So many women spend their 20s, 30s, and 40s trying to please everyone, afraid of making waves, worried that if they don’t say yes to every meeting, work project, and dinner invitation they’ll disappoint their friends, families, or bosses. But there comes a moment midway through life when we begin to ask the glorious question, Hey, what about me?
“In your late 40s or 50s you realize, I don’t have to say yes to everything!” says Emmy-winning television journalist Tamsen Fadal, author of How to Menopause. “When I was younger, friends would always want to come stay at my apartment in NewYork City, and I would always accommodate them, even if it meant I couldn’t go to the gym or eat what I wanted or keep my own schedule,” she…
