Indholdsfortegnelse for March 2015 i True Love

As a mother of an eight-year-old girl, I was touched by the in-depth article about child brides (page 114) and couldn’t imagine my daughter being married off to some old man at her tender age. It’s my responsibility to protect her no matter what. The other day, I was reminded of her innocence when I mentioned she can’t watch a movie with me because of its age restriction. The film was going to expose her to obscene and violent scenes. So you can imagine how I felt when putting together the article about girls probably her age who are married off young and exposed to domestic violence and multiple rapes. Statistics show that more than 700 million women alive today were married as children. More than one in three (approximately…

60S THE BIRTH OF THE SUPERHERO The iconic black leatherette onesie gave birth to the jumpsuit and brought out Catwoman’s super-sexy persona. 70s UNISEX ERA You could trust singer Diana Ross to arrive at the notorious Studio 54 rocking the trend. From monochrome to metallic, Miss Ross became the face of the jumpsuit. 80s DISCO QUEENS Local girl group Joy were the queens of disco-inspired jumpsuits. Featuring sequins and cut-out detail, the costumes were practical for those “get-down” moves. 2015 ON THE RUNWAY Designers like Dior, Pucci and Ralph Lauren put a girly spin on blue overalls with belts, zippers and epaulette detail. 2014 WEDDING BELLS Singer Solange Knowles took the jumpsuit to a new level of cool during her wedding last year with this chic Stephen Roland number with…

GET HER LOOK: THE RED POUT Keep on trend by taking your cue from the stars on the red carpet. Lupita Nyong’o sported a hot scarlet lip at the Screen Actors Guild Awards. Mimic her look by wearing a deep red lipstick or lip gloss when you’re going out. Line your lips with a lip liner of the same shade, and then apply your lipstick for maximum effect and to keep it on for longer. GET ARMANI FRAGRANCES With giorgio Armani Si range of fragrances, you’re sure to find your individual perfume that speaks to you. The GIORGIO ARMANI SI LUMINOUS is for a woman who’s charismatic and sophisticated, powerful and magnetic. The perfume marries notes of blackcurrant nectar with modern chypre and light musky wood. The GIORGIO ARMANI SI…

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Victoria Beckham is looking extra glamorous and beautiful. “I’m wearing Margiela this evening. I love wearing my own designs but I also like to celebrate other designers, there are so many great designers out there. I am a fan of Margiela and this outfit just seemedperfectforalovelysummer’snight in london. Isn’t london great when the sun is shining?” The former Spice girls turned businesswoman is in high spirits. Her eponymous fashion label was hailed as brand of the year at the 2014 British fashion Awards. She was also named uk’s most successful entrepreneur, based on strong sales, the number of jobs she’s created and her estimated wealth overall. Mrs Beckham ended 2014 with another business venture — a luxury nail polish duo in collaboration with nails Inc. The two limited-edition shades are…

“The first time it happened, we were driving with my partner to my parents’ home to fetch our son, who was a year old at the time. We were talking and somehow ended up arguing. He stopped the car and started punching me. He took me by the neck and told me he was going to kill me. I was so afraid and in tears because I’d never experienced violence in my life. When we got home I told my mom what had happened, but he denied it. I didn’t share this with anyone else as I was afraid of what people would think of me because he’s very good at portraying himself as a perfect guy. He’s a well-known SA Rugby referee (name withheld). I met him in 2003…

I started gaining weight after my first child in 2009. When my grandmother passed on in 2010, I went to buy a dress for the funeral. It was a size 42. When I tried it on at home, it was small. I was shocked. After the birth of my second child in 2012, my weight had increased tremendously. A few months later I went to donate blood. When they checked my weight, I was 114kg heavy. looking back, my weight shouldn’t have been a surprise because I was binge eating. I’d finish two litres of juice or cool drink in 10 minutes. I also had a stash of all the food that was bad for me like chocolates, koeksisters and wine gums that I’d keep in the cupboards in my…

When naturopathic physician dr Peter d’Adamo released a book titled Eat Right 4 Your Type in 1996, it caused a considerable stir. The ideal diet, he proposed, was not a one-size-fits-most affair, but one that should be tailored according to blood type, which he claimed determined the workings of your chemistry and the functioning of your immune system. Cleverly, there was no mention of weight loss, only of “achieving your ideal weight”. It provides an alternative for those seeking optimum health, rather than offer a temporary corrective slimming plan for mere cosmetic reasons of vanity. despite skepticism of the premise on which d’Adamo’s plans were based, and criticism of the lack of evidence presented in his book, many latched on to the romantic idea of one’s “lifeblood” holding the answers…

Gone are the days when headscarves meant Erykah Badu-esque heavy headgear. Pull hair back using a hairband and style it in an up-do or a voluminous bouffant. Ed’ s tip: Summer 2015 go-to colour is tangerine. From printed bucket hats aka spotties to bold coloured flat caps, wearing headgear has never been cooler. Wet hair using a gel to show off the just-showered finish. Ed’s tip: Forgo blusher and opt for bronzer to highlight your cheekbones and nose. Nothing camouflages unwashed hair like a loose plait. Depending on the length of your hair — section it and plait two braids or you can just opt for a single one. Ed’s tip: The bare face is made glam with a structured fuller brow. Get the look by using a liner to…

We know what we want in the bedroom, and we want to enjoy sex as much as men do. To fully reap the benefits of pleasurable sex — whether alone or with a partner — we have to be actively involved in introducing creative ways of exploring our bodies and sexuality. understanding our bodies and knowing what turns us on will greatly boost our confidence when engaging in sexual activities. LOVE YOUR BODY Sadly, some women are ashamed of their bodies, particularly their genitals. This is why some prefer to have sex in the dark or under the covers. However, learning about your body and understanding how each part functions will help you accept it as it is. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. So, learn about your vulva and…

LEMON, PEA AND SPINACH COUSCOUS Serves: 4 Prep time: 35 minutes IngreDIenTs 2 tbsp avocado oil 2 spring onions, chopped 1 lemongrass, chopped 150g mushrooms, chopped 1 bunch spinach, finely chopped 1/2 red pepper, finely chopped 1 cup couscous 1 cup vegetable stock 1 cup dry white wine 1 cup frozen peas, defrosted 1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese MeThoD 1. In a saucepan, add avocado oil, onion and lemongrass and sauté until onion is translucent. 2. Add spinach and mushrooms and sauté for 5 minutes until spinach is wilted. Bring stock and wine to boil and add to couscous, stirring until all liquid has been absorbed and grains have doubled in size and portion. Add spinach mixture, peas, red peppers and cheese and mix. 3. Serve garnished with…

Boris was born in Vienna and grew up in Freiburg, Germany. His full name is Boris Frederic Cecil Tey-Natey Ofuatey Kodjoe. He’s fluent in German, French and Spanish. Here are more facts about him: He planned on becoming a professional tennis player, until he suffered a serious back injury. His mother, Ursula, comes from Germany and his father, Eric, hails from Ghana. The sexy actor was a highly successful model working for big brands like Gap and Ralph Lauren. He met his wife, Nicole Ari Parker, on the set of Soul Food and they went on to star in the movie Brown Sugar together. He watched his sexy love scenes in Addicted with his wife sitting right next to him. MOVIES ADDICTED A successful businesswoman Zoe Reynard (Sharon Leal) seems…

IN LOVE WITH TRUE LOVE I lost my son on 21 February 2014, when he was only five days old. I was depressed and admitted to a psych hospital. I went back home and became suicidal. In September 2014 I bought TRUE LOVE when I saw my favourite celeb, Dineo Ranaka, on the cover. Her story encouraged and helped me realise I will rise above the challenges someday. I gained weight due to depression and found comfort in food, but your health and fitness features are helping me get my body back through exercise and healthy eating. The December issue stands out for me as the article on page 52, “Heroines for Hope”, touched me deeply. I was diagnosed with HIV in 2002 and I kept it to myself. I…

THE CROP TOP THE DASHIKI CELEBS WHO LOVED THE TREND… THE HEADWRAP THE HEADWRAP CAN TURN ANY CASUAL ENSEMBLE INTO A MOD STREETSTYLE-CHIC LOOK IN AN INSTANT. FINISH IT OFF WITH BOLD ACCESSORIES. ED’S TIP If you feel The Dashiki is too traditional for you, try amplifying your outfit by adding a bold headwrap to your look. Take your cue from some of our local celebs who rocked the trend.…

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Hailing from Atteridgeville, Pretoria, Caroline was nominated for the makeover by her best friend and business partner, Mosele Maloleka, for being an inspirational and phenomenal woman. At seven years old, she was molested and at age 16, she suffered a horrific gang rape. Now a divorcée, Caroline was physically and emotionally abused in her three marriages. Moreover, she was diagnosed with cervical cancer, but with her zest for life, she survived it. Currently, she’s a motivational speaker and life coach, and is often invited to MC various events. Her mantra is to encourage women to speak up and stand up for their rights even in difficult situations. ESTEE LAUDER and STYLEDIVA pampered Caroline with a full makeover and a photo shoot fit for the star she is. Asked about her…

Tissue salts are the 12 inorganic minerals first discovered by Dr Wilhelm Heinrich Schussler to occur naturally in your body. Dr Schussler found that administering minute doses of these 12 inorganic nutrients could help correct imbalances and promote healthy functioning of the cells and tissues in our bodies. By identifying with the predominant symptoms associated with each of the tissue salts, you will be able to determine which tissue salt number could be most beneficial for you to help restore balance in your body. #1 Calc fluor. Helps maintain tissue elasticity Calc fluor is beneficial for conditions where connective tissue has lost Its elasticity and hardened or become too relaxed: Cracked or chapped skin; Calluses on hands or feet; Tendency to enlarged or varicose veins. #2 CaIc Phos: Calc phos…

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Storms will come when you are on your way to fulfilling your destiny. This was recently experienced by a young woman who came to me broken. She had just left university after two years of hard work and late nights without a degree. Her parents had been killed in an accident and she was forced to forsake her dreams and become a parent to her siblings. “Bishop, why did god take my parents away from me after I have loved and served Him for so long?” she asked. Her world had changed overnight and she had to learn that life takes its cause and doesn’t wait for our permission to welcome the challenges we come be tested. This girl had a dream and it seemed that nothing could take it…

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When she first graced the cover of TRUE LOVE in 2006, Unathi spotted a gorgeous afro. In 2013, when her success saw her on the cover of TRUE LOVE again, Unathi elegantly wore her hair in micro braids. Since then braids have become her signature style, showing us different ways to wear them. MICRO BRAIDS Braids are versatile and easy to style. When rocking the red carpet, Unathi prefers an updo that is chic, but she’s open to other styling options. “I enjoy experimenting with different sizes and textures with my braids, just to add a touch of pizzaz,” says the Idols SA judge. PLAITS AND CORNROWS Braids can cause hair to break. To keep the hairline healthy, Unathi alternates with cornrows, which are much kinder to the hairline when…

She looks like an angel and your natural inclination as a parent is to yield to her every need and request. But beware! Being overindulgent can lead to a child with underdeveloped social skills, as she understands relationships as only about receiving and not giving or sharing. She might also be lacking in life skills, as she’s always dependent on you to solve her challenges. As an adult, your child will find it hard to cope with the demands of life, much the same as the child who’s been neglected. Setting age-appropriate boundaries will help her learn about taking responsibility and respecting others. It will also encourage her to solve problems without relying too much on your input. Flicky Gildenhuys, a parenting educator, says: “Teaching your child concern for others…

The most talked about restaurant in Joburg’s Maboneng Precinct, The Blackanese, recently opened its doors to TRuE lOvE. The sushi and wine bar is a true reflection of Asia meets Mzansi. Owner and head chef vusi kunene developed a love for sushi while working at other restaurants. When the opportunity came to open his own eatery in Maboneng, he didn’t waste time and opened a one-of-a-kind establishment. vusi chose an urban township-chic look with an afro-fusion feel. décor elements include chopsticks on the wall and red and black bowls as light covers. Old barrels are used as tables with glass tops. The bamboo stick balcony has a distinct look, separating the formal dining area and the lounge. The bar’s open plan counter top offers enough space for the patrons, chefs…

THÉ ORIGINAL, ORIGINAL CHUTNEY ASK ANY SOUTH AFRICAN TO NAME THEIR TOP fiVE FAVOURITE HOMEGROWN BRANDS, AND MRS BALL’S CHUTNEY WILL UNDOUBTEDLY RANK AMONG THEM. THE HISTORY Mrs Balls is one of South Africa's most treasured food brands launched in 1871. The story begins in fish Hoek, where Amelia Ball began making chutney using her mother's secret recipe, and her husband, Herbert Saddleton, sold it while working as a superintendent at the railway station. The chutney was so popular the Ball family had to buy bigger premises in Woodstock, and in 1971 opened a factory in diep River in order to keep up with the demand. In April 2013 Mrs Ball's joined the Tiger Brands stable of iconic South African brands. DID YOU KNOW Table Mountain, the Kruger National Park…

BOOKS MASANDA NTSHANGE talks about his debut novel, The Reactive, and what he's reading right now. I VENTURED INTO writing because of my love for reading. MY FAVOURITE LINES in my book are the first line: “Ten years ago, I helped a handful of men take my little brother’s life”, and the last: “This is your older brother, Lindanathi, and I’m ready to react for us.” I DON’T HAVE a book I wish I’d written but I remember thinking something similar regarding An Obedient Father by Akhil Sharma. DURING A fiRE I’d grab the closest book at hand. Right now, it’s from my night stand, Ralph Ellison: A Biography by Arnold Rampersad. IT’S HARD TO say whether South Africans read enough or not. But there’s been a noticeable rise in…

Top designers Michael kors, Oscar de la Renta, karen Walker and diane von furstenburg are endorsing the gingham trend, bringing it to you in ready-to-wear fashion. The pattern has undergone a serious makeover — no longer a tablecloth, it’s the biggest textile trend in fashion this year. These fOMO-inducing items can be worn to the office with clashing prints or bold colours.…

I’m the founder of Twelve12, a company specialising in styling individuals and video shoots, as well as wardrobe organising. I also play an ambassadorial role for personal and corporate brands to influence young consumers. I also model part time and I’m the Woolworths #StyleBySA 2014 winner. My style is always changing. It depends on my mood and what’s going on in my life. Right now it’s very chic, sexy, fun and flirty. My first fashion buy was a pair of white pointed heels when I was 13. I recently wore them again. I wear my high waisted jeans from TopShop the most. They fit perfectly and look great with everything. My black witchery oversized sunglasses take my look to the max. Louis Vuitton handbags are smart, classy and chic. Tosoni…

Jessica nkosi is the new darling of local television, starring in two big productions, Isibaya and Ayeye, which are currently airing in prime slots on the dStv bouquet. She is one of the few fortunate actresses who, with no work experience, secured an acting gig soon after graduating in 2012. “I’d just completed my studies at the university of kwaZulunatal when I heard about auditions for a short film. I sent in my photos and, shortly afterwards, I was called in to audition. A few weeks later I was offered the job.” And just like that, Jessica found herself in the much-loved and watched telenovela-turnedsoapie, Isibaya, which has seen a steady increase in viewership and is giving other established soapies a run for their money. “Before all of this, I…

Having participated on several united nations and Commonwealth missions, lindiwe Mokate has dealt with human rights issues on a broad scale, going beyond our borders. “I’m responsible for education and children’s rights in South Africa, but I’m not limited to that. last year I led a delegation to Swaziland, where we assessed the human rights situation following a request from the Commonwealth Association. In 2013, I went to the Maldives to observe their presidential elections,” she says. As a commissioner at the South African Human Rights Commission (SAHRC), Mokate’s main job is to address complaints involving human rights violations, which have been reported to and investigated by the provincial manager. “I’ve been with the SA Human Rights Commission for more than 12 years. I was also the CEO,” she says.…

CELEB SLIM DOWN When award-winning songstress Toni Braxton tweeted, “I do the fish fillet with mustard and tomatoes instead of having the side salad. Less calories,” many were intrigued at what kind of diet she was on. Her secret weapon? Robert Ferguson’s Diet Free Life. From macaroni and cheese to soul food like black eyed peas, you can eat all your favourites, as long as they comply with the challenge you take on. Visit www.mydietfreelife.com to check it out. reLAx & resTore Prana & Co Wellness Lounge is a health sanctuary situated in Illovo, Johannesburg where you can get make-up coaching, nail treatments, tailor-made body pampering, life coaching and more. Whether you want to revive your health and body or just look your best, Prana is the place to be.…

J.LO She’s always knew what she wanted and was prepared to do whatever it took to do get it. J.Lo financed her own singing and dancing lessons from the age of 19, dividing her time between working in a legal office, dance classes, and dance performances in Manhattan clubs at night. Today, she is a Golden Globe-nominated actress and a Grammy-nominated singer. She also owns a clothing line (J.LO) and a restaurant, and her fragrance Glow by J.Lo is said to have made history by being the top-selling perfume in more than nine countries in four months. MARIAH CAREY Her voice was voted the greatest in music on MTV and by Blender magazine readers. How did she do it? Well, she began singing around the age of three, with her…

Whether you are saving to buy a house, upgrade your car or you want to boost your pension fund, there’s no better time to start thinking about safeguarding your finances than now. “Peopleoftenpushfinancestothebackoftheirmind,thinking, ‘I’ll deal with it when I get there’,” says Anita nail, consumer editor for vouchercodes.co. uk. “later they are surprised when they can’t get a home loan or have enough money for the wedding they desire because they didn’t save enough.” Wanting security for the future is one thing, but most of us are guilty of everyday slip-ups that can have a longterm effect on our financial stability. With new research showing that one in seven people takes on an extra job just to keep their heads above water, here are smart solutions to get your finances…

I once knew a couple who had a classic “gangsta love” relationship. They each rocked a gold tooth and, despite having moved out of the township to the suburbs, they still spoke “tsotsitaal” (a township street slang) and had unconventional ways of making money. They were so interesting to watch, particularly because they were completely oblivious to what a rare occurrence their finding each other was. However, they’ve since broken up and those who knew them would admit that it would be another rare occurance for them to ever find lovers who’d be such a perfect fit. Queen nkomo, a life coach with an interest in relationships, says: “Every relationship has a persona, which is a representation of the interaction cycles that the couple goes through, creating patterns of predictable…

SPOT YOUR VASE Vases are a firm favourite on the interior-decorating scene, and you’ll find at least a few to suit your personal style at leading retail shops. A decorative vase doesn’t need to be filled with flowers, just find the perfect spot for it in your home. The crackle cut out bottle vases are available at Mr Price Home range from R180. Visit www.mrphome.com. GET CREATIVE WITH BEER Beer, with its varied flavours and textures, makes an excellent ingredient when cooking. Celebrity chef and MasterChef judge, Pete Goffe-Wood, says beer is an excellent accompaniment to food. Make flavourful dishes by including it in your cooking or pair it with your favourite meal, such as serving a malt-flavoured beer with your chicken dish or pizza, or enjoying your burger with…

CHILLI CHICKEN STIR-FRY Serves: 4 Prep time: 30 minutes IngreDIenTs 3 tbsp avocado oil 4 chicken breast, cut into strips 1 red onion, sliced 1 tbsp garlic, crushed 1 tbsp ginger, minced 2 chillies, chopped ½ red and yellow peppers, sliced 100g sweetcorn 100g fine beans 2 carrots, cut into matchsticks Sea salt and black pepper to taste Light thick soy sauce MeThoD 1. In a large skillet/wok, heat avocado oil and fry the chicken until slightly browned on all sides. Remove from heat and set aside. 2. In the same wok/skillet, sauté onion, garlic, ginger and chillies for 1 minute. Add all vegetables and stir-fry, for 10 minutes. Return chicken to wok/skillet and pour soy sauce, stirring until all flavours are combined. Serve with bread. SPICY MINCE PITA Serves:…

PISCES (19 FEB – 20 MAR) Make this birthday month about you. Aim for your highest goals and don’t be deterred by doomsayers. Be bold and brave. Keep a food diary and aim to be as healthy and fit as you can be. Love: Showing your emotions makes you feel vulnerable. Listen carefully to what is being said after mid-month. You’ll also benefit from some indulgence. work/money: Your ideas get some traction from the 13th. Get the boss to pay attention. Prove yourself and show your dedication. ARIES (21 MAR – 19 APR) Trailblazing is one thing but moving so fast that you are becoming a blur is quite another. Stick to the speed limit and avoid causing trouble, if possible. Love: Have fun, even though affairs of the heart…