Finally, someone has confirmed what we’ve long suspected. “The CURSE is REAL,” Brandy “The Boy Is Mine” Norwood, 38, wrote on Facebook recently, sharing a story about how most of the men who’ve dated Kardashians have had their lives ruined. She even compared the phenomenon to Get Out, the hit horror movie about (spoiler alert!) body snatchers who target young black men. Brandy would know — her brother, Ray J, 36, was the family’s first victim! He famously co-starred in a sex tape with then-girlfriend Kim, 37, helping launch her to fame in 2007. “She’s still not over Kim using him and thinks he dodged a bullet breaking up with her,” a source tells In Touch, adding that Brandy also blames the family for destroying her old pal Kanye West,…