AFTER MY BABY was born, my doctor insisted, “No sex for six weeks.” No problem, I thought. I didn’t want anyone to touch my broken, sliced-up, tired, excessively fleshy body. I imagined it’d be years before I was ready. But I was surprised to find my libido return with impressive gusto, if not entirely back to normal, very shortly after I settled back in at home.
My six-week postpartum checkup consisted of a quick peek and a poke at my business, feet in the stirrups, headlamp, blue paper gown. It went well and my doctor gave my husband and me the okay to get busy. My guy was chomping at the bit and I was happy to oblige as well, eager to find some semblance of normalcy in my life…
