Indholdsfortegnelse for 13 August 2018 i New Idea

Former Dancing With The Stars judge Todd McKenney has dropped a bombshell about his ex-boyfriend, revealing that Simon Gallaher, 59, went on to marry his sister Lisa! ‘She married my ex-boyfriend and is still married to my ex-boyfriend but has never mentioned it to me. It’s weird isn’t it? I don’t think I’ve ever spoken about it publicly,’ Todd, 54, revealed to Ben Norris on his Word For Word Podcast. Todd dated Simon for five years when they were much younger. ‘We did Pirates Of Penzance together... then we split up. I went on with my life and he went on with his,’ he said. ‘I remember I was doing Cats ... the other guys…

Two crowns and a royal orb belonging to the Swedish royal family were swiped from the 13th century Strangnas Cathedral in a robbery last week. The daring heist was carried out by thieves who then made a swift exit on a waiting speed boat. ‘One of my friends saw two people running,’ a witness told the Aftonbladet newspaper. ‘I saw the boat was there – a white little boat with a motor on the back. The two men hurriedly jumped on board. We contacted the police and told them. I knew immediately that they were burglars because of the way they were behaving,’ he added. The crown jewels, which were insured, are made of gold and adorned with precious stones and pearls, but their exact value…

They’ve struck up close friendship, now the Duchesses of Cambridge and Sussex have some exciting joint baby news: they could give birth on the same day! Sources tell New Idea the royal sisters-in-law Kate and Meghan are both trying to have babies and could already be pregnant. Even more exciting, the chances of them having a double birth announcement is highly likely. ‘No-one in the palace would be surprised if they wound up being due on the same day,’ an insider reveals. According to the source, Meghan and Harry have made no secret of how they’d love to have a baby as soon as possible and are trying to fall pregnant. Prince Harry’s recent selling of his Audi RS6 Avant has also fuelled rumours that the couple are expecting. Harry…

It was the poignant moment Jennifer Aniston realised she wanted to have a baby. Holding the cute little girl in her arms, a source close to the actress tells New Idea these touching photos show the exact time the former Friends star decided she wanted children in her future. ‘Up until Friends, Jen hadn’t really ever thought about having a baby,’ says the insider. ‘She was of course also married to Brad and they were very much in love – but they hadn’t started to talk or even think about starting a family.’ ‘ALL THAT CHANGED WHEN SHE HELD BABY “EMMA” FOR THE FIRST TIME... JEN GOT REALLY CLUCKY’ But when Jennifer, in her role as Rachel Green in the hit show, met the little girls – twin actresses Noelle…

Mocha Cheesecake Dessert Slice Serves 15, Prep: 30 mins 2 tblsps instant coffee granules 12 sponge finger biscuits (160g) 300ml tub thickened cream 2 tblsps icing sugar mixture 30g Flake chocolate bar, crumbled FILLING 200g dark cooking chocolate, chopped ½ cup thickened cream 250g block cream cheese, chopped, at room temperature 250g fresh ricotta ¾ cup icing sugar mixture 1 Grease an 18cm x 28cm rectangular slice pan. Line base and sides with baking paper, extending the paper 3cm above pan edges. 2 Dissolve coffee in ¹/ ³ cup hot water in a small jug. Pour into a shallow dish. Cool slightly. 3 One at a time, dip biscuits into coffee mixture for about 5 seconds on each side, or until just soaked. Arrange in a single layer over base…

MONDAY Steaks with Brussels Sprouts, Bacon and Pine Nuts Serves 4, Prep and Cook: 20 mins 300g punnet baby Brussels sprouts, trimmed, halved 1½ cups frozen peas 600g chat potatoes, quartered 4 x 200g beef sirloin steaks, trimmed 2 tblsps olive oil 1 small red onion, halved, thinly sliced 125g short cut bacon rashers, chopped ¼ cup pine nuts 165g sachet traditional liquid gravy, to serve 1 Cook sprouts and peas in a large saucepan of boiling water for about 2 minutes, or until tender. Drain. 2 Place potatoes in a microwave-safe dish. Add 1 tablespoon water. Cover with damp absorbent kitchen paper. Microwave on High (100%) for about 8 minutes, or until tender. Drain. Cover to keep warm. 3 Meanwhile, heat an oiled, large frying pan over a medium…

When Courtney Cox and her daughter Coco recently spoke about their relationship they captured the challenges of most mothers and their teenage daughters. ‘I want her to tell me everything, and she doesn’t want to tell me anything,’ the former Friends star said of her 13-year-old. Coco went on to explain that while they were very close they did ‘get in fights’. While tension and outbursts seem to be par for the course in mother/teenage daughter relationships, a new book gives practical advice for navigating this time of your life. Psychologist Dr Sarah Hughes wrote Skip The Drama (Exisle Publishing, $29.99) after working with hundreds of teen girls and their families and finding they deal with similar issues. As she says: ‘Parenting has always been a tough gig, but parenting…

Dear Megan, Your hands fall into the conical category. These types of hands often develop a love of the finer things in life. Quality is usually preferred over quantity. Most conical hands cultivate an appreciation for literature and or creative/artistic pursuits. Your thumbs seem well balanced and the flexibility indicates an overall flexible nature. It should be easy for you to see things from a variety of perspectives. There are three relationship lines marked on the hand that will be of the most significance over the duration of your life. The lines on the left hand display some strong family ties that lean toward a sense of obligation and expectations, while the right hand displays a willingness to expand beyond the traditions or restrictions of outdated modes of thinking. This…

KNEE DEEP My friends and I were discussing our favourite animals. ‘I love meerkats,’ I declared. MM, who was only half listening piped up: ‘You love kneecaps?’ His question certainly gave my girlfriends and I a good laugh! DIANNE BLANCHARD, WATTLE GROVE, WA. STALE TALE Anticipating eating the last piece of cake that I had been saving I found it had gone. On asking MM if he was the culprit he informed me he had eaten it to save it getting stale!!! NERIDA MITCHELL, PEAKHURST, NSW. HALF WIT MM husband had made a delicious waffle batter for our waffle maker but complained that he had made too much and couldn’t eat it all before it went off. ‘Just make half next time,’ I quickly suggested, meaning half the mixture. ‘But…

Aussie singer-songwriter and dancer Tim Omaji – aka Timomatic – shot to stardom as a contestant on So You Think You Can Dance back in 2009, and later appeared on Australia’s Got Talent, placing third in 2011. Since then, the talented performer’s career has gone from strength to strength. Not only has Tim had hit singles and supported acts like Flo Rida and Salt-n-Pepa, he is now a judge on the new TV show Dance Boss. The 30-year-old is also set to appear in the upcoming musical Madiba, which celebrates the life of Nelson Mandela – something he tells New Idea is a ‘dream come true. But despite his busy schedule, he isn’t planning on slowing down. In fact, Tim is ready…

Signing off after 30 years reading SBS’s news, Lee Lin Chin’s exit has left industry insiders nervous about where the queen of Australian TV news might head next. Word is that Lee Lin could find herself on Channel Ten’s The Project . ‘Her popularity with the younger demographic would be something Ten would be keen to capitalise on,’ a source told The Daily Telegraph . The quirky newsreader also told Ten Daily that she would be ‘happy’ to move to the network. ‘I would be very happy to read the news on a casual basis in the future if someone were willing to have me... I’m sure I could give Ten a ratings boost.’ With show host Carrie Bickmore about to go on maternity…

O sher Gunsberg, who has previously admitted he suffered from body dysmorphia, anxiety and depression, recently unveiled his amazingly buff body for the latest issue of Men’s Health. The Bachelor host underwent a 10-week MH challenge that saw him come off his anti-psychotic medication and discover the blueprint to change his life. Going from 83kg down to 76kg, the 44-year-old admitted: ‘When I started the challenge, I knew I had to put something in place of where the meds had been. ‘What I’ve found these last few months is that my response to triggers has just been dulled so much. I’ve found a way to take the edge off the world again through exercise,’ Osher said. Osher has openly discussed his issues with mental health in the past and he…

We’re only one week into the new series of The Block and contestants are already at breaking point! At the centre of the drama are newlyweds Sara and Hayden. This week, the pair get into a heated altercation when Kerrie and Spence charge them for delays experienced in their bathroom. Hayden and Sara then decide to charge Victorian team Carla and Bianca, who refuse to pay. ‘This altercation had a flow-on effect, because Keith and Dan started attacking me,’ Sara says. ‘They approached me with an aggressive tone and accused me of creating a ruckus.’ However, Sara reveals to New Idea she’s not too concerned about how the other contestants see her. ‘I always said I was going to come in and be 100 per cent…

Meghan is known for her love of luxe interiors, and her nursery is sure to have the Markle Sparkle. It’s no secret that the duchess has been dreaming of creating the perfect nursery for years. It’s likely she’ll add Moroccan touches as she did in her flat in Toronto, where she mixed Danish hygge – a quality of cosiness – with North African patterns. It’s also probable that Meghan will head to Princess Diana and Kate’s favourite interior design store, Dragons of Walton Street, for plush furnishings. Meghan may also look to add a few touches from Irish brand Shnuggle, a company that makes innovative baby products. Earlier this year while visiting Ireland, she spoke to the owners, and was visibly delighted as she inspected the classic Moses basket as…

George and Amal Clooney brought the Hollywood glam to Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s nuptials back in May, and it looks like they could be adding some star quality to Princess Eugenie’s wedding too! Despite the unlikely connection, George and Amal are actually good friends with the couple. Jack is the UK brand ambassador for Casamigos Tequila – the liquor company founded by George Clooney and his friends Rande Gerber and Mike Meldman. And with Eugenie’s recent visit to the UN headquarters, there’s no doubt that the kind-hearted princess has plenty to discuss with human rights barrister Amal.…

Is there trouble in paradise for seemingly happy married couple Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher? After attending the LA premiere of Mila’s new movie, The Spy Who Dumped Me , Ashton appeared to storm off from the afterparty when he saw his wife cosy up to Justin Theroux on the red carpet. The pair were seen having a heated discussion as they left their car and, after Ashton went off in a huff, Mila was once again seen getting close to her handsome co-star. Mila recently admitted she has a quick temper, and even had a ‘blow up’ with Ashton’s family. ‘We just so vehemently disagreed on a specific issue that, to me, is very important,’ she admitted on Marc Maron’s podcast. ‘But I was like, by…

It’s hard to believe, but this month marks 15 years since Australian Idol first hit our screens in an unforgettable debut series of tears, tantrums and harsh truths. Paulini’s infamous gold dress, judges Ian ‘Dicko’ Dickson and Mark Holden’s public spat, and Shannon Noll’s What About Me song choice are just a few of the now memorable moments that kept the fans tuning in. But it seems that after all this time, some of the music reality TV show’s famous faces are still hung up on the past. Rather than celebrating the talent show’s anniversary, they have started to turn on each other in what is becoming one of TV’s ugliest war of words. ‘THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO WHEN YOU SHINE A LIGHT ON THEM…

He’s been known for striking up bromances with potential suitors, but TV insiders say things aren’t so rosy between The Bachelor host Osher Gunsberg and leading man Nick ‘The Honey Badger’ Cummins. According to a number of sources, the testosterone-fuelled tension was running high between the show’s leading men throughout production of the entire season. On-set crew members were overheard revealing this series was the ‘toughest shoot yet’, with host Osher and Cummins ‘losing respect for each other, episode after episode.’ While filming has now officially wrapped, the battle between the boys is far from over. Osher and Nick are set to go head to head once again – this time in publishing. Both stars are set to release high-profile books at exactly the same time,…

‘AS A NURSE, YOU MEET PEOPLE EVERY DAY WHO MAKE YOU WANT TO BE A BETTER PERSON’ The hospital has long been a second home for Sophie Dillman – and for one of the best reasons. The popular star was a registered nurse before she landed the ongoing role of bubbly newlywed Ziggy Astoni in Home And Away. And while Sophie may be relishing every minute on the hit Seven drama, she certainly doesn’t harbour any regrets about her former career. ‘As a nurse, you meet people every day who make you want to be a better person, and I think that’s why a lot of people nurse,’ she reflects thoughtfully. There’s no doubt, too, that 25-year-old Sophie has been able to draw on her medical experience for current scenes…

Amethyst hadn’t been expecting her lover that warm summer’s afternoon. Her fiance Adam* – who shared her home – was at work, so when her secret paramour arrived unannounced 11 years ago, she grabbed the opportunity. She believed this kind of infidelity didn’t count – mainly because her lover was a ghost! ‘I’ve always been able to communicate with spirits,’ explains UK-born Amethyst, now 30. ‘But it wasn’t until I was 18 that I had my first spirit romance. After that, they’d come and go – so to speak! They’d make their presence felt in a number of ways – by moving stuff around the house or by stroking me when I least expected it. One even used to draw little hearts in the condensation on the windows.’ Amethyst had…

Roasted Pumpkin and Beans with Honey Mustard Dressing Serves 4, Prep and Cook: 40 mins 1kg butternut pumpkin, peeled, cut into 4cm pieces 400g green beans, trimmed 1 tblsp red wine vinegar 1 tblsp Dijon honey mustard 1 tblsp drained baby capers ¹/ ³ cup flaked almonds, toasted 1 Place pumpkin in a large roasting pan with 2 tblsps olive oil. Toss to coat. 2 Cook in a hot oven (200C) for 20 minutes. Remove. Add beans. Gently turn to coat in oil. Return to oven. 3 Cook for a further 10 to 12 minutes, or until vegetables are tender. Remove. 4 Meanwhile, combine vinegar, mustard and 1 tblsp olive oil in a small jug. Whisk well. Stir in the capers. 5 Place pumpkin and beans on a serving plate.…

Scrub 6 large Sebago potatoes. Cut a deep cross on each potato, three-quarters of the way through. Wrap individually in foil. Place on an oven tray. Cook in a hot oven (200C) for about 1 hour, or until tender. Open out foil. Stand for 15 minutes. Using a clean tea towel, gently squeeze around the middle of the potato to open top. HORSERADISH AND HERB CREAM Combine ¼ cup horseradish cream with ½ cup sour cream. Season with salt and pepper. Top each hot potato with 1 tblsp of the mixture. Garnish with chopped chives and parsley. MEXICAN JALAPENO SALSA Combine2/3 cup mild chunky salsa with 2 tblsps bottled, finely chopped, sliced jalapenos. Divide evenly among potatoes. Sprinkle ½ cup grated Tasty cheese over tops. Arrange potatoes on an oven…

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ARIES MAR 21 – APR 20 Supporting a loved one through an important change or sharing special plans with someone dear will add a new dimension to your relationship. A project or pursuit close to your heart may change direction and could also cost a pretty penny, while people who share your passion will offer pointers and exciting ideas. A new social scene will be fun but challenging – listening and learning will guide you through. LUCKY NUMBERS: 6, 24, 26 TAURUS APR 21 – MAY 21 Complex family issues will come to the fore this week. There will also be an important occasion or project to organise and you’ll need to guide a loved one through a difficult decision and defuse tensions between family members. Financial plans for the…

Q I’ve got a group of girlfriends from school I see once a fortnight for a catch-up, which I’ve always loved. But now they are all married with kids, the talk revolves around babies, childcare and school, and as I’m single and don’t have any children I feel a bit left out of the conversations. They never ask what’s going on in my life with work or relationships so it’s a bit upsetting. Should I say something, or just start excusing myself from catch-ups? ANGELINA, VIA EMAIL. A Don’t miss out on the catch-ups – these are friends you have known since school. Obviously your life has gone in a different direction. I would attend the next catch-up and speak up. You love hearing all the news of your friends’…

JACK AUCTIONS UNUSUAL ITEMS Jack, nine, was born with the gift of the gab and dreams of becoming an auctioneer. Usually practising in his backyard, Jack gets to try his hand on stage this week auctioning off some of Shane’s more intimate items. But will the audience want a piece of Shane? Well, you will just have to wait and see... SHANE FLAMENCO DANCES Believe it or not, Shane shakes his booty! Alongside Spanish Flamenco group Las Torbellino de Estepona, Shane does his best to twirl and stamp with the girls. Claudia, eight, Alicia, nine, Inmaculada, 10, and Irene, 10, all began performing after being enchanted by the Andalusian music and fiery dance. BELLA HITS A BULLSEYE In the most jaw-dropping moment of the week, you will be blown away…

Sam Heughan has become a household name after portraying the dashing Scottish highlander Jamie Fraser in hit drama Outlander, but now he is ditching the kilts in favour of something a little more debonair. Yep, the actor is heading to the big screen, having taken on a new role as an agent in action-comedy film The Spy Who Dumped Me alongside Hollywood A-listers Mila Kunis and Kate McKinnon. Audrey (Mila) and her best friend Morgan (Kate) become entangled in an international conspiracy after Audrey discovers her ex-boyfriend Drew (Justin Theroux) is a spy. To make matters worse, he shows up at her apartment with a team of deadly assassins on his tail. With the help of the charming British spy Sebastian (Sam) the girls must go…

Standing in the middle of a paddock, somewhere outside Mudgee, with one bar of reception on his phone, Rodger Corser is talking to New Idea about the upcoming third season of Doctor Doctor , which is about to wrap production. When the hit Nine Network series returns, his character, bad boy surgeon Hugh Knight, has completed the period of probation that saw him banished to his small country home town of Whyhope. So why is Hugh still hanging around in the country? There’s a family tragedy, and then in the will, he’s given responsibility he doesn’t want and has to clean up some financial mess, so it’s a good reason for him to have to stay in town. If Hugh decides the country life is for him,…

Appearing on Andrew Denton’s show Interview , Keith Urban has opened up on the time his wife Nicole Kidman organised an intervention to help him get sober. ‘My wife put an intervention together. It was love in action. It was divine,’ Keith confessed to Andrew. The country music crooner also talked about his demons and his long relationship with addiction. ‘No matter how good my life was, I just got high, I was an equal opportunity addict!’ He also admitted he was unable ‘to put into words’ how much Nicole’s support meant to him and that when he first met her it was the beginning of his new life. ‘I learned to be in a relationship. I was terrible at it. I was struggling with all kinds…

Mission: Impossible – Fallout star Tom Cruise is set to move into a luxurious two-storey condo located on Cleveland Street, Florida, just a stone’s throw from the Church of Scientology. The multi-million dollar property boasts a 39m lap pool, rooftop garden and kitchen, outdoor dining area, and a flight simulator. The penthouse palace has been in the works for a few years, and also features a private entrance, vehicle elevator, and a garage with room for nine cars.…

Former Australia’s Got Talent star Jack Vidgen looks remarkably different from when he was a baby-faced 14-year-old kid starting his career. The singer boasted a new plump pout and refined cheekbones as he posed up a storm on Instagram recently. Jack has undergone an amazing transformation in recent years, with many fans suggesting he’s indulged in cosmetic procedures to change his look. Maybe a few nips and tucks here and there, Jack?…

While we regular folk battle our way through winter in the Southern Hemisphere, these cashed-up royals are jetsetting through the European summer... one luxurious location at a time. LADY KITTY SPENCER  Princess Diana’s niece really has been living the good life. The model has been summering in Italy, where she has visited the idyllic Portofino and Lake Como, as well as Rome. ‘La vita e bella,’ she captioned this shot of herself having a Sophia Loren moment on the balcony of the swanky Villa Medici in Rome. PRINCESS TALITA VON FURSTENBERG  The 19-year-old German princess and granddaughter of fashion designer Diane von Furstenberg has visited Spain, Austria, Israel, France, and Greece in the space of two months! Jealous? We sure are! PRINCESS MARIA-OLYMPIA  Currently on a break from her studies…

He baffled fans last week with a bizarre Instagram video featuring himself combing his bushy beard, but the mystery of Russell Crowe’s facial fluff has been revealed. The Hollywood star has apparently been growing his beard for the film adaptation of Peter Carey’s bestseller, The True History Of The Kelly Gang . According to The Sydney Morning Herald , Russ, 54, will be playing bushranger Harry Power. This will no doubt delight fans, who weren’t exactly overjoyed with his hairiness! ‘I can’t wait for you to finish with this part and return to the hot, sexy man we all know you as – lol. Mmm like Gladiator days,’ lamented one.…

Last week the late Heath Ledger’s ex-partner Michelle Williams admitted she had secretly married musician Phil Elverum. Heath’s father, Kim, revealed he was thrilled for her. ‘She’s very private and I don’t really like to make too many comments about her, but we are very happy [for her],’ Kim said. Actress Michelle added of her relationship with Phil: ‘Ultimately he loves me the way I want to live my life on the whole,’ she stated. ‘I am finally loved by someone who makes me feel free.’…

She’s midway through the Australian leg of her Beautiful Trauma world tour and it appears the laid-back, Aussie way of life is suiting pop star Pink very well. Wearing a skimpy bikini, the 38-year-old appeared not to have a care in the world as she showcased her amazing body during a family outing to a beach in Byron Bay last week, with husband Carey Hart, 43, daughter Willow, seven, and son Jameson, 19 months. The Just Like A Pill singer recently revealed the secret to her incredible figure is a ‘miracle’ $5 diet hack. Trainer Gregory Joujon-Roche explained that the mum-of-two likes to kickstart her day with a coconut water, avocado, blueberries, and flaxseed oil smoothie. In the past, Pink has admitted that she takes maintaining her health seriously. ‘I…

He might be one of Hollywood’s leading men, but actor Justin has revealed that he was still a victim of a cheating ex! In an interview with E! , Jennifer’s ex-husband admitted he caught a former girlfriend in the act of doing the dirty on him while they were in college. ‘I walked in on a girlfriend after coming back to her, like we were separated in the summer – I was working and she was crying on the phone to me all the time going like: “It’s our last summer together,”’ Justin admitted. ‘And I came back, and she was schtupping a guy who was like, in her bed.’…

Performer Casey Donovan has opened up about her long road to body acceptance in her tell-all book, Big Beautiful And Sexier . In the intensely personal account, the 30-year-old reveals that her weight has yo-yoed throughout her whole life. Despite trying to control her body with fad diets for years, the Australian Idol winner reveals it was only when she accepted her weight as part of her that she found happiness. It’s thanks, in part, to her manager, who talked her into doing her Big, Beautiful And Sexy tour. ‘These three simple words capture amazing positivity and helped me change my perception of myself,’ she says in the book. ‘Once I started saying positive things about myself and stopped wanting to be in…

Warm Cinnamon Muffins with Jam Sauce Serves 6, Prep and Cook 1 hour Cooking oil spray 2 cups self-raising flour 2½ tsps ground cinnamon ¾ cup caster sugar ¾ cup buttermilk 125g unsalted butter, melted, cooled 1 egg, lightly beaten 2 tsps vanilla bean paste Extra 25g butter, melted Extra 2 tsps caster sugar Double cream, to serve JAM SAUCE 1 cup frozen raspberries ½ cup raspberry jam 1 Spray a 6-hole Texas muffin pan (¾-cup capacity) with cooking oil. 2 Sift flour and 2 tsps of the cinnamon into a large bowl. Stir in sugar. Add buttermilk, butter, egg and vanilla. Stir to combine. 3 Divide evenly among prepared pan holes (½-cup in each). 4 Cook in a moderately slow oven (160C) for about 30 minutes, or until a…

DO SOMETHING EXCITING TOGETHER Considering booking in a date night with your beloved? Forget a romantic dinner for two at your local favourite restaurant – instead, experience something new together. In a report published in The Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, researchers did a 10-week study comparing couples that engaged in pleasant activities versus exciting ones and found that those couples who had undertaken the exciting date nights showed a significantly greater increase in marital satisfaction. When you both feel excited it brings the tingles back. Consider going to see a band play, riding a roller-coaster, or book into a dance class; something out of the ordinary for you both. SHARE THE HOUSEWORK It may seem like a no-brainer, but it helps when it’s backed by scientific proof !…

Q My husband passed away eight years ago. I’ve met another man whom my son hates. He doesn’t want me to be with this person as I’m not divorced, so he thinks in his eyes I’m still married. I need to know if my husband feels the same way? Sandra, via email. A Sandra, your kids’ happiness is up to them now. When they were little you made decisions for them so their happiness was in your hands. They are now in control of their destiny. It feels to me like your son is trying to control you by guilting you in to doing what he wants. He’d rather you be alone and unhappy than with someone and enjoying your life, which is kind of selfish. Your son won’t like…

CLASS ACT Congratulations New Idea for your story Happy Kids Learn (NI July 9) as this was a most worthwhile article. Every child is different, and success can be achieved based on the talents a child is born with. Parents will soon discover what motivates their particular child and this is what must be encouraged. My mum and dad were crazy on books and used to take it in turns to read to us kids each night. My elder sister enjoyed reading and writing and has ended up being a professor in English but she was hopeless at maths! I, however, found maths fascinating and my dear dad encouraged me so much that I have followed this in my adult life. Parents should never compare their children to other kids…

SPOILT FOR CHOICE After claims she was difficult to work with in her early 20s, Katherine Heigl said: ‘I’m not going to deny there was some arrogance. I was feeling pretty untouchable and pretty on top of the world.’ We can relate, Katherine. We were a bit smug working at Macca’s back in the day. PANTS ON FIRE Apparently, Paris Hilton was ‘just stating a fact of life’ when labelling Lindsay Lohan a pathological liar. Really? So, now in schools they’re going to learn about the birds and the bees and off-the-rail former child stars? STRIP OFF ‘If I can get on TV as hideous as I am, I give people hope,’ Shane Jacobson said of his recent strip on The Real Full Monty . Hmm, we…