For many people who have suffered a loss, the holidays can be particularly hard no matter how much time has passed. Here, experts share tips to help.
REMEMBER: GRIEF IS PERSONAL
“There’s no one way that people grieve,” says Judy Ho, Ph.D., clinical and forensic neuropsychologist and author of Stop Self-Sabotage. That means that how you process loss can differ greatly from how someone else does (even if you’ve lost the same person). You may also experience a grieving process from non-death-related incidents like divorce or the end of a job or a friendship.
THERE’S NO TIMETABLE
Feelings such as sadness, anger, depression, and anxiety can bubble up at any time—days, months, or even years after the event. “Grief isn’t linear; it’s more circular. Some people grieve for years,” Ho…