He’s been around the block a few times–and he’s got answers
DEAR MILES,
Some nonrunner colleagues asked me how my marathon went. As I told them, their eyes glazed over. If they’re just asking to be polite, how should I respond?
—NATALIE B., Cleveland Succinctly. Yes, they are asking to be polite—which is a nice thing, by the way—so return the favor by keeping your reply brief. From an office-banter point of view, running a marathon is like having open-heart surgery—they’re both daunting, scary events, and no one wants the gory details. What your colleagues are wondering: Are you okay? And: Does it hurt? Let them know, quickly, and then smile and ask how their weekend was. If they really want to hear more, point them to the 5,000-word race…