Jennette McCurdy hated being Nickelodeon’s poster child, said Ashley Spencer in The Washington Post. She co-starred on the hugely popular sitcom iCarly from 2007 to 2012, and later in a spin-off series opposite Ariana Grande. “There was this half of my life that was so cheesy and polished,” says McCurdy, 30, “and then there was this other part of my life that was so painful, and that part was going completely unseen.” She grew up poor in Orange County, Calif., and started acting because of her abusive stage mother, Debra, who dictated every aspect of McCurdy’s life. Debra, who battled breast cancer, gave McCurdy showers until she was 16, which included breast and vaginal exams—to check for cancerous lumps, she claimed. “I thought, ‘Oh, Mommy and me have a…
