1 MAINTAIN FULL ACCESS
to all credit cards, bank accounts, statements, etc. Getting an “allowance” from your husband implies a power differential that shouldn’t exist in an equal partnership, says Kim Pentico of the National Network to End Domestic Violence.
2 MAKE ALL DECISIONS
regarding spending and saving jointly, regardless of which partner earns or has more money. “If you feel even a hint of being bullied about money, talk about it,” advises Pentico. “But if you’re too afraid to bring it up, that’s a red flag.”
3 GET A CREDIT CARD
solely in your name, versus being an additional user on your husband’s account. Use your card now and then, and always pay on time. “It’s important to establish your own credit, even if you’re in a great relationship,”…