I lost my mother when I was sixteen. She always made clear to my sister and me that we were winners, that nothing could stand in our way—not opposition, not sexism, nothing. We were strong Irishwomen, and Irishwomen push through. Her conviction propelled me into politics, into the speaker’s chair of the New York City Council for eight years, and, in 2013, into the mayoral race. And it seemed for some time that my mother had been prescient. The poll numbers, public opinion, and conventional wisdom all told a consistent story: I would win the race and make history as the first female, and first openly gay, mayor of New York City.
And so I ran out of the gate, through the five boroughs, full of joy and momentum. I…
