did we mention you’re a total money magnet now, too? Thrive, baby! Gemini 22.05–20.06 Feeling off? Slow-paced Taurus season can make you grumpy. On the notso-sh*tty side, residual energy from April keeps your social life busy enough to distract you. And don’t worry, it won’t last forever—your season starts on the 21st. Cancer 21.06–22.07 Thanks to leftover Aries-season energy, you’re feeling the heat—whether your coworker keeps shading you in e-mails or you’re in a silent war with the roommate stealing your snacks. Let off steam by hanging with your BFFs—May wants…

ON THE COVER Amit Aggarwal— The Kila, Seven Style Mile, Mehrauli, ND. Deepa Gurnani— www.deepagurnani.com. ON THE DIGITAL COVER Marks & Spencer— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. FASHION Aadikara— shop.gaatha.com. Abhishek Sharma— B-32, B Block, Sector 4, Noida, UP. Accessorize— Select CITYWALK, Saket, ND. Adidas Originals— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Aldo— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Almost Gods— www.almostgods.com. Akaaro— F-344/2, Ground Floor, Lado Sarai, ND. American Eagle— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Anamika Khanna— The Kila, Seven Style Mile, Mehrauli, ND. Armani Exchange— DLF Mall Of India, Noida, UP. Aruni— www.notjustalabel.com. Ash Amaira— 54-B, Ground Floor, Khan Market, ND. BCBG Max Azria— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Bottega Veneta— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Burberry— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Call It Spring— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Calvin Klein— DLF Mall Of…