“There’s just no communication!” around here.
Many times I’ve heard multiple versions of, “the problem in this relationship (family, business, school, church, charity, hospital, whatever) is there is just no communication”.
This is usually the mantra of those “outside” of decision-making processes. It is especially repeated when those on the “outside” are either supposed be on the inside, according to their roles, or who think, correctly or incorrectly, they ought to be.
There is NEVER “no communication”. Individuals, groups and leadership teams are constantly communicating.
The breakdown is the failure to hear, “read”, discern, or believe what is being communicated.
It takes a mix of courage, honesty and risk to discern what is being communicated in a “living system” by those who claim there is “no communication”.
The “no communication”…