First things first: Let’s stop referring to beautifully and authentically weathered furniture as distressed. There’s no torment to be found in a piece that has aged naturally. Consider, for a moment, any of these alternatives: wellloved, well-traveled, time-tested…. A piece of antique furniture—we’re talking real antique, not faux “aged”—evokes a certain seen-it-all wisdom that instantly grounds a room. Like the wrinkles and laugh lines that come with experience, each nick and scratch has a unique and hard-earned story to tell, whether it’s the well-worn spots from another lifetime, or the memories of your own making (a not-particularly-gentle move up three flights of stairs to a first apartment, perhaps?). Scuffed-up furniture also reflects an era when things weren’t so darn disposable, and when items were thoughtfully and painstakingly handcrafted to age…