The power of encouragement! “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never harm me,” says the little song, despite its vast inaccuracies.
Bones heal. Bones, I believe, can become stronger as a result of healing.
Harsh words, hard, misspoken comments, put-downs, slams, insults, double-edged “compliments” can stay with a recipient forever. They can be replayed, chorus-like, all through a person’s life. I have known people to be inflicted with fresh pain years after a toxic volley has been delivered.
Of course this is so! I bet you can recall word-for-word what some misguided teacher yelled at you when you were knee high to a grasshopper.
You might not still carry the pain, but some do. I’ve met them.
Responsible, accurate, sincere affirmations can inspire a child, guide…